Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Bumrush Bros.]

I have to admit brehs, finally getting over your ex is a wonderful feeling. My ex recently reappeared after disappearing after we were together a year. Thing is I dont feel any animosity or bitterness. If she never did me dirty I would have never found this thread which has helped me immensely in understanding why women do what they do (because they felt like it )
I wished her the best and told her if we ever run into each other to say hello. It sucks a little knowing that disney fantasy love shyt we were fed as a child is pure crap but it feels a lot better knowing and seeing the truth.

 

[BreezyH]

Yall dont ever have them days where yall want somebody to come home to??? A women that would put Your mind at ease as soon as you walk in the door after a long stessful day, somebody that'll hold down be there for you a 100%.???

Idk mabey its just the old simp in me....

the misconception is that men are avoiding this. what you describe sounds great and should be as desired as a new car or a big promotion, etc. problem is obtaining it, due to the poor quality out here. half of the solution is bettering yourself and putting yourself in a position that is a magnet to a woman who supports and hopefully enhances what it is you're about.

 

[CASHAPP]

didn't she burn down dude house for cheating? And after that they still were together for a minute

oh yeah she did

 

[RealAssanova]

i ain't kno why dudes stress over shyt like women. Whoever does simply doesn't have enough going on in his life, cuz if he did, he wouldn't be preoccupied by something we all know is TEMPORARY.

Women outchea in North America and parts of Europe and women in other parts of the globe are all the same. They share the same organs and shyt, but the only difference is those outside this fukken realm of phaggotry haven't been brainwashed.

Bout 5 years ago, texting was non-existent. I mean, 5 years ago, who da fuk would say text?

5 years before that, women preferred talking over the phone. 5 years before that women hardly played any games.

Today unfortunately this has all changed. People are followers and if you say you don't do what most people do, you are looked at differently.

I got 0 social media. ZERO. The-coli is as far as i'll go. I keep texting to a bare minimum and whenever i do text, i'm direct in my message.

I'm also unwaveringly direct wit broads too. I got boundaries and standards as a man, and if i kno shorty is crossing it or not meeting it, i remove her. I cud give a flyin fukk if i don't get her pu$$y. Whatever attraction i had of her, all of it immediately goes away.

Bein da man, you approach da broad (thus givin her the oppurtunity to kick it with you)

2 things will happen depending on your presentation:

She'll come aboard or she won't.

That's it. If she comes aboard, homegirl on trial. Enjoy, not hate or stress about each other. If she didn't come aboard, it ain't meant to be and she isn't the one for you.

Frustrations over shorty not respondin to your text?

Shorty acting shady and you questioning her loyalties?

Shorty not contributing to the relationship or showing any initiative?

Shorty being disrespectul?

Shorty holdin you back from your goals and aspirations?

 

[MikelArteta]

That's not simping. That's what most men want. Simping is throwing away all of your dignity to obtain a woman's affection and constantly excusing their bad behavior.

The problem is, there are few women that will deliver on what you're asking without you having to look over your shoulder and wonder what she is doing. We live in a culture that promotes promiscuity and actively tells women to act based on her emotions. Combine that with countless options that allow her to interact with members of the opposite sex who are very thirsty, and you have what we have today... Its tough finding a decent woman, which is why I keep telling cats when you have one, you better hold on.

yup
not to mention choosing the wrong women can ruin the rest of your life

 

[Mr210]

i ain't kno why dudes stress over shyt like women. Whoever does simply doesn't have enough going on in his life, cuz if he did, he wouldn't be preoccupied by something we all know is TEMPORARY.

Women outchea in North America and parts of Europe and women in other parts of the globe are all the same. They share the same organs and shyt, but the only difference is those outside this fukken realm of phaggotry haven't been brainwashed.

Bout 5 years ago, texting was non-existent. I mean, 5 years ago, who da fuk would say text?

5 years before that, women preferred talking over the phone. 5 years before that women hardly played any games.

Today unfortunately this has all changed. People are followers and if you say you don't do what most people do, you are looked at differently.

I got 0 social media. ZERO. The-coli is as far as i'll go. I keep texting to a bare minimum and whenever i do text, i'm direct in my message.

I'm also unwaveringly direct wit broads too. I got boundaries and standards as a man, and if i kno shorty is crossing it or not meeting it, i remove her. I cud give a flyin fukk if i don't get her pu$$y. Whatever attraction i had of her, all of it immediately goes away.

