lol, it's all good, it's a post i had started writing and was gonna say my opinion on what he said but then i made the other post and forgot to remove the beginning
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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basically. but i try to give people the benefit of the doubt when it comes to clothing.
i use too till i had patient in my chair with a club outfit on at 12 pm around lunch time t*ts all out skirt way too short
I'm like
how am i suppose too concentrate on cleaning her teeth and she would go down her shirt and scratch talking bout she got a itch I'm sitting her in scrubs trying not too go full mast
my dikk too her cuz if i did it poke the back of her head then make it worse she had a damn tongue ring a would play with it shyt was like a sexual frustration building up in me when i didnt even have any problems in that area
she over here giving me foreplay in the chair the whole time without touching me is what it felt like
Never been in this thread before so imma do a small unstructured rant.
We are all taught we have to chase & court women, but the funny thing is I've never seen a man as aggressive as a woman can be. It takes the right dude, but women can be aggressive as hell.
The whole game is based on creating the illusion you have multiple options with women & that you appear busy. As a result, when the woman is selected, she feels special.
We all know a pretty boy with exceptional looks. He can be a bum, but since he was plenty of options when it comes to women based on his looks, they chase him so they can be selected & feel special.
Entertainer? They chase him (crying & screaming)
A guy with money? A guy with a lot of money has options when it comes to women. Females will chase this man in hopes of being selected.
You ever been single & get no attention? Then you start dating a woman & all of a sudden women are feeling you?
Ever have a female ask you "oh I bet you get attention from a lot of women?" They really wanna know so they can feel special. Just say yes. They'll ask because they are uncertain if you attract a lot of women.
So just appear busy & make it seem like you got a lot of options (if you don't) & stop caring. Is it stupid? Yes which is why women (including women in my family) can't select a good dude for shiit.
We are all taught we have to chase & court women, but the funny thing is I've never seen a man as aggressive as a woman can be. It takes the right dude, but women can be aggressive as hell.
The whole game is based on creating the illusion you have multiple options with women & that you appear busy. As a result, when the woman is selected, she feels special.
We all know a pretty boy with exceptional looks. He can be a bum, but since he was plenty of options when it comes to women based on his looks, they chase him so they can be selected & feel special.
Entertainer? They chase him (crying & screaming)
A guy with money? A guy with a lot of money has options when it comes to women. Females will chase this man in hopes of being selected.
You ever been single & get no attention? Then you start dating a woman & all of a sudden women are feeling you?
Ever have a female ask you "oh I bet you get attention from a lot of women?" They really wanna know so they can feel special. Just say yes. They'll ask because they are uncertain if you attract a lot of women.
So just appear busy & make it seem like you got a lot of options (if you don't) & stop caring. Is it stupid? Yes which is why women (including women in my family) can't select a good dude for shiit.
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You guys remember me discussing in here recently how I think as a masterpeice as this thread is that we have been focusing TOO MUCH on the relationship aspect when it comes to women? I still believe so. We have to remember the thread is about "gems of dealing with women" but the gems don't necessarily have to always be from a relationship aspect or mindset. It can be like what i brought up before about other moments in life like in our jobs. And this could be the perfect thing to get going because it would be interesting if all of us discuss for the next couple of pages how women interact with you as CUSTOMERS...
Depending on if any of you have any retail jobs or things of that nature to make a judgement.
A lady came to my register with 2 shopping carts each full of stuff by herself...I started bagging for her and she was still not finished with the first cart and putting stuff up....i suddenly stop what i am doing and im just looking at my screen, looking at my food code book,etc ....she is looking up every couple of seconds to see what is the issue and giving me thislook and after i get annoyed i tell her in a calm voice "Miss I can't bag the rest of your stuff if you still have bags up here(she still had not picked up anything i bagged in the cart)
Whether she was faking or not....the broad starts talking about "Oh my god i'm so sorry i did not know what you were looking at me for" and then throughout the rest of the entire time she starts acting extra nice and saying "Thank you" every second.
I have been getting very good at this now and holding my ground and have been still been witnessing first hand this epidemic...Turbulent I know you brought up to be "happy" but this is why you cannot be happy in the sense of "happy go lucky Magic Johnson" type of happiness because you will get killed for it.....its like being a pool of venom with these beasts. That doesn't mean though i am saying im gonna come to there "defeated' just saying i am gonna have my guard up and become adept at handling them.
MULTIPLE times yesterday I had women just throw up their keys with the reward card up on the conveyer belt...It is not as big an issue as when its the card itself that they put up(but its still a bit annoying). But you guys in here know how when you have your car or house keys with a million other cards on it? Basically what i mean by this is think about if any of you were throwing up those keys that had your Subway card on it, your macys card, cvs, target, duane reade,etc....
That is the kind of lack of class I get on a consistent basis. With one lady i just gave her back the keysand said "miss can you show me your pathmark card" and she did it..
this is a real ass nikka post man.
