My friend whose girl moved out is stuck in some Matrix type shyt, similar to what you describe, she moved out, took furniture, left mutual pets and bills....still comes over once or twice a week, and gets in huge arguments with him over his newfound insecurity about her life, (who she sees, whos at dinner, whos at the house), and she tells him she wants the 'confident ___' back....dude is a wreck. He keeps saying 'It's not over, we'll work it out', and is stuck in a dangerous, cancerous state of denial. Reduced to a sniveling simp, who won't put up boundaries, or listen to anyone with practical advice. Think she's coming back when the semester is over. Pretty sad to watch someone go through the heartache, worse when they act so goddamn idiotic about it, in the face of so much good advice, and experience.
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It sucks that society has sold men a bag of lies, that being faithful, responsible, knowing your role as a man would lead to a great women 
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like a vampire she took everything and left him a shivering carcass. This is what happens when your emotional tie becomes so strong to a woman, when you dangerously "love" her more than you love yourself.
Wasting words on people like this sadly never works, its like someone whose been in a abusive relationship, or someone whose been cheating on always going back, you'll tell them one thing and they will be like yeah yeah your right and a second later revert back to their old habits.
all truth, I think one of the hardest thing as a man is to come to this conclusion. I remember when I was "still in the game", i kept telling myself not all women are like this. I would mess with pretty girls, average girls, rich girls, poor girls, white girls, asian girls, spanish girls, older women, younger women and the result was the same time and time again.
This whole Mr. bad boy with nice guy qualities, or a nice guy who can be a bad boy some of the time is a crock of bs, its just like hte old saying women want hot ice.
I refuse to bend or brake my morals, or to act like something i'm not just to be accepted.
Right....a vampire, she left my friend pale and weak, lost himself. She's honestly a cool person, I like her, but she was bound to do this, she's fukking 22 years old. And, dude could bounce back, real quick, if he wanted to. But, he's slugging back beers and drunk dialing her ass in an empty apartment, instead of keeping his head up, and cutting her out, like 'This isn't working for me, I'm done'. He's giving in to all her demands, he's paying +400 a month extra, since she left their place, I can't even fault her though, I told him he's fukking 28, we're too old to be acting like little kids about women and heartache. I go through it too, but you embrace your emotions and feelings, and deal with them, don't let them consume you.
btw i recommend this book i talked about it before men on strike, it basically talks about what we all talk about
i found a free pdf version
http://bitshare.com/files/5ha29nf0/5lETA---1594036756.pdf.html
its 230 pages but well worth it, i bought the book from amazon but eh free is good
heres a few tidbits
married now than in the past. Kay Hymowitz states in
her book, Manning Up, that “in 1970, 80 percent of 25-
to 29-year-old men were married; in 2007, only about
40 percent of them were. In 1970, 85 percent of 30- to
34-year-old men were married; in 2007, only 60 percent
of them were.”2
Men no longer see marriage as being as important
as they did even fifteen years ago. “According to Pew
Research Center, the share of women ages eighteen to
thirty-four that say having a successful marriage is one
i found a free pdf version
http://bitshare.com/files/5ha29nf0/5lETA---1594036756.pdf.html
its 230 pages but well worth it, i bought the book from amazon but eh free is good
heres a few tidbits
It’s no wonder that fewer and fewer men are getting
married now than in the past. Kay Hymowitz states in
her book, Manning Up, that “in 1970, 80 percent of 25-
to 29-year-old men were married; in 2007, only about
40 percent of them were. In 1970, 85 percent of 30- to
34-year-old men were married; in 2007, only 60 percent
of them were.”2
Men no longer see marriage as being as important
as they did even fifteen years ago. “According to Pew
Research Center, the share of women ages eighteen to
thirty-four that say having a successful marriage is one
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uploaded the pdf so you dont even got to download
http://www.scribd.com/doc/172254137/5lETA-1594036756
http://www.scribd.com/doc/172254137/5lETA-1594036756
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
brehs met a hot cutie this weekend, she let me know she got a man though, she refused to give me her number, insisted she in love with her man and showed me pics of her and her man.I asked her doesn't her man let her have male friends, so she can give up the number, in the end she gave me her number and instagram. I asked her if we could do lunch sometime, she said yes.
Dont know what to do? The angel in me is saying forget a girl with a boyfriend, there is too many single women out there. The devil in me wants to try and get the girl,lol
Dont know what to do? The angel in me is saying forget a girl with a boyfriend, there is too many single women out there. The devil in me wants to try and get the girl,lol
Be a willing outlet for attention whores brehs
Yeah, this isn't nearly as disturbing as yours but still irks me nonetheless...
Sometimes, i'll send out a mass text to my closest friends (about a dozen or so) to come join me to hang out
for a night in the town.
I'll be lucky to get a response.
These are the same people i go on trips with, watch Seahawks/Mariners games, drink and have dinner... then lately, they all
in unison, stopped replying to my messages. I did nothing to rile their rectums, i always put up for shiit and even choose to
drive they drunk asses if need be (albeit in their rides cuz i have a 2seater) and never fail to consider them for invites when
i throw shin digs.
I just got to the point where i'll just wait for them to hit me up if they're available (not all of them are in relationships, so at least
the single mothafukkas should reciprocate but nope).
It prolly seems petty, but i send group texts all the time and the energy expended never generates a response... almost as if i
don't exist (and trust, i have my own life, a busy job, hobbies i do, a girlfriend i see all the time... yet i try to make time for these
bastids and they don't even acknowledge or appreciate a vigga. WTF?!).
People shouldn't take my friendship for granted. I'm not gonna be here forever and i think i'm someone you can always depend on,
kind, considerate, always dress nice and make people around me feel good.
What gives?
Selfish a$$holes.
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T-K-G
Veteran
i dont wanna laguh but
you gotta learn how to be #rare breh
you too accessible for these nikkas that's why they take you for granted
i dont text anyone and when they send me shyt i dont respond (cuz i hate texting in general)
i rarely answer my phone cuz im usually doing something/talkin to someone and dont wanna be disturbed
if i dont feel like chillin with them nikkas that day.....i just wont do it
i dont give a fukk if they see me chillin with some other people at another placei basically just walk around doing me and if i dont run into someone in person they're not even on my mind so i dont contact em, and it's easier to meet new people when your face isn't buried into your phone, talkin to the same nikkas you been cool with for years
and when i finally do get around my usually click of nikkas/bytches everyones like
cuz they know how rare that is
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