Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Of course I wouldn't…….The last 5 years (and looking back at the relationships I had before then) have been eye opening in terms of how your "perceived" status (and believe me I'm not making a ton of money) changes how women view you.

That's exactly why I played the game the way I did.

At some point you just realize you need to find a decent chick that you're interested in outside of just fukking. I definitely just recognize that as a man I have options and don't have to simp or jump into things so quickly. Make shorty earn her spot.

I know it's hard to view most women normally after having been on the 'other side of the fence.' You realize that once you cross this barrier, women's whole attitudes and perceptions towards you change... and seeing how easily their commitments didn't mean anything if they could have a little taste of fame. Now there are a few decent ones out there, which is why I keep emphasizing to dudes to stop chasing these freaks and fine women around if you have one, because they'll be doing exactly what you witnessed.
 
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OK, I have no reason to lie

I DJ for a living…..Pretty much in clubs all the time.

I've had bytches suck my dikk to get in VIP and be close to Rihanna and J cole. I've fukked nikka's wives in my car. Just nutty shyt. Like I said, I've pretty much just gotten easy p*ssy for the last 5 years of my life and have literal made no effort. It's gotten old.

That's the power of status

Men get status/money in exchange for sex and women exchange sex for money/status

I bet that slut kissed her husband in the mouth after sucking you off with no remorse

This is why I lost all faith in women a long time ago

There are good women out there but there are so few that the chances of me actually running into one that's worth keeping around is 1 in a million

I just smash and dash now
 

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I hate myself right now.
Was in line at the store cute mixed long hair down too her butt standing next to me.

So gave me a look idk if she wanted me to move or wanted me to say something.

But i just asked was her hair wet she was like yeah i just got out the shower.With a smile.

Next i then i made small talk she seemed nice.

Thing is i wanted to ask for her number but there was mad ppl behind us in line.

I felt like a fukk boi . She was in front of me and after she went to pay she walked away then turned and said have a good day to the cashier while looking at me.

That was my last chance to say something and i could not do it.

I have no prob talking to women are even bagging them. I don't care about them saying NO or Yes.

I just can't get over other ppl watching me when i make my moves idk why that my biggest fear.

If it was just me in her and line i know i would have had her number.

Still feel like a bytch tho.
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I know exactly what you mean...i've moved past that phase though lol. One day on the subway i took a look at everyrone..so many people staring into space, reading, listening to music etc. It was then that i realized nobody gives a fukk about you my nikka...the only ones listening are the ones trying to take notes and see if your game is tight. But fukk it...give them something to learn.
 

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I think both men and women that say there aren't any good people out there are a bit jaded.


Me included, there are plenty.....Its just, we don't want them..... I want a BAD, down to earth, laid back loyal chick. The odds of realistically finding that are slim for most and if you do either they're gonna be young and immature, or more than likely scared from some past relationship. That would be great..... As much as I tell myself if I could just meet a "good" chick over all I might try something. Its hard to do...


The same thing goes for chicks, they want a alpha male, thats a gentleman, thug, and makes great money, that id faithful, knows how to dress and make them laugh.



Standards are mad high


I could probably go out easy and find a 6 or 7 thats most of those things but hey why settle for a 6 that's loyal and easy going when I can have a 9 that's BAD but refuse's to keep a house clean.



And the internet has mad it worse...



I use to wonder why i would catch some older people who got play from young chicks even get married to 3's and 4... but its starting to make sense.


Not that low tier chicks or dudes wont cheat...but most know not to screw up a real good thing for something temporary
 

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I hate myself right now.
Was in line at the store cute mixed long hair down too her butt standing next to me.

So gave me a look idk if she wanted me to move or wanted me to say something.

But i just asked was her hair wet she was like yeah i just got out the shower.With a smile.

Next i then i made small talk she seemed nice.

Thing is i wanted to ask for her number but there was mad ppl behind us in line.