Bein da man, you approach da broad (thus givin her the oppurtunity to kick it with you)

2 things will happen depending on your presentation:

She'll come aboard or she won't.

That's it. If she comes aboard, homegirl on trial. Enjoy, not hate or stress about each other. If she didn't come aboard, it ain't meant to be and she isn't the one for you.

Frustrations over shorty not respondin to your text?

Shorty acting shady and you questioning her loyalties?

Shorty not contributing to the relationship or showing any initiative?

Shorty being disrespectul?

Shorty holdin you back from your goals and aspirations?

Cosign....zero social media sites as well and people side eye me

 

[Atlrocafella]

I swear, when you're not even looking and just focusing on yourself, they flock to you.

 

[CASHAPP]

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/kanye-says-he-dont-need-no-prenup-wow.157812/

 

[Mr. Negative]

I have to admit brehs, finally getting over your ex is a wonderful feeling. My ex recently reappeared after disappearing after we were together a year. Thing is I dont feel any animosity or bitterness. If she never did me dirty I would have never found this thread which has helped me immensely in understanding why women do what they do (because they felt like it )
I wished her the best and told her if we ever run into each other to say hello. It sucks a little knowing that disney fantasy love shyt we were fed as a child is pure crap but it feels a lot better knowing and seeing the truth.

yeah, man. I feel the same way. The EXACT same way. I mean..... I still got a lot of animosity for what happened with my last ex, but it's like I feel like I learned all around the bases now. She was the last one before I let go of my old way f thinking about it all.

Meanwhile, the ex I should hate with everything I got for eternity.... I saw her completely by chance over the weekend. I was 2 hours from home out of boredom, she was 4-5 hours from home. completely by chance. We hung out for the day, we had a nice time. We talked about life and shyt, her (our) daughter... her husband (the dude she left me for)... I didn't feel any animosity towards her at all.

Cause despite all that horrendous stuff, I'm better with ME now. It's just gonna take a little while to let that shyt go with my last... prolly because she reminded me so much of my trifling ass mother at the end of it.

But thanks to her, I've figured out exactly what I want and what I dont, and most importantly.. how to deal with what I dont.

 

[Mr. Negative]

She was SO SEXY, though, man! Jeezus fukk!

 

[Mr. Negative]

on an unrelated note, I feel that one of the biggest underlying problems in society as far as male female relations and family structure goes........

is that it's easier for a woman to assume that a man can make $100k a year and she can spend 90k of it than it is for her to lose 10 pounds.

 

[360dagod]

yeah, man. I feel the same way. The EXACT same way. I mean..... I still got a lot of animosity for what happened with my last ex, but it's like I feel like I learned all around the bases now. She was the last one before I let go of my old way f thinking about it all.

Meanwhile, the ex I should hate with everything I got for eternity.... I saw her completely by chance over the weekend. I was 2 hours from home out of boredom, she was 4-5 hours from home. completely by chance. We hung out for the day, we had a nice time. We talked about life and shyt, her (our) daughter... her husband (the dude she left me for)... I didn't feel any animosity towards her at all.

Cause despite all that horrendous stuff, I'm better with ME now. It's just gonna take a little while to let that shyt go with my last... prolly because she reminded me so much of my trifling ass mother at the end of it.

But thanks to her, I've figured out exactly what I want and what I dont, and most importantly.. how to deal with what I dont.

Your a better man than me

 

[Mr. Negative]

Your a better man than me

remember, breh: The opposite of hate is love, yeah.

but the opposite of love is indifference.

 

[MikelArteta]

@Mr Hate Coffee

How are things with the other ex?

 

[DaRealness]

Yall dont ever have them days where yall want somebody to come home to??? A women that would put Your mind at ease as soon as you walk in the door after a long stessful day, somebody that'll hold down be there for you a 100%.???

Idk mabey its just the old simp in me....

I definitely want that. shyt, we all do. None of us are getting any younger.

It gets lonely at times, but I'd rather hold out for the woman I know for sure will be that instead of settling for just any old chick with a nice smile. I've learned to pay attention to a woman's actions and not by the things she says, because people will say all the right things until they've got you and that's when the real person comes out.

Fool me once......