Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Thing about female friends is this, only when they need something money, a ride, help moving etc. Do you year from them.

Like my godsons mother when she was broke, had no food, life was in the pit every day id year from her. Once I got her a job, and she now has money is doing good, shipped her child off to live with the dad and has a bf slowly it all stopped till I cut her out of my life permanently

If her life were ever to go to crap again I'll get a text msg apologizing saying how she realized how great of a friend I was

:child please:

:banderas: SO fukking true. The one with the kids told me she loved me last night. And the other one that's not married, periodically tells me how great I treat her. lmao. women are funny.
 

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Should I Move Out Of My Mum's House?


I'm 27, graduated from college in July, then moved back home while I looked for a job. While I been at home I worked minimal jobs while looking for my graduate job. I finally started my graduate job 2-3 weeks ago, since it was in the same town as my mum, I decided to stay home. My mum wants to charge me more than I would pay if I lived in a shared house and put rules on the amount of times I go out. I don't have problems with helping out financially at home, however she wants to put control on how many times I can go out.

At the moment, I work Monday to Friday, I'm out most weekends, some weekends I stay over my main chick's house, some weekends I'm at the club or out with the boys. At the moment I'm getting to know another female. Potentially I will have 2 women in my team. My mum now wants to put sanctions on me and control how much I go out.

I think its time I go live in a shared house with room-mates, moving in with my main chick is not an option. She been pressuring about marriage a few weeks back, moving in will make her start thinking things
 

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Thing about female friends is this, only when they need something money, a ride, help moving etc. Do you year from them.

Like my godsons mother when she was broke, had no food, life was in the pit every day id year from her. Once I got her a job, and she now has money is doing good, shipped her child off to live with the dad and has a bf slowly it all stopped till I cut her out of my life permanently

If her life were ever to go to crap again I'll get a text msg apologizing saying how she realized how great of a friend I was

:child please:

I recently just befriended a female, the first actual female friend i've chose to be friends with in long ass time as opposed to being friendzoned. We worked together and she is just a mad cool girl - we vibe incredibly well, honestly at first I would try to make moves but I found out that she is muslim and she doesn't even hug guys and doesn't even try to feel affection for guys, shyt's not going to work with me on that level.

But it's cool, we chill and shyt, and talk/text. she doesn't use me for things. we're good friends if I say so myself.

And she introduced to her bad dominican friend with the crazy fatty which i'm currently trying to see if I can get up in that ass :jawalrus:.
 

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Should I Move Out Of My Mum's House?


I'm 27, graduated from college in July, then moved back home while I looked for a job. While I been at home I worked minimal jobs while looking for my graduate job. I finally started my graduate job 2-3 weeks ago, since it was in the same town as my mum, I decided to stay home. My mum wants to charge me more than I would pay if I lived in a shared house and put rules on the amount of times I go out. I don't have problems with helping out financially at home, however she wants to put control on how many times I can go out.

At the moment, I work Monday to Friday, I'm out most weekends, some weekends I stay over my main chick's house, some weekends I'm at the club or out with the boys. At the moment I'm getting to know another female. Potentially I will have 2 women in my team. My mum now wants to put sanctions on me and control how much I go out.

I think its time I go live in a shared house with room-mates, moving in with my main chick is not an option. She been pressuring about marriage a few weeks back, moving in will make her start thinking things

27 years old and your mom wants to control how many times you go out. foh with that. I couldn't deal with that. If I were you i'd move out if you can, or just deal with that b/s
 

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With a parent like that id moved out.

I'm 28 and live at home with my parents half of the year.

My parents tell me nothing, just sometimes my mom will ask if I can cut the lawn, orshe made dinner if I want any minus that?

If my parents are there and I incite people over they always go upstairs to their room even though I don't care.
 

