Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

When it's said and done, all men have to realize that women will push the boundaries with you and see how far they go and a woman will only do what she senses you will let her do. So set them boundaries real quick and real fast. I wish this was a lovely, perfect world where you could be happy and joyous and everything will magically set in place, but if you don't set up some boundaries and create some real repercussions for her breaking them, then she will roll all over you and then leave you for 'being weak.'

So one of the main rules to keep in mind is you don't have to put up with a woman's nonsense, and in fact, you will be rewarded if you don't. For one, she could peel off and that's a blessing because you wont' have a drama monger creating all sorts of havoc in your life, or two, she can get it right and stop acting in that foul fashion, which is also a blessing, because you won't have to deal with a woman bringing all kinds of disarray in your life.

As a man, you are accountable for YOUR life and it is up to you to determine how people around you treat you. If they are disrespectful, get them up from around you.

To add to this, don't let anyone shame you into saying you're overreacting or being sensitive when you do decide to Jazzy Jeff a disrespectful broad. You'll KNOW when someone is deliberately pushing boundaries rather than just simply pissing you off out of human nature.

I'll let them know off the bat that I don't play silly games and won't tolerate disrespect in any form so if they decide to test the waters then that's their bad luck.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

@Mr Hate Coffee

How are things with the other ex?

Which one? The one I dated for 7 years? We don't really talk much. She wished me a happy bday but not much on either side.

or

my last ex, the young, makeup obsessed model who played video games? I haven't spoken to her since we broke up in January. Been thinking bout her alot recently tho.

 

[MikelArteta]

First one
I did what you did finally said f it and said what was on my mind, i felt somewhat refreshed

Which one? The one I dated for 7 years? We don't really talk much. She wished me a happy bday but not much on either side.

or

my last ex, the young, makeup obsessed model who played video games? I haven't spoken to her since we broke up in January. Been thinking bout her alot recently tho.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

First one
I did what you did finally said f it and said what was on my mind, i felt somewhat refreshed

How'd it go? Who'd you say it to? your ex-fiance or another girl?

Me and my ex are in a much better place since I got that shyt off my chest. I'm glad you feel the same.

 

[MikelArteta]

Another girl

Lol everyone on this board thinks about my ex fiance more than I do.

And well she didn't really care which is what I expected.

The last girl I'll ever love

How'd it go? Who'd you say it to? your ex-fiance or another girl?

Me and my ex are in a much better place since I got that shyt off my chest. I'm glad you feel the same.

 

[DaRealness]

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...aking-photograph--goes-date-him.html#comments

 

[BreezyH]

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...aking-photograph--goes-date-him.html#comments

dudes gonna pull a "Taken" when he get to Morocco and he still gonna want a peck on the cheek

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Another thing to look out for is women that look good on PAPER. By paper I mean a woman who has all the education,credentials,best job etc in the world.Yet as time goes on that doesnt mean a hill of beans in terms of MATURITY.These women are dangerous and arsingle for a reason.Fellas dont let what a woman has distract you.Education is education.She may have a doctorate degree and still be a hoodrat an educated one.

 

[King Theo]

My EX of two years who got married within a year of us breaking up just re friend requested me on facebook i been her friend on there for a few days. cracking up at her faux lovey dovey status with her husband of 4 months.

THEN i saw her status about how she missed college. but guess who she was with or trying to get with all of college. ME!...... My EGO tellin me that she actaully misses me ...................only because i miss her sometimes

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Reason why some of yall are feeling lonely or missing women is because temperatures are dropping and there isnt much to do as there was in the summer.From now up until Valentines Day is time when most people get into relationships and start feeling emotions (often due to shorter days and colder nights).Fellas keep it moving! If she aint come back,she probably aint coming back.Stack that $,work out more,just enjoy being YOU.Women are looking to be cuffed up right now,because they hate to be alone for the holidays,yet when it comes Feb 15th-Spring Time they will want to be single.

 

[BreezyH]

Another thing to look out for is women that look good on PAPER. By paper I mean a woman who has all the education,credentials,best job etc in the world.Yet as time goes on that doesnt mean a hill of beans in terms of MATURITY.These women are dangerous and arsingle for a reason.Fellas dont let what a woman has distract you.Education is education.She may have a doctorate degree and still be a hoodrat an educated one.

Man, so many of these women have the "wifeable checklist" committed to memory - decent job, car, place, but that can be a big distraction away from their true self. Being decent by themselves isn't an indicator that they can be a good partner. For all you know, she got all that by stepping on others. I don't judge by that kind of thing (although I reasonable expect any woman I deal with to be employed). Judge by what they can do to enhance your campaign, which in turn enhances them.

 

[360dagod]

remember, breh: The opposite of hate is love, yeah.

but the opposite of love is indifference.

that is very true....

but I couldnt even spend a minute with her..lol...

Im just wired to just shut it completely off

 

[BrehWyatt]

Yall dont ever have them days where yall want somebody to come home to??? A women that would put Your mind at ease as soon as you walk in the door after a long stessful day, somebody that'll hold down be there for you a 100%.???

Idk mabey its just the old simp in me....

Bruh, I'll be real. I think one of the best things in the world is having the arms of your lady wrap around your shoulders while she gives you a peck on the cheek to tell you it's going to be alright after you had a day from hell. Epitome of a woman holding a man down.

Simp or not, I want to look forward to seeing my woman.

 

[360dagod]

Bruh, I'll be real. I think one of the best things in the world is having the arms of your lady wrap around your shoulders while she gives you a peck on the cheek to tell you it's going to be alright after you had a day from hell. Epitome of a woman holding a man down.

Simp or not, I want to look forward to seeing my woman.

.........I need that

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

"what do you do when you get that feeling of emptiness inside you and you just don't want to approach or close or even look at girls at all cuz you feel so empty and this makes you sad and lost in thoughts. what do you do when you are in this period of your life?"

find something to do that helps me cheer up, even if it is just eating pizza and watching American Movie with my friend

then I pick a day to quit being a bytch and move on

then I follow thru

I read this on reddit and chuckled. The bolded is something I gotta remember. Not even when it comes to gettting at women but for life in general. I get depressed from time to time.