Here's some often forgetten advice that men need to drill in their heads. If you need to pay, then you shouldn't play.If a woman is trying to charge you, whether it's dinner, money, gifts or whatever, then do NOT deal with her unless you want to be put in the sugar daddy role, aka the guy who is always paying to get a small dose of what another man is getting in large doses for free. If you're not big to a woman, then you don't need to be dealing with her, and paying to be in her company is little man behavior. It's sending her a message that she has something that you want more than she wants from you. When dealing with a woman, it's all about how much she likes you, period... and women don't charge men they like. If a woman tries to charge you, cut her short and move on to another one. You can't be big if you're constantly engaging in little behaviors, and coming off of cash, money and all of these elaborate expenditures to get the attention or keep the attention of a woman is little man behavior. You will get looked at like a sucker. That's different than rewarding a woman who has been loyal to you. You should reward a woman who has been loyal. You should not spend a dime or waste time on women who try to charge you for their time. Understand that distinction.
Something I've found is that you shouldn't bring conversations until the reasoning and rationalizing territory with women. Don't try to logically debate with them when an issue comes up. Just say what you have to say and stand on it. It may seem backwards, but the reality is women want to deal with men they feel are more powerful than them. When you argue with someone, you are allowing them to come to your level and feel equal to you. For example if your boss tells you to do something and you say nah, and he starts trying to rationalize with you, you will feel he is weak and after that, you will act on your own discretion. On the other hand if he gave you this look that says you're going to be fired, you're going to go do what he told you or you will prepare to be fired.
Another rule to remember. A woman will be where she wants to be... so stop trying to handcuff her and force her to be with you. If she's ready to walk out the door and starts pulling that distant stuff or comes out and tells you it's not working, smile, congratulate her and tell her you want her to be where she really wants to be at and let her go. Does it sound strange? Absolutely, but it's power dynamics. She will wonder, "Why did he want me to leave so fast? Does he have another woman?" Most of us have been been that guy who sat back and a woman wanted to leave, and we tried to convince her to stay. What happened? More times than not, she still left... At most, she may have stuck around for a couple more weeks, but it was never the same. She was still distant and she slowly transitioned away
When a woman starts getting distant, she already has her sights set on another man, so don't keep this kind of woman around who is wasting your time and scanning for options. In fact, it's better to push her out the door. Why would you want to have someone in your midst wasting your time, betraying you, with her eyes on someone else? I'm telling you guys, you have to make your company be a privilege to be in. You can't be keeping these women around by any means necessary. If she really likes what you are doing and what you are about, she will make the effort to stick around of her own volition.
Now, there are times when women will threaten to leave because they feel neglected. That's a completely different scenario than the one I've just talked about. Here, you have to make her feel appreciated, but you have to do so in a fashion where you don't belittle yourself while still showing her she is valued by you.
When a woman starts getting distant, she already has her sights set on another man, so don't keep this kind of woman around who is wasting your time and scanning for options. In fact, it's better to push her out the door. Why would you want to have someone in your midst wasting your time, betraying you, with her eyes on someone else? I'm telling you guys, you have to make your company be a privilege to be in. You can't be keeping these women around by any means necessary. If she really likes what you are doing and what you are about, she will make the effort to stick around of her own volition.
Now, there are times when women will threaten to leave because they feel neglected. That's a completely different scenario than the one I've just talked about. Here, you have to make her feel appreciated, but you have to do so in a fashion where you don't belittle yourself while still showing her she is valued by you.
Men and women alike have been brainwashed by this feminist trash. Females act in direct opposition to their internal desires of being with a man that leads and males, when given the opportunity to lead, lead a woman off the edge of a cliff, which is why you have so many women rebelling and finding male leadership offensive.
Check out stuntone's thread
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/coli...m-this-new-chick-im-talking-to-bushes.169757/
The woman says straight up she wants a man that takes control. She didn't say she wanted a man that took control 50 percent of the time and let her take control 50 percent of the time. Women don't buy books like 50 shades of grey for no reason. They buy it because something in there appeals to their real desires... desires that society shames them out of accepting. Women want a man that's in control... but they believe they have to spout this feminist rhetoric, or at least they will until they find a man who doesn't go for that.
This is why I keep saying develop your manhood. How can you lead someone else if you aren't in control of yourself first?
Check out stuntone's thread
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/coli...m-this-new-chick-im-talking-to-bushes.169757/
The woman says straight up she wants a man that takes control. She didn't say she wanted a man that took control 50 percent of the time and let her take control 50 percent of the time. Women don't buy books like 50 shades of grey for no reason. They buy it because something in there appeals to their real desires... desires that society shames them out of accepting. Women want a man that's in control... but they believe they have to spout this feminist rhetoric, or at least they will until they find a man who doesn't go for that.
This is why I keep saying develop your manhood. How can you lead someone else if you aren't in control of yourself first?
I think you coli bros right about never believe what a women says........
Lady from my job is older then me. She trained me showed me the ropes. Found out she cheated on her husband with one of my homeboy from another job.
Treats me very nice all the time ,she even brought in a water for me today
I found this out from another friends.
