Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

Brehs need your help:

Girl went to the club last night with her friend she calls me on her way to her friends house saying she just wanted to hear my voice before she went out. We chop it up for a bit then I tell her to text me when she get there and when she gets home she says cool. We say our love you'd and hang up.

I stayed up cleaning and watching movies because my dumbass had my pre workout too late because of a late workout so I had hella energy.

Anyway it's 3:30am I text her like thanks for texting me
She responds with I'm still at the club babe.
I respond with the club closes at 3am
(Mind you let out is 2:30am)
After I sent her that I haven't heard from her since.

I'm pissed I feel disrespected or am I just over exaggerating? I think it's just common courtesy when someone says text me when you get home you do so.

We were suppose to hang out today honestly I feel like telling her fukk that.

If a woman is with you, she shouldn't be going to the club in the first place. The fact that she didn't see fit to text you tells you her mind was preoccupied and you also saw she floated you a lie. Me personally, it sounds like she was dealing with some dudes. If you have to deal with that now, imagine when you're really serious with her and she's still going to the club... telling you she can't make it home and decided to get a hotel because her and her homegirl didn't want to drive home drunk. A million things are going to be running through your mind.

Women keep doing stuff like this because they know no matter what they do, they will have the guy come back to them and chill with them. It's hard to do, but I personally feel a man has to stand on respect and keep it pushing. A lot of these women don't even have BASIC courtesy. You told her to text you when she got out and she couldn't do that and told you what looked to be a lie in the process. Women who can't show basic courtesy aren't worthy of a man's time.

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

If a woman is with you, she shouldn't be going to the club in the first place. The fact that she didn't see fit to text you tells you her mind was preoccupied and you also saw she floated you a lie. Me personally, it sounds like she was dealing with some dudes. If you have to deal with that now, imagine when you're really serious with her and she's still going to the club... telling you she can't make it home and decided to get a hotel because her and her homegirl didn't want to drive home drunk. A million things are going to be running through your mind.

Women keep doing stuff like this because they know no matter what they do, they will have the guy come back to them and chill with them. It's hard to do, but I personally feel a man has to stand on respect and keep it pushing. A lot of these women don't even have BASIC courtesy. You told her to text you when she got out and she couldn't do that and told you what looked to be a lie in the process. Women who can't show basic courtesy aren't worthy of a man's time.

Thanks breh damn truth hurts

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Damn so should I chill with her today at all or just shyt on her?
Or I could just tell her we not going out unless she pays for everything

If you chill with her,you should ask her why she didnt call sooner? Dont change your behavior,only adds more drama.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

you are nice than me, I give a woman 24 hrs to respond either by text or return phone call when I call, but seeing as this chick said either text or call, im just going to hit her up tomorrow by text

I give everybody benefit of doubt. Nobody can call you back to back like that anymore.Things come up,she could be asleep who knows.I only text or call to set up something.Like I said numerous times,being phone buddies with a woman gets you nowhere.If I get the # I wanna know when and where we going to chill.

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

If you chill with her,you should ask her why she didnt call sooner? Dont change your behavior,only adds more drama.

I just talked to her we were suppose to go out at 1. I called her at 1:15 to see if she was alive she answered stated why we aren't hanging out and made other plans grandfather said "always keep a ace in the hole"

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I just talked to her we were suppose to go out at 1. I called her at 1:15 to see if she was alive she answered stated why we aren't hanging out and made other plans grandfather said "always keep a ace in the hole"

Told you,with women there is always a short window in everything.If she gives you a #,you call within those 24 hrs,cause by next day they either will forget you, or make other plans.At least you have a backup plan

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

Told you,with women there is always a short window in everything.If she gives you a #,you call within those 24 hrs,cause by next day they either will forget you, or make other plans.At least you have a backup plan

I think you read it wrong breh I told her why we weren't hanging out because she failed to show me common courtesy and then overslept on the time we were suppose to go out. So I made other plans

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I think you read it wrong breh I told her why we weren't hanging out because she failed to show me common courtesy and then overslept on the time we were suppose to go out. So I made other plans

My fault bruh props to you

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

My fault bruh props to you

Everything happens for a reason breh

 

[Mr210]

I give everybody benefit of doubt. Nobody can call you back to back like that anymore.Things come up,she could be asleep who knows.I only text or call to set up something.Like I said numerous times,being phone buddies with a woman gets you nowhere.If I get the # I wanna know when and where we going to chill.

