Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

i hit the clubs the last two weekends .. the first night, i spent in the corner replying to my ex cause i thought i had a chance with her back but i was liquored so i had a :meh: time. the second time i barely wanted to move inside a club cause i was too down.

one other thing i keep fighting over. 1. this girl has no options cause of her situation and 2. she's out with the guy from work and probably fukking

i've been there breh, i remember i slept with a chick a few weeks after and i felt like i was "cheating"



All girls have options, because they can always find a guy who wants to sleep with them, wife? bring home to mommy? doubtful. But the majority of women cannot tell the difference between guys who want to sleep with them and guys who actuall ywant to be in a relationship with.


2. i know its hard and we never want to think about it, but unless she was extremely religious waiting for marriage she's prob getting dikked down.

 

[JT-Money]

truth be told, i can't date multiple women. i like one girl who is loyal and wants to spend time with me. Besides the girl i was with watched me like a hawk, and was so insecure that i would leave her that we would fight multiple times over who i'm talking to .. why is some girl hollering at me etc. . but i understand that's what women do in a relationship.

but before i ended with her, i kinda lied to her telling her that i already got a date lined up ... some macho bullshyt .. but truth be told my weekends are being spent on liquor and weed

You don't necessarily have to date them but having a few female acquaintances always comes in handy. For on thing they can introduce you to other women you normally wouldn't get a chance to meet.

I haven't read too many posts on your situation so I don't know how long you've been broken up. But if your thinking about getting back with her those situations rarely work out. I'm sorta going through a similar situation with a girl I dated years ago.

 

[The Frozen One]

trust me she does care

no women is going to say otherwise

just the old have fun, have a great time ish, when deep down there , plus its either for a woman to get a date as a male its harder.

the funniest thing out all this is that right i have a economics class about women's role in the society. And this last topic is all about women choosing to delay marriage over careers. This is pretty much the norm. But this bytch married her first love at 18 and popped 2 kids by 22 ... .. literally the book calls these women "losers of society"

 

[MikelArteta]

the funniest thing out all this is that right i have a economics class about women's role in the society. And this last topic is all about women choosing to delay marriage over careers. This is pretty much the norm. But this bytch married her first love at 18 and popped 2 kids by 22 ... .. literally the book calls these women "losers of society"

the earlier a woman marries more than likely the marriage will fail.

because they want to have "fun"

trust me breh you won you'll see it one day, just go on pof and search single moms there out there even HOTTER than what you had but still cant get a quality man, once you get in arelationship wiht a woman with no baggage you'll be saying why did i waste two years with her

 

[The Frozen One]

You don't necessarily have to date them but having a few female acquaintances always comes in handy. For on thing they can introduce you to other women you normally wouldn't get a chance to meet.

I haven't read too many posts on your situation so I don't know how long you've been broken up. But if your thinking about getting back with her those situations rarely work out. I'm sorta going through a similar situation with a girl I dated years ago.

basic summary .. got attached to a single mom of 2..with her for two .. we got into argument about a month ago about some shyt she didn't tell me about her kid, i tell her to fukk off .. then i wanted her back so i begged and pleaded..for 3 weeks she strung me along saying she'll think about it.. i rage even more .. completely turn into a fakkit ass simp crying and telling her i want her back..then as recent as few days i deleted her from all social media and deleted her # .. but she still owes me a grand ..

even more summary: i'm a fukking dumbass.

speaking of money @His_Excellence_Reincar .. should i even attempt to hit her up about the money she owes me. I did bring it up with her and told her gotta fulfill her obligations she made during the relationship and pay my card back and she said she will. Even if she pays about 70% of it i'll be happy. That's also one of the other reasons i wanted her to get back to me so i can make sure she pays what she owes me.

 

[Ohene]

Female acquaintances are useful for me not so I can kick it with friends and stuff...but for other reasons.

The best way to learn or confirm your theories about women is to have a couple "friends" who are comfortable enough with you to talk about their own exploits/experiences/problems with dudes. Texting games, sex, neglect, dates, dudes they are interested in, dudes they have no interest in, adversity I can go on. You learn about how girls handle and react to each and every one of those issues when are cool with them. And the more you have the more you learn about the broad range. After a while you start to realize that they often think about a lot of the same shyt we do. You learn so many things, I probably will have trouble scratching the surface. How they sabotage each other. What they find attractive. How words and actions are two diff things. So much.

"I messaged this guy 2 hours ago...why hasnt he replied yet?"
"I really like this guy and I want to take it further but don't want him to think I'm easy"
"This guy is such an a$$hole but he's so good in bed"
"This guy keeps messaging but I'm not interested."..."So tell him."... "Nah"

etc etc. You start to learn what these girls really care about and what concerns them. But be careful because one problem is guys sometimes try to pigeonhole girls.