Thing is she was not a dumb bytch. She married ,she treats her kids right,does lots of thing for her husband,very helpful and warm with everybody.
She not a pushover never lets ppl walk over her and kinda a tomboy. Even gave me a ride home when i did not have the car.
Everything about her say great women to wife.
Now that i found out she cheated i see her in a new light.
Now i want to fukk her should i ask my friend who smashed how he pulled her or let it be aka don't fukk her?
fukked up thing is i asked her is it true that ever married women has one famous man she will give the p*ssy to no matter what? She said NO and made it sound like only trash women do that.
Lady from my job is older then me. She trained me showed me the ropes. Found out she cheated on her husband with one of my homeboy from another job.
Treats me very nice all the time ,she even brought in a water for me today
I found this out from another friends.
Thing is she was not a dumb bytch. She married ,she treats her kids right,does lots of thing for her husband,very helpful and warm with everybody.
She not a pushover never lets ppl walk over her and kinda a tomboy. Even gave me a ride home when i did not have the car.
Everything about her say great women to wife.
Now that i found out she cheated i see her in a new light.
Now i want to fukk her should i ask my friend who smashed how he pulled her or let it be aka don't fukk her?
fukked up thing is i asked her is it true that ever married women has one famous man she will give the p*ssy to no matter what? She said NO and made it sound like only trash women do that.
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i feel you breh. when i say "be happy" i don't mean be a pushover though. doesn't mean you have to smile at all either. you handled that shyt right though so keep doing what works for you
I cant wait until i pay off this owed tuition debt to my college so i have more savings and i can start finally doing the strength training i have wanted to do for a while:
http://stronglifts.com/stronglifts-5x5-beginner-strength-training-program/
http://stronglifts.com/free-stronglifts-5x5-report/
download the PDF file and see what i mean....its a phenomenal read.
Basically my point is that as a skinny guy most of my life(not saying brolic guys cannot be herbed by women) its gonna be real funny to see the reactions of women 1 year from now after in the new year i start going hard for a whole year with the program and pigging out every day(now that i have the money) and them treating me different because not only do i look more impressive physically now but also with my new confidence...
i got the weights and the willpower already the issue is just the nutrition
i always have that pdf on my phone. did it for a while last year and got into the best shape of my life.I cant wait until i pay off this owed tuition debt to my college so i have more savings and i can start finally doing the strength training i have wanted to do for a while:
http://stronglifts.com/stronglifts-5x5-beginner-strength-training-program/
http://stronglifts.com/free-stronglifts-5x5-report/
download the PDF file and see what i mean....its a phenomenal read.
Basically my point is that as a skinny guy most of my life(not saying brolic guys cannot be herbed by women) its gonna be real funny to see the reactions of women 1 year from now after in the new year i start going hard for a whole year with the program and pigging out every day(now that i have the money) and them treating me different because not only do i look more impressive physically now but also with my new confidence...
i got the weights and the willpower already the issue is just the nutrition
dnt wanna get into my weight but im far tooooo skinny
does it really help you accelerate that fast? i read the pdf multiple times and mehdi made a great argument as to why squats by itself can do for you more than nonsense "sit ups" and "crunches"
its a pain in the ass making minimum wage though and not having enough priorities for yourself
i got all this willpower in me waiting to come out but only nutrition is stopping it.
it'll actually seem slow in the beginning. the first few sessions you'll feel like a bytch and like you're wasting your time. First trap i will tell you to avoid. DO NOT go for the shortcut. follow the program AS IS for 3 months no matter how silly it will seem in the beginning. I looked like a straight up BYTCH lifting the empty bar at the gym. Then i discovered there's only one thing that looks sillier than benching/squatting an empty bar for sets: benching/squatting a bar with 2.5 pounds plates on each sidednt wanna get into my weight but im far tooooo skinny
does it really help you accelerate that fast? i read the pdf multiple times and mehdi made a great argument as to why squats by itself can do for you more than nonsense "sit ups" and "crunches"
its a pain in the ass making minimum wage though and not having enough priorities for yourself
i got all this willpower in me waiting to come out but only nutrition is stopping it.
at the gym. Ego is a motherfukker. Don't try to outsmart it though. as far as nutrition...even the pdf says it, the most important thing is to lift, then nutrition. do the best you can. I don't know your situation but is it about finance or more like you don't have time to prepare stuff to eat? is it possible to get a better job? (depending on where you are, the economy, etc). Also check out the gym section of these boards, they might have tips on how to get more protein in your nutrition for cheap (tuna, eggs, what types of meats/fish to buy, cottage cheese, etc). If it's about the time, maybe buy whey to supplement (but don't buy into the hype that you need protein powder to build muscle, it can help depending on your time constraints though
)my overall advice is not to stress on trying to do everything perfect. do the best you can with your means and time and keep at it for 3 months. after that if you're not satisfied, you just used three months on your life
but if you did your best, chances are you'll be like 
at the results and that shyt will not only motivate you as far as your physical fitness but also in other areas of your life because you will have proven to yourself what will power, discipline and focus can accomplish.