24 hrs is the benefit of the doubt, yeah maybe she was asleep but she wasnt asleep for 2 4 hrs, like I said there is no reason why I person cant text you back within 24 hrs and less they are dealing with an emergency or in jail. Who said anything about being phone buddies, im talking about that initial contact after getting the number, you are talking about giving them 72 hrs which is 3 freakin days, all I said was I give them 24 hrs. When I hit this chick up tomorrow best believe im trying to make plans for monday night

 

[Rocket Scientist]

24 hrs is the benefit of the doubt, yeah maybe she was asleep but she wasnt asleep for 2 4 hrs, like I said there is no reason why I person cant text you back within 24 hrs and less they are dealing with an emergency or in jail. Who said anything about being phone buddies, im talking about that initial contact after getting the number, you are talking about giving them 72 hrs which is 3 freakin days, all I said was I give them 24 hrs. When I hit this chick up tomorrow best believe im trying to make plans for monday night

Ok And.... if she dont pick up?All im saying is this if you get the # hit her up...dont wait.I give everybody 72 hours,If I call somebody once and I dont hear from them immediately I dont get mad and delete the #,I give them 3 days. If I dont hear from them in 72 hours oh well...I aint calling back.They got caller ID they see my #.If she hasnt text you in 24 hours its for a reason...just chill Look man on this one go with your gut.Only you know whats best for you do you bruh

 

[twan83]

I always go by the rule. 1 call no voicemail. Call her and if she doesnt respond within 48 to 72 hours. *bushes* Your window is short with women especially POF women,because there are literally 100 other dudes who she probably told same thing to :kanye:

I always go by the rule. 1 call no voicemail. Call her and if she doesnt respond within 48 to 72 hours. *bushes* Your window is short with women especially POF women,because there are literally 100 other dudes who she probably told same thing to :kanye:

i honestly dont have a timeline cuz i aint ur man and u aint my girl. so if i call u and its only gonna be once that day im out having fun elsewhere whether its with another female or my boy.

what i look like checking my phone waiting on you
if she feeling you enough she will call or text u within 24 hrs no matter what unless its an emergency then i could see why she wouldnt

a female thats highly interested in you will make it well known believe that

thats y when ur single u should have a damn team with depth in doing that ur phone will always be active and so will u till u decide too cut it down too like 3 reliable females and go from there is what i do

im telling u got dumbass dudes out here waiting by their phone wondering when will she call or text me why hasnt she then they end up blowing up her phone looking stupid while she out there having fun and u aint cuz u all sad when u dont have a reason cuz she aint ur girl and u aint her man

 

[International Playa]

since we talking about nightclubs, how do yall feel about going out clubbing with your lady?

 

[twan83]

since we talking about nightclubs, how do yall feel about going out clubbing with your lady?

honestly i prefer not too unless she is a certain type of female i know that keeps my full attention and is fun

i have done it before with no issues too be honest and at the same time i dont like going too clubs once im in a relationship regardless see no reason too unless its like for a bday party of a friend not too go just cuz

 

[Mr210]

Ok And.... if she dont pick up?All im saying is this if you get the # hit her up...dont wait.I give everybody 72 hours,If I call somebody once and I dont hear from them immediately I dont get mad and delete the #,I give them 3 days. If I dont hear from them in 72 hours oh well...I aint calling back.They got caller ID they see my #.If she hasnt text you in 24 hours its for a reason...just chill Look man on this one go with your gut.Only you know whats best for you do you bruh[/quote


We are saying the same things the only difference is i give 24up hrs and you give 72. I call or text once..if i dont hear back then im done with her. Simple as that i never hit up a chick more than once