Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I'm skinny but shrug a I've never weighed over 155 lbs in my life
Right now I'm at 150.



All I'm saying work out for yourself not for women.

 

[CASHAPP]

I'm skinny but shrug a I've never weighed over 155 lbs in my life
Right now I'm at 150.



All I'm saying work out for yourself not for women.

Ill try that.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

Something I've found is that you shouldn't bring conversations until the reasoning and rationalizing territory with women. Don't try to logically debate with them when an issue comes up. Just say what you have to say and stand on it. It may seem backwards, but the reality is women want to deal with men they feel are more powerful than them. When you argue with someone, you are allowing them to come to your level and feel equal to you. For example if your boss tells you to do something and you say nah, and he starts trying to rationalize with you, you will feel he is weak and after that, you will act on your own discretion. On the other hand if he gave you this look that says you're going to be fired, you're going to go do what he told you or you will prepare to be fired.

This is a good gem..props

 

[KOOL-AID]

 

[kevm3]

This thread is an example of how men should conduct themselves. We have a diverse set of viewpoints and we won't all agree, but just by sharing a variety of perspectives, we are allowing ourselves to be sharpened. We're not here arguing, attention whoring or engaging in a host of other lame behaviors. That is how men should conduct themselves in a brotherhood.

 

[Steezy]

brehs.. yall gone be so proud of me

met this fine ass bytch two weeks ago. told her lets gets some moes and the number was mine. next day i text her she talkin bout she has a boyfriend.. I'm like

but fukk it.. told her don't hit me up anymore cause i didn't know i aint tryna do friendly things witcha...she said she wasn't talking to her nikka anymore and wanted to go out. so i hit her with the maybe..i know..i fukked up

.. seen her on campus next day and she sit down to grab a bite to eat with a nikka.. mind yall i had my homeboy and 2 other chicks we knew there. fukk it.. ate the lunch and kept it kickin.

the next fukkin day.. this hoe tell me to come outside at 1130 at night cryin and shyt talking bout she need my car its a emergency her mama in the ER and she need to pick up some money . i told her hellll naw i don't even know you and but she kept cryin and screaming please. I'm starin at her dumbass and kept telling her no

. then she tried to use the power of p*ssy of breh. she said lets get in the car and ill do anything for a ride. but then i thought of my nikka jameis. so after telling her thot ass one last time now she got real aggressive faced and start calling my a bytch at the top of her lungs. now i coulda did some foul shyt cause i don't play that.. but i started laughing at her ass and walked away.. it just felt right


was i in the wrong or can i get a dap ?

 

[kevm3]

You did the right thing. You ain't no taxi cab for a woman. Where was her boyfriend and why didn't he take her? Little favors are things these women need to ask from their MAN, not some negro they are scoping. If you let her get one favor, she would have kept trying to stack favors and would have ending up shucking you to the side after she used you all up.

You stood tall, which was exactly what you were supposed to do. As a man, you can't let these broads break you down with that yelling and that screaming and crying and you don't owe no woman any favors.

Sounds like she was on one. If anything, toss her a few dollars for that cab and tell her to keep it pushing.

 

[kevm3]

The big problem is we live in a 'politically correct' society where you can't tell the real or else some lame will come and try to shame you into thinking 'societally correct' thoughts, but most of those thoughts are wrong. One of the things you are told is that you need to be on even grounds with a woman. WRONG. You got to be stronger, wiser, and just give her the impression you are bigger. With women, it comes down to two factors. How much she LIKES and how much she respects you. You lose any of those two and that woman is gone. Your mission isn't to be friendly man, favor man or any of them sucker behaviors. These women will use you for favor after favor and disappear as soon as they get a man if you let that go on.

With women, she has two roles from a man she deals with. She'll either enslave or serve a man... meaning she will have a 'provider' she uses for all the resources and for her survival and easy living. On the other hand, there is that guy that just drives her crazy and she'll do anything for him, including taking providerman's resources and giving it to him. Always be aware of what role you are playing with a woman, and if you are in providerman territory, you better get out.