"This method worked on this chick...so I'm gonna do the same to this chick."
"This chick liked when I did this, so I'm sure this chick will too"

But nah, gotta treat each case individually. And thats where a lack of bitterness or laziness helps. At the root, girls are all the same in that they're a little imbalanced. But this imbalance yields different results lol. It's like experimenting with two random chemicals and seeing what the result is.

I'll continue this later with a prime example of how my experiences befriending women has lowed me to really confirm certain suspicions such as:

1. the whacamole theory / window of opportuntiy
2. the moodiness and irrationality of women
3. the crying shoulder =/= p*ssy
4. dikk is all that matters
5. Honesty > all

etc etc. Hopefully I can remember some good stories

 

[JT-Money]

basic summary .. got attached to a single mom of 2..with her for two .. we got into argument about a month ago about some shyt she didn't tell me about her kid, i tell her to fukk off .. then i wanted her back so i begged and pleaded..for 3 weeks she strung me along saying she'll think about it.. i rage even more .. completely turn into a fakkit ass simp crying and telling her i want her back..then as recent as few days i deleted her from all social media and deleted her # .. but she still owes me a grand ..

even more summary: i'm a fukking dumbass.

Believe me you got off easy with just a bruised ego. This chick I was dating aka "simping" strung me along for a year. To make a long story short I found out she was also talking to some other nikka by chance. I erased her number and stopped talking to her but never let her know why. About a year later found out through social media she must have married old dude. Now 2 years later she contacts me out of the blue saying she's unhappily married and wishes things between us hadn't ended. And wondering why I just stopped pursuing her and fell off the face of the earth. Basically blaming me for not wanting to get serious with her like she did nothing wrong. Now she's talking about cheating on her husband with me. But of course in her mind she's justified because of the way he treats her. I could've ended up in this other dudes shoes if I hadn't just cut off all contact back then.

 

[RealAssanova]

strength, yes sometimes second chances work when you and the person have been away from each other for awhile realize the error of your ways etc. but that's rare. You just have to keep reminding yourself doy ou really want her? or do you want the sex, the phone calls, the text messages, just someone to fill that void.

I remember I always thought I wanted my ex for a long while, then i finally started dating someone I was really interested in and then I realized all i was really missing was someone to talk to about my day, go to the movies with, someone i knew was thinking about and they were thinking about me.

the other part of your question is, you don't know. everyone is different. Is she probably thinking about you? yeah. Is she obsessing over you like you are over her doubtful, the thing with women sad to say is that its so easy for them, instead of dealing with the pain or the loss of a relationship or dating they can just hop right back into a relationship even though its a rebound and not have to eal with it. Does she want you back? again doubtful sad to say, when a woman wants you, or a woman wants to talk to you NOTHING Will stop her, not her pride, not her girlfriends nothing.

women will almost ALWAYS lose in the end because of this.

When we get dumped or cheated on, we end up goin through a rough patch that ultimately makes us better down the line. Why you think when nikkaz go cold turkey on em they always start blowin you up? They don't know how to properly handle break ups and shyt so they think by immediately getting wit someone else afterwards or the person they were cheatin on their man with would solve all their problems.

Them moments you see your ex months/years later and you lookin at her like and she tryna kick it and you like

 

[The Frozen One]

women will almost ALWAYS lose in the end because of this.

When we get dumped or cheated on, we end up goin through a rough patch that ultimately makes us better down the line. Why you think when nikkaz go cold turkey on em they always start blowin you up? They don't know how to properly handle break ups and shyt so they think by immediately getting wit someone else afterwards or the person they were cheatin on their man with would solve all their problems.

Them moments you see your ex months/years later and you lookin at her like and she tryna kick it and you like

one thing i don't understand is how women tell you during the relationship, we can't be friends .. there's no way i can still be friends with someone after breaking up .. but when it comes to breakup they're the first one telling you "why can't we be friends"

what's the logic behind this?

 

[Ohene]

It should also be noted that generally...all you have to do is make a girl feel comfortable, appreciated, listen and give her some good conversation (which mostly involves listening lol) if you want them to like you.

Once you do this, the floodgate opens and you can basically evaluate anything you need to about a girl that youre interested in. So many girls don't even know what hit em once they start feeling me. I'll tell you brehs. I've posted pics of my last girlfriend and we would all agree shes beautiful. My previous girlfriend was even better looking. And I've fornicated with other good looking girls as well...i have high standards. But I'll tell you one thing...I have NEVER EVER had to spend even ONE CENT on a girl before she became infatuated with me or wanted to smash. Even the high maintenance spoiled ones. Them ones will start to spoil you. Never. I have no whip. I used to drive my ex's dad's Infiniti M35x when we went on dates. Months later I was smashing on her parents bed as they were overseas. I've had girls have their moms drive them to spots when meeting with me for dates. It aint sure if itll last cause I'll be 23 next year but nonetheless girls dont care about that shyt.