I felt like a fukk boi . She was in front of me and after she went to pay she walked away then turned and said have a good day to the cashier while looking at me.

That was my last chance to say something and i could not do it.

I have no prob talking to women are even bagging them. I don't care about them saying NO or Yes.

I just can't get over other ppl watching me when i make my moves idk why that my biggest fear.

If it was just me in her and line i know i would have had her number.

Still feel like a bytch tho.
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dont beat yourself up about it. your fear is valid because she could have easily embarrassed your ass. some girls get off on that. if she really wanted you, she coulda waited outside and acted like she was on her cell. women are pretty smart when they want something. so dont even worry about it.
 

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I think both men and women that say there aren't any good people out there are a bit jaded.


Me included, there are plenty.....Its just, we don't want them..... I want a BAD, down to earth, laid back loyal chick. The odds of realistically finding that are slim for most and if you do either they're gonna be young and immature, or more than likely scared from some past relationship. That would be great..... As much as I tell myself if I could just meet a "good" chick over all I might try something. Its hard to do...


The same thing goes for chicks, they want a alpha male, thats a gentleman, thug, and makes great money, that id faithful, knows how to dress and make them laugh.



Standards are mad high


I could probably go out easy and find a 6 or 7 thats most of those things but hey why settle for a 6 that's loyal and easy going when I can have a 9 that's BAD but refuse's to keep a house clean.



And the internet has mad it worse...



I use to wonder why i would catch some older people who got play from young chicks even get married to 3's and 4... but its starting to make sense.


Not that low tier chicks or dudes wont cheat...but most know not to screw up a real good thing for something temporary

there are good people out there but they are few and far between. Trust me breh ive dated chicks that were below in terms of attraction what i'm usually capable of but women are women, hell the broad who cheated on me with her ex was at best a 6/10 on her best days, t doesn't matter because even a non bad chick will have exes or guys swooning her giving her attention, shes still getting hey beautiful while she walks down the streets, guys offering to buy her drinks, attention on social media.

Women do not know what they want, the quicker you realize the better off you will be

women gets abused, she wants a nice guy who treats her with respect, she gets that yawn hes boring screws around and goes back to her ex,

women gets cheated on, she hates cheatesr she just wants a faithful guy, she gets a faithful guy, yawn no drama, no mystery are other women even attracted to him? she plays arounmd.

its easier for a woman to find a decent nice guy than it is for a man to find a nice decent woman

because example a awkward shy guy to scared to approach women is not getting any play and when he does wont mess it up for the most part, compared to an awkard shy woman will still get attention and hit on
 

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a few weeks ago i was talking to a girl i messed with at one time, shes going through some stuff in her life and came out and told me she was a closet slut that she slept with guys for money, for car rides, for companion, this was a girl that i messed with for a little white and I would have never suspected it.

Imagine marrying a broad like this? imagine getting down on one knee and giving your all to a woman like this who basically just whored herself out for basically anything

sad thing is she is fine AS HELL, one of the most beautiful women i ever messed with.
 

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i know some people will skip overthis so screw it ima post it


I posted this earlier on another subreddit but it ended up getting removed because of fighting in the comments. I’ll sum up what happened thus far. I met my wife 7 years ago, she was extremely picky when it came to sex. She told me she only has been with 1 other guy before. She would never give a blow job, only would do certain positions and found almost every sex act degrading. I was frustrated by this, but I really liked her and hoped over the years she would open up sexually. Over the years, it never got any better but I learned to get over it. Well I ended up finding an old video from her college days of her engaging in group sex with 6 other people 5 guys 1 girl. In the video she has anal sex, oral sex, gets double teamed, and yells multiple times in the video she is a “I am a filthy whore.” All of it she was enthusiastic about it. I ended up feeling really sad.[/b[ I can understand certain stuff people don’t want to do, but it wasn’t the fact she didn’t want to do them. She didn’t want to do them with me but every other guy she was their whore. I was angry hurt and I ended up saying some stupid shyt to my wife.