 

[AJtheOne]

brehs.. yall gone be so proud of me

met this fine ass bytch two weeks ago. told her lets gets some moes and the number was mine. next day i text her she talkin bout she has a boyfriend.. I'm like

but fukk it.. told her don't hit me up anymore cause i didn't know i aint tryna do friendly things witcha...she said she wasn't talking to her nikka anymore and wanted to go out. so i hit her with the maybe..i know..i fukked up

.. seen her on campus next day and she sit down to grab a bite to eat with a nikka.. mind yall i had my homeboy and 2 other chicks we knew there. fukk it.. ate the lunch and kept it kickin.

the next fukkin day.. this hoe tell me to come outside at 1130 at night cryin and shyt talking bout she need my car its a emergency her mama in the ER and she need to pick up some money . i told her hellll naw i don't even know you and but she kept cryin and screaming please. I'm starin at her dumbass and kept telling her no

. then she tried to use the power of p*ssy of breh. she said lets get in the car and ill do anything for a ride. but then i thought of my nikka jameis. so after telling her thot ass one last time now she got real aggressive faced and start calling my a bytch at the top of her lungs. now i coulda did some foul shyt cause i don't play that.. but i started laughing at her ass and walked away.. it just felt right


was i in the wrong or can i get a dap ?

why the fukk is she askin you to drive her for?
You ain't her man and you barely know her. She should've asked her boyfriend, a friend, or a family member.
Me being a Christian and a nice guy, I probably would've felt guilty a lil after, but I would've came to my senses eventually.
Can't let these hoes play you you did the right thing

 

[Steezy]

why the fukk is she askin you to drive her for?
You ain't her man and you barely know her. She should've asked her boyfriend, a friend, or a family member.
Me being a Christian and a nice guy, I probably would've felt guilty a lil after, but I would've came to my senses eventually.
Can't let these hoes play you you did the right thing

she got no car..i guess since i drove her down the street to moes she thought shyt would be lovely. she thought wrong. i didnt bad because once she called me out my name she was dead to me. i lost any compassion i had.

 

[360dagod]

This broad I had sexual relations with in the past is giving me "weird" vibes..

We had a lil fling,but she started living with some nikka and that was that...She did some wack shyt imo,by not telling and me basically having to put two and two together,...

I guess she isnt with him anymore and when I see her,she is polite,but she just acts like she is holding back from saying something to me..And she be grilling me hard...

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I think I'm gonna start dating to try to get a girlfriend….Or at least make more female friends. I'm still not where I want to be career wise yet but I realized you still enjoy life despite that.

I've been fukking bytches for 5 years and throwing them in the bushes and it's gotten old to be honest. I guess it really hit me when I had like 5 extra tickets to the Yeezus concert and I couldn't think of ONE chick to bring with me.

It's wild, I've gotten so much easy p*ssy thrown my way just being on the scene I'd have to no idea how to go out and actually work for mine or if I can even trust bytches.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

double

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Brehs, what should I do about this thick yella bone at work who knows I got a woman but is being more friendly and still being chit chatty and giving signs and what not? *touching my arm laughing*

I been wanna hit since I first saw her.
Body is with those loose work clothes.

 

[MikelArteta]

Be careful

I think I'm gonna start dating to try to get a girlfriend….Or at least make more female friends. I'm still not where I want to be career wise yet but I realized you still enjoy life despite that.

I've been fukking bytches for 5 years and throwing them in the bushes and it's gotten old to be honest. I guess it really hit me when I had like 5 extra tickets to the Yeezus concert and I couldn't think of ONE chick to bring with me.

It's wild, I've gotten so much easy p*ssy thrown my way just being on the scene I'd have to no idea how to go out and actually work for mine or if I can even trust bytches.