Good conversation, comfort and an ear is all they need. Don't be their cheerleader because that is when you end up friendzoned. Always challenge them but be fair and don't judge. Master this and you'll have many a women right where you want them

 

[RealAssanova]

one thing i don't understand is how women tell you during the relationship, we can't be friends .. there's no way i can still be friends with someone after breaking up .. but when it comes to breakup they're the first one telling you "why can't we be friends"

what's the logic behind this?

they want to keep you in the loop and give you that false hope here and there while at the same time stroking her ego. I remember this one joint bout 3-4 years ago who i wanted. Funny thing is, after i spoke to her in class...she did the rest. Long story short, i asked her out one weekend, she made some bs excuse up and i said cool and walked away. She texts me bout 20 mins later talmbout "i hope this doesn't change things between us. You're really sweet ______". All i said to her bout 4-5 hours later "no biggie." Needless to say, we stopped communicating and i didn't give a shyt. Saw her the other day at school and we don't acknowledge one another.

Only fakkits stay friends and shyt with a women they fukked. Like how the hell can you be friends with someone you constantly dug out, ate out (if that's what you do) and a whole bunch of other shyt? Like how does that even work?

lemme tell you, it doesn't. Women got 0 logic. Do you and fukk what she thinks. She is a past and you don't carry your past with you forward. You learn from it.

 

[RealAssanova]

Believe me you got off easy with just a bruised ego. This chick I was dating aka "simping" strung me along for a year. To make a long story short I found out she was also talking to some other nikka by chance. I erased her number and stopped talking to her but never let her know why. About a year later found out through social media she must have married old dude. Now 2 years later she contacts me out of the blue saying she's unhappily married and wishes things between us hadn't ended. And wondering why I just stopped pursuing her and fell off the face of the earth. Basically blaming me for not wanting to get serious with her like she did nothing wrong. Now she's talking about cheating on her husband with me. But of course in her mind she's justified because of the way he treats her. I could've ended up in this other dudes shoes if I hadn't just cut off all contact back then.

i'm guessing you've been communicating with shorty?

i wouldn't entertain her any longer. The fact that she is willing to cheat on her HUSBAND, not even a boyfriend, with you speaks to her character. That is filthy person and i'd be fukkin repulsed by her.

Dats what i mean by nikkaz winning when they stop fukkin wit these hoes cuz this typ'a shyt ends up happening and you like..."damn, i wanted this hoe?"

 

[kevm3]

Don't waste your time getting that G back. Look at that as a lesson learned. You go around trying to get it back and I bet you you'll be wasting your time. Next time, learn to not loan out money to the majority of women because most of them won't pay it back.

 

[RealAssanova]

It should also be noted that generally...all you have to do is make a girl feel comfortable, appreciated, listen and give her some good conversation (which mostly involves listening lol) if you want them to like you.

Once you do this, the floodgate opens and you can basically evaluate anything you need to about a girl that youre interested in. So many girls don't even know what hit em once they start feeling me. I'll tell you brehs. I've posted pics of my last girlfriend and we would all agree shes beautiful. My previous girlfriend was even better looking. And I've fornicated with other good looking girls as well...i have high standards. But I'll tell you one thing...I have NEVER EVER had to spend even ONE CENT on a girl before she became infatuated with me or wanted to smash. Even the high maintenance spoiled ones. Them ones will start to spoil you. Never. I have no whip. I used to drive my ex's dad's Infiniti M35x when we went on dates. Months later I was smashing on her parents bed as they were overseas. I've had girls have their moms drive them to spots when meeting with me for dates. It aint sure if itll last cause I'll be 23 next year but nonetheless girls dont care about that shyt.

Good conversation, comfort and an ear is all they need. Don't be their cheerleader because that is when you end up friendzoned. Always challenge them but be fair and don't judge. Master this and you'll have many a women right where you want them

i gotta say summin here sachs.

Women cannot be controlled AT ALL. Look at JT's scenario. Shorty got married to a dude that prolly did everything you listed yet she all of a sudden wants to cheat? That marriage is over and worst of all, husband prolly ain't even know it.

Fukk what a women thinks or wants. How come them hoes in other parts of the world don't act like this? I ain't down with this entitled typ'a shyt. Quality women available is increasingly going down, when you got b!tches like drake talmbout "all she wanna do is smoke and fukk". Nikka i kno marriage for me is a long way down da road, but you think i ain't worried bout who gonne carry my offspring when i see what's outthere?

I feel for these hoes. They really lost outchea. Media and society ain't got no chill on em breh's.

 

[The Frozen One]

Don't waste your time getting that G back. Look at that as a lesson learned. You go around trying to get it back and I bet you you'll be wasting your time. Next time, learn to not loan out money to the majority of women because most of them won't pay it back.

i was thinking of texting her once a month just a week before the due date, so she knows to pay up. That way the ether will hit her and i'm at least trying to get my money back. Do this for the next 3 months and maybe i get the 70% of it back.