I asked her if she could drop our daughter off at her sister’s house because I wanted to talk to her. She asked why, I told her we’d discuss after she came back.

I don’t remember all the details of the conversation, so I’ll try my best to sum it up. I was drinking a bit before she came which wasn’t the best idea.

Me: Is there anything about your past you have been hiding about me?

Her: Why are we talking about this?

Me: I just want to know were you in any type of porn or anything like that?

Her: are you taking drugs?

Me: I found your video from college with the other guys. I don’t know who you are anymore and I feel ill being around you.

She starts crying.

Me: Do you have anything to say?

She continues to cry. This was pointless I go to grab my keys to leave. And she tries to stop me.

Me: If you don’t want me to leave then I need you to be 100% honest with me, and tell me why you lied to me for all these years.

She: I didn’t want you to think I was a slut

Me: I would have been perfectly fine if you told me, I would have loved to have done those wild things with you. Look I get it I don’t turn you on like those other guys do. You liked sucking their dikks but not mine.

She: It’s not that, I didn’t want you to think less of me.

Me: No it is exactly that, there is a thing lying about sleeping with other guys. It’s not that you didn’t like doing those things. You didn’t like doing them with me.

She: I can do that stuff with you. I am attracted to you, you know that.

Me: I don’t want you to do it because you feel like you have to. I want someone that actually desires me.

She: I can change I promise don’t ruin our marriage over this we can work things out. We can go to marriage counseling seriously talk to me.

Me: Marriage counseling won’t change how you feel about me. Look I will try marriage counseling but I want a trial separation for now.

She: Please don’t do this. Don’t throw away our marriage for what I did in college please.

Me: Stop fukking acting like it’s a one time thing. Be honest with me how many guys did you fukk before me. How many guys dikks have you sucked, and how many guys have you let fukk you in the ass.

She: why does it matter, I said I’ll do them with you

Me: I am so fukking lucky. I got married to a whore, that fukks like a prude.

She: Please don’t waste all of our marriage for this. I am willing to change.

Me: I am not divorcing you but I want a trial separation for now, and I want to see how things go, right now I feel sick looking at you.

I ended up leaving my wife kept trying to stop me. She kept on begging saying I could do anything I wanted with her, it was truly pathetic and I lost all respect for my wife the way she was trying to manipulate me with sex.

I am staying at a motel right now; I have been getting constant calls from my wife. She has been asking me where I am, if I tell her than she is going to confront me and I don’t feel like I am ready for that. I feel so fukking drained. I feel bad saying those things to my wife but I don’t know what else to do I am so fukking hurt over this.

As I said before I wouldn’t care if she had a promiscuous past, seriously, wouldn’t care but the fact she did all those things for other guys but doesn’t do them for me hurts me the deepest.

I don’t see how this marriage can be recovered. I can’t change her attraction to me. My father has recently has been diagnosed with a tumor in his lung, and that has already been stressing me out pretty badly.

Please tell me what exactly I can do, my confidence as a man has been destroyed. Before I found out about this, I tried to get my wife to open up sexually but she completely shot it down. I really believe she isn’t attracted to me in the way she was to those other guys. That’s why she felt completely fine being “their whore” but won’t give me a blow job. I want a woman that looks at me lustfully, not that has sex with me to fulfill “wifey duties.”

I don’t feel entitled to other types of sex with my wife. I want her to want to do them. Now even if she does do them it will be out of guilt, not out of desire. I don’t see how we can recover our marriage. I feel really shytty that I won’t be able to seem my daughter as much, especially during her younger years.

