Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I want to hear yall thoughts on this:

Ive had a gf for like 4 months..things are good...we have a lot in common and she is simple and easy to please. Ive already met her family, which i like them and vice versa. My girl is either at work, with fam, me, or with her 2 closes friends for happy hour.

However, ive fallen for this other chick who i have known for about 6 months, everyone is always telling me how crazy she is about me and she has told me the same. I have never hung out with her outside of work and to be honest im surprised i have gained these feelings for. She has a great personality as well along with other qualities.

How would you guys handle it
my chick looks better, never been married, and has no kids, is hispanic

the other chick is divorced, with a 12 yr old, and she is white

they roughly make about the same moneywise

im not going to dump my gf, whats that cliche saying the pasture is not always greener on the other side, plus things are good with my gf and I
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is anyone friends with exes?

I'm totally against it, when i'm done in a relationship with a broad, when i had facebook id remove, delete number, delete pictures and in like 30-60 days id b cleansed.

I refuse to be some "friend" when i was never a "friend" in the firstplace. I remember one time I decided to be a "friend", thenlike a few months later i saw a picture of my ex and her new dude as her facebook profile picture, and damn it hurt :to:, even though I wasn't with her and thought I was doing ok once i saw that it set me back, so now hell no.
 
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is anyone friends with exes?

I'm totally against it, when i'm done in a relationship with a broad, when i had facebook id remove, delete number, delete pictures and in like 30-60 days id b cleansed.

I refuse to be some "friend" when i was never a "friend" in the firstplace. I remember one time I decided to be a "friend", thenlike a few months later i saw a picture of my ex and her new dude as her facebook profile picture, and damn it hurt :to:, even though I wasn't with her and thought I was doing ok once i saw that it set me back, so now hell no.

i was friends with one of my ex .. and i had no hard feelings towards her, even when she got a bf. we still hung out and chatted once in a while, but that was about it.
 

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is anyone friends with exes?

I'm totally against it, when i'm done in a relationship with a broad, when i had facebook id remove, delete number, delete pictures and in like 30-60 days id b cleansed.

I refuse to be some "friend" when i was never a "friend" in the firstplace. I remember one time I decided to be a "friend", thenlike a few months later i saw a picture of my ex and her new dude as her facebook profile picture, and damn it hurt :to:, even though I wasn't with her and thought I was doing ok once i saw that it set me back, so now hell no.
I'm cordial with 3 exes and one i think would have my back if push came to shove (although i wouldn't expect it or feel entitled to it) but i'm not close friends with any of my exes.
 

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just got asked by my friend to watch BOTH of her kids.

*eats gumbo*

if we not fukking...NO.

:camby:

I immediately responded and told her im no babysitter im not the person for that.

let her get the baby daddy to

lol you watch the kids while she goes clubbing or sucking some other dudes dikk

only kids im watchig is my nieces
 

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let her get the baby daddy to

lol you watch the kids while she goes clubbing or sucking some other dudes dikk

only kids im watching is my nieces

only kids i watch are my niece and nephew. the baby daddy? lmao, i believe she finally doesnt deal with him anymore, and she doesnt have a BF. and i definitely don't wanna play stepdaddy. IDK who these women think we are.

all 2014 is about for me is being very close to graduating college and worrying about ME and setting up to buy a house before i turn 30 (im 27). fukk all these no good bytches...i'll wait. aint about to stress me out.
 
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only kids i watch are my niece and nephew. the baby daddy? lmao, i believe she finally doesnt deal with him anymore, and she doesnt have a BF. and i definitely don't wanna play stepdaddy. IDK who these women think we are.

all 2014 is about for me is being very close to graduating college and worrying about ME and setting up to buy a house before i turn 30 (im 27). fukk all these no good bytches...i'll wait. aint about to stress me out.

me and you are in the same place bro. I just turned 27 and graduated . Now i don't know what i should with my life. But i'm also gonna focus on strictly myself.
 

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is anyone friends with exes?

I'm totally against it, when i'm done in a relationship with a broad, when i had facebook id remove, delete number, delete pictures and in like 30-60 days id b cleansed.

I refuse to be some "friend" when i was never a "friend" in the firstplace. I remember one time I decided to be a "friend", thenlike a few months later i saw a picture of my ex and her new dude as her facebook profile picture, and damn it hurt :to:, even though I wasn't with her and thought I was doing ok once i saw that it set me back, so now hell no.


Nope I don't do the friends with exes thing
 

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DO NOT LEAVE YOUR GF WHO HAS NO KIDS FOR A WOMAN WHO HAS KIDS .. STICK TO WHAT YOU HAVE AND BE HAPPY WITH IT. GRASS WON'T BE GREENER WITH THE GIRL WHO HAS A KID. TAKE IT FROM SOMEONE WHO JUST GOT OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SINGLE MOM.

sorry about the caps lock, but gotta make sure you stay away from single moms. fukk her if you want to lol, but i wouldn't advise that either.


I had no plans on dumping my girl...she has been to kind to your boy....I just wish I can shake the feeling for this other chick
 

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just got asked by my friend to watch BOTH of her kids.

*eats gumbo*

if we not fukking...NO.

:camby:

I immediately responded and told her im no babysitter im not the person for that.

This is why unless you both grew up together like brother and sister, it's never a good idea to be "friends" with women. Guys are usually just waiting for a chance to fukk while women are just waiting for favours and money.
 

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I have like one "female friend" and I've known her for years, never dome anything with her. She is like a sister to me bit still once in a while she drops the we should date lol n stuff


This is why unless you both grew up together like brother and sister, it's never a good idea to be "friends" with women. Guys are usually just waiting for a chance to fukk while women are just waiting for favours and money.
 

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This is why unless you both grew up together like brother and sister, it's never a good idea to be "friends" with women. Guys are usually just waiting for a chance to fukk while women are just waiting for favours and money.

I'm not trying to fukk her. I only have 3 female friends anyway. One is married. This one has kids. I've known this one since 2004, the married one since 06, and the other since 2002. I do not plan on having any more female friends. The next one will be the woman that I marry, if I get married.

I have like one "female friend" and I've known her for years, never dome anything with her. She is like a sister to me bit still once in a while she drops the we should date lol n stuff

Lol. The one that we are referring to, she actually admits that I'm "too good" for her and she would "fukk over me" so trust me, i do small things for her, like pick her up from work since we live in the same complex. and most of the time, we are getting off at the same time since we work at the same place. We talk on the phone and give each other advice, im trying to get her to hook me up with her friend. Definitely don't want her.
 
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