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another dream men need to give up on: we need to stop hoping to be able to put the whole operation on auto-pilot. this is like the ultimate dream for a dude. to be able to just have your chick who loves you unconditionally and follows instructions and being able to sleep. it's romantic to us. it's simply not happening. you'll never teach your chick to the point she doesn't need instructions. because once that happens, why would she even stay with you? it's like patrice said, you teach her your kung-fu and once in a while she'll test to see if she can beat her master. she is your pupil and you have love for her just like she loves her master but she's still trying to beat her master and once she succeeds, as much love and respect she had for you, she'll look for a new master to elevate her martial art. As her kung-fu master, you can't just put shyt on auto-pilot and hope for things to run smoothly for ever. eventually she'll figure out the pattern and know exactly when to strike.

i remember i saw a dope kung-fu movie once where the dude kill a kid's father in front of the kid. kid is mad and the dude takes pity on the kid so he takes him under his wing and teaches him kung-fu and even tells the kid that at any point in time he is welcome to challenge him to take revenge for his father even if he doesn't expect it. Kid grows to have a love-hate relationship with his adoptive father/master. this is how it usually is in relationships.
 

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another dream men need to give up on: we need to stop hoping to be able to put the whole operation on auto-pilot. this is like the ultimate dream for a dude. to be able to just have your chick who loves you unconditionally and follows instructions and being able to sleep. it's romantic to us. it's simply not happening. you'll never teach your chick to the point she doesn't need instructions. because once that happens, why would she even stay with you? it's like patrice said, you teach her your kung-fu and once in a while she'll test to see if she can beat her master. she is your pupil and you have love for her just like she loves her master but she's still trying to beat her master and once she succeeds, as much love and respect she had for you, she'll look for a new master to elevate her martial art. As her kung-fu master, you can't just put shyt on auto-pilot and hope for things to run smoothly for ever. eventually she'll figure out the pattern and know exactly when to strike.

i remember i saw a dope kung-fu movie once where the dude kill a kid's father in front of the kid. kid is mad and the dude takes pity on the kid so he takes him under his wing and teaches him kung-fu and even tells the kid that at any point in time he is welcome to challenge him to take revenge for his father even if he doesn't expect it. Kid grows to have a love-hate relationship with his adoptive father/master. this is how it usually is in relationships.


i swear some female poisoned patrice
 

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i swear some female poisoned patrice

:patrice: more like the gov't breh, he was about to break open some of these conspiracies/agendas with his thinking. He would sprinkle immense knowledge but to safe he would hide that shyt in jokes, so you'd end up laughing and being like :ohhh: " so they really fighting to rebuild haiti without haitians" :ohhh:
 

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I told some of my brehs in here about this....but there are women out here who are in relationships yet hanging out with male friends.Funny thing is when you flip the script and say you wanna hang with female friends they get defensive :mindblown:
 

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bytches ain't shyt. :smh:

Plus that annoying chick with the red hair needs to get punched in the face just for living. :camby:
 
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I told some of my brehs in here about this....but there are women out here who are in relationships yet hanging out with male friends.Funny thing is when you flip the script and say you wanna hang with female friends they get defensive :mindblown:

fukking sluts
 

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I told some of my brehs in here about this....but there are women out here who are in relationships yet hanging out with male friends.Funny thing is when you flip the script and say you wanna hang with female friends they get defensive :mindblown:

there's this chick who I feel wants to get with me, but she got way too many "homeboys" for me, and always hanging out with them. I feel like she would be that type to be still trying to hang out 1 on 1 with another nikka while she's in a relationship :smh:
 

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Just your average bride after marriage.
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:russ:

im randomly depressed right now, but found temporary happiness in knowing that in 5-10 years a lot of my friends will be divorced.

i feel like an ass for saying that but oh well​

:whoa:

plus, if you're friends with them, you're gonna have to do a lot of consoling anyway so :ufdup:

Should I Move Out Of My Mum's House?


I'm 27, graduated from college in July, then moved back home while I looked for a job. While I been at home I worked minimal jobs while looking for my graduate job. I finally started my graduate job 2-3 weeks ago, since it was in the same town as my mum, I decided to stay home. My mum wants to charge me more than I would pay if I lived in a shared house and put rules on the amount of times I go out. I don't have problems with helping out financially at home, however she wants to put control on how many times I can go out.

At the moment, I work Monday to Friday, I'm out most weekends, some weekends I stay over my main chick's house, some weekends I'm at the club or out with the boys. At the moment I'm getting to know another female. Potentially I will have 2 women in my team. My mum now wants to put sanctions on me and control how much I go out.

I think its time I go live in a shared house with room-mates, moving in with my main chick is not an option. She been pressuring