I have already made some calls to reroute my paychecks and get my finances in order if we do go for a divorce. My brother works at a big law firm, I am thinking about contacting him to at least see what I should be doing now. Thing is once I call him it becomes the point of no return, if I tell my family members than their image of my wife becomes destroyed. Also I’d have to check because right now she is dependent on me for health insurance, and I don’t want her to be deprived of that if we do divorce, because she has been having health issues. I don’t want to ruin anything but I can’t see how things would ever be okay. If you don’t have any advice for me and are just going to be judgmental please don’t waste your time commenting. I know I said some hurtful things in there but you don’t know the level of hurt I am feeling right now. I have apologized to my wife since then, but I don’t see how our relationship can be recovered.

Edit - I want to make things work, between me and my wife. I understand she doesn’t want to do certain sex acts. I am considering proposing to her the idea of an open marriage. That way we can still be together as a family and we both can have the fulfilling sex lives we want.
 

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She didn’t want to do them with me but every other guy she was their whore.

this line sticks out for me like a sore thumb

forgot the user who posted this on here but he said

However sluts don't really bring anything of value into relationships, so they're used to playing the game. A pump and dump won't really hurt their feelings as they're accustomed to it.

However when they find something of value, they treat it a little more precious. They want to take your time and "do it the right way".

That's why a lot of "good guys" have a hard time getting with slutty women. If a female senses value in a man(IN a man, not his earthly attachments. I mean morals..principles etc), it's hard for her to stay in "promiscuous slutty mode".
 

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She didn’t want to do them with me but every other guy she was their whore.

this line sticks out for me like a sore thumb

forgot the user who posted this on here but he said

However sluts don't really bring anything of value into relationships, so they're used to playing the game. A pump and dump won't really hurt their feelings as they're accustomed to it.

However when they find something of value, they treat it a little more precious. They want to take your time and "do it the right way".

That's why a lot of "good guys" have a hard time getting with slutty women. If a female senses value in a man(IN a man, not his earthly attachments. I mean morals..principles etc), it's hard for her to stay in "promiscuous slutty mode".

:damn: i read that shyt like she aint shyt imo. u can do that in the past but of all people not ur husband and sit there and say u would all of a sudden :camby:

im diff i dont care bout ur past at all if u did ur thing if ur having fun and what not but lying bout it is uncalled for imo

if anything she should of been doing that and then some with him
 

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:damn: i read that shyt like she aint shyt imo. u can do that in the past but of all people not ur husband and sit there and say u would all of a sudden :camby:

im diff i dont care bout ur past at all if u did ur thing if ur having fun and what not but lying bout it is uncalled for imo

if anything she should of been doing that and then some with him

breh thast the thing women do i remember being in the game and women would be like wait for sex bla bla, whenever i hear a woman say that i know she gave it up early to any tom dikk and harry, but because your a "nice guy" in thier mind they try to take on a differen trole with you
 

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breh thast the thing women do i remember being in the game and women would be like wait for sex bla bla, whenever i hear a woman say that i know she gave it up early to any tom dikk and harry, but because your a "nice guy" in thier mind they try to take on a differen trole with you

c/s too the fullest when they told me that shyt i was like :mjpls: face and said i have a hard time believing it and they get mad and i be like look i dont care if u gave it up the first date thats ur choice stuff like that dont phase me but lying does and 1 or 2 things end up happening

1. sex right there

2. no sex and i waited or at least she thought i was gonna and i was having fun on the side elsewhere (no she wasn't a gf and were not exclusive so i have a strict rule if we aint exclusive i do me and u do u)
 

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Why does this thread exist? Seems like all the participants are getting the p*ssy casserole thrown at them :duck:
 

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breh thast the thing women do i remember being in the game and women would be like wait for sex bla bla, whenever i hear a woman say that i know she gave it up early to any tom dikk and harry, but because your a "nice guy" in thier mind they try to take on a differen trole with you
most people have no principle or grounding. They just adapt to who you are, how you act/talk to them. Most people are shape-shifters on some level. And once you start a certain way with someone, it's HARD to change the frame unless something major happens.
 
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