Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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Yup. These women will keep taking these free dates as long as these nikkaz keep offering. brehs gotta smarten up, the power is in our hand.
Beerus
Banned
Brehs, Its very unlikely that I see chick again. I wanted to ask her out face to face like after we was done wit school in a few weeks.
Should I just text her and ask her out? I mean shyt looks wack to me, I'd rather do it face to face, but shyt if I a nikka cant see her >_>
Should I just text her and ask her out? I mean shyt looks wack to me, I'd rather do it face to face, but shyt if I a nikka cant see her >_>
Rich Spirit
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umm how about calling her?
Beerus
Banned
I might have a prob with that shyt I hate talking on the phone, and I would have to start some kind of convo before askin her out shiiiieet i might have to do this
Face to face would be the most comfortable for me(i know its crazy)
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
you aint gotta have a conversation, just ask straight up
Face to face would be the most comfortable for me(i know its crazy)
Beerus
Banned
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
I want to add to this thread....
If a girl is feeling you, she is feeling you. Meaning...text messages aren't one sided, telephone calls aren't one sided and meetups aren't one sided. As men we are supposed to initiate things of course, but when you have to do it over and over again you're practically convincing the girl to go out with you. Let it go. I'm the kind of person that will drop a potential relationship if I feel that the woman isn't into it like I am. You have to trust your gut. Sometimes I'm wrong and sometimes I'm right but I live with it. There are way too many women out there to put yourself through that. All women have options whether they admit it or not. As a man it is essential for you to have options unless you are in a committed relationship. You have to even the playing field.
If a girl is feeling you, she is feeling you. Meaning...text messages aren't one sided, telephone calls aren't one sided and meetups aren't one sided. As men we are supposed to initiate things of course, but when you have to do it over and over again you're practically convincing the girl to go out with you. Let it go. I'm the kind of person that will drop a potential relationship if I feel that the woman isn't into it like I am. You have to trust your gut. Sometimes I'm wrong and sometimes I'm right but I live with it. There are way too many women out there to put yourself through that. All women have options whether they admit it or not. As a man it is essential for you to have options unless you are in a committed relationship. You have to even the playing field.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Most people would be like your thinkn so hard.... I dont know what it is.Im not talkin about the ones that have jus ta pair of shoes.Im talkin the ones who wear so much leopard skin they can audition for Broadway show "Cats" women's version of camouflage
i feel you breh. when i say "be happy" i don't mean be a pushover though. doesn't mean you have to smile at all either. you handled that shyt right though so keep doing what works for youCashier Chronicles:
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You guys remember me discussing in here recently how I think as a masterpeice as this thread is that we have been focusing TOO MUCH on the relationship aspect when it comes to women? I still believe so. We have to remember the thread is about "gems of dealing with women" but the gems don't necessarily have to always be from a relationship aspect or mindset. It can be like what i brought up before about other moments in life like in our jobs. And this could be the perfect thing to get going because it would be interesting if all of us discuss for the next couple of pages how women interact with you as CUSTOMERS...
Depending on if any of you have any retail jobs or things of that nature to make a judgement.
A lady came to my register with 2 shopping carts each full of stuff by herself...I started bagging for her and she was still not finished with the first cart and putting stuff up....i suddenly stop what i am doing and im just looking at my screen, looking at my food code book,etc ....she is looking up every couple of seconds to see what is the issue and giving me thislook and after i get annoyed i tell her in a calm voice "Miss I can't bag the rest of your stuff if you still have bags up here(she still had not picked up anything i bagged in the cart)
Whether she was faking or not....the broad starts talking about "Oh my god i'm so sorry i did not know what you were looking at me for" and then throughout the rest of the entire time she starts acting extra nice and saying "Thank you" every second.
I have been getting very good at this now and holding my ground and have been still been witnessing first hand this epidemic...Turbulent I know you brought up to be "happy" but this is why you cannot be happy in the sense of "happy go lucky Magic Johnson" type of happiness because you will get killed for it.....its like being a pool of venom with these beasts. That doesn't mean though i am saying im gonna come to there "defeated' just saying i am gonna have my guard up and become adept at handling them.
MULTIPLE times yesterday I had women just throw up their keys with the reward card up on the conveyer belt...It is not as big an issue as when its the card itself that they put up(but its still a bit annoying). But you guys in here know how when you have your car or house keys with a million other cards on it? Basically what i mean by this is think about if any of you were throwing up those keys that had your Subway card on it, your macys card, cvs, target, duane reade,etc....
That is the kind of lack of class I get on a consistent basis. With one lady i just gave her back the keysand said "miss can you show me your pathmark card" and she did it..
honestly it depends. sometimes it doesn't mean anything. maybe the chick is broke and it's a hand-me down.
it does scream "look at me" though in general.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
My bad I didnt see Mr.Somebody post on this.