Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i agree with @twan83 if you are messing wiht a single mom for especially two years, and even though you never wanted to meet the kids, a credible decent single mother would realize that any man has to accept her kids and her, and since you didn't and it went on two years you should take solace in at least that. That's shes no good sorry to say and stop blaming yourslef and your actions
 

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i agree with @twan83 if you are messing wiht a single mom for especially two years, and even though you never wanted to meet the kids, a credible decent single mother would realize that any man has to accept her kids and her, and since you didn't and it went on two years you should take solace in at least that. That's shes no good sorry to say and stop blaming yourslef and your actions

ya granted he treated her like crap and all but that not seeing 2 kids alone says a lot that shyt bothers me a lot. its like she dont give a damn bout her kids. ya she had them half the week but still no excuse for that. what kids gonna think bout not meeting bf for 2 years and mom listening too that shyt is hurtful. sorry too say but she needs the :camby: treatment imo
 
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ya granted he treated her like crap and all but that not seeing 2 kids alone says a lot that shyt bothers me a lot. its like she dont give a damn bout her kids. ya she had them half the week but still no excuse for that. what kids gonna think bout not meeting bf for 2 years and mom listening too that shyt is hurtful. sorry too say but she needs the :camby: treatment imo

I'll give more background in this regard.

Her mom left her dad while she was young. And she hated the fact that her bf brought guys and met with her when none of them gave a fukk about her except to bang the mom. She didn't want the kids to go through a carousel of guys. So she was ok with it at first because she didn't want me to meet the kids in the beginning. But as time went on and we became close she would bring it up more often.

I was still scared to. I understand why she did what she did. It's not healthy for the kids to go through that. Especially when they're seeing the dad half the week.
 
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I just wanna say thanks to all the people here for their support and advice. :salute: to all of you.

It's hard talking about this among my friends cause they'll give me the :camby: and don't wanna hear it, so I have to express myself over the internet.

I've never felt or experienced something like this before. I only loved one other girl besides her and she cheated on me so it was easy to forget her.
 

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I just wanna say thanks to all the people here for their support and advice. :salute: to all of you.

It's hard talking about this among my friends cause they'll give me the :camby: and don't wanna hear it, so I have to express myself over the internet.

I've never felt or experienced something like this before. I only loved one other girl besides her and she cheated on me so it was easy to forget her.

No offense breh but it sounds like you need some new friends as well.

My brothers are ride or die, If I got a problem regardless of what it is they be there to listen and offer advice.
 

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"Found you guys the other day (when ranked #2 worst sub), and I gotta say that swallowing the rp has been rough. While I've always known I was more of a "beta" guy, every lost opportunity from my college days is coming back to slap me in the face as I'm burying myself in this new knowledge.

Aside from that, it's really opened my eyes to my current relationship -- I think I've become the beta provider to a girl that thinks she's hit the wall. We've been dating 7 months, and things are beginning to align themselves in a fashion that I will be supporting her when she goes back to grad school in 2014 (for reference, we're both 25). She hadn't gotten laid in almost a year before we met (and she is attractive -- cute face, very nice t*ts and a big ass). Maybe she's just picky/prude? Oh no, she's enjoyed her time on the carousel (not nearly all of them, just the interesting ones):

  • Had a foursome (her + 3 guys) in high school
  • Was FWB with a guy who had a girlfriend -- when he wouldn't dump her, she fukked both of his roommates for revenge
  • Cheated on one of her boyfriends during a "mini study abroad" -- hooked up with another kid on the trip that fukked her in the ass in a bathroom
  • Spent a long weekend being a base bunny -- each night with a different branch of the service
After reading TRP for the past 2 days, I've been slowly putting some pieces together: every guy she's "hooked up" with has been an alpha -- and (almost) every guy she's "dated" has been a beta. I guess what I'm asking here is, what does this mean for me? Is she setting me up to be her beta bytch (emotional & financial support) while she goes back to school and studies more alpha cock?"

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/...ill_is_hitting_real_hard_right_now/?limit=500


guys gotta be better at noticing the red flags, i'm sure every guy on that base or on that study abroad or whatever knew what she was about otherwise things wouldn't have escalated quite so quickly in such short periods of time
 

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No offense breh but it sounds like you need some new friends as well.

My brothers are ride or die, If I got a problem regardless of what it is they be there to listen and offer advice.

this 100, i got way too many friends i could call up to talk about whatever


of course there are gonna be a couple that are just gonna give you the :camby: but you need to have a couple friends/family members that you can be open with
 

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Fellas gotta realize in DATING/Relationships it always benefits the woman.Think about it would you work hard if:

Somebody always paid your way (dinner,movies,events etc

Always opened a door for you

Not used to the word NO (notice how prettiest women always have back up options)

When you do something wrong your always in the right (nobody ever believes a woman can do a man wrong)
 

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so....did I tell you guys about the story months ago how this girl I was riding with in a cab with 2 other guys lied about one guy in the car being her "uncle" to the driver ...in order pay a lower fare after it was just me and her left? :troll:
 

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I think when it comes to women, its black and white.

i have dealt with women that really liked me and breh's, shyt felt nice AND natural. But this whole notion of playin hard to get and chasing i think is stupid. To a point atleast.

i think where the frustration arises from is dudes get that concept and lack of interest mixed up. If a shorty is feelin you, you'll 90-100% kno. Anything other than that, and you doing too much, especially if she ain't rewarding you.

Society is to blame for this because they changed how women are suppose to naturally behave (feminine and loving) into something they are not accustomed to doing. For example, a shorty you know likes you, but her friends and society tells her she shouldn't be easy because guys hate that and therefore she should play hard to get. So she starts to do something out of her element and what ends up happening? the guy will either fuk her and leave her for playing or completely lose interest and drop her altogether. (A lose-lose)

Going back to the original point, even if you were to cut back on shyt and she comes back, i styll wouldn't entertain it. Ignore her texts and phonecalls, but not as a tactic. Really move on. You'll kno after this whether or not she was really and truly interested or if you saved yourself from a whole lot frustration and shyt. (A win-win)

P.S., this doesn't apply to shorties ya'll ain't attracted to.
 
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Make use of her potential network...

It ain't all about the p*ssy....

She might know some high people....
im not even sure if i believe her story, supposedly the car was her father's and he's a brain surgeon, they're from Italy (even though she had no accent) and she's in school to be a nurse. i know the story aint farfetched but i still find it hard to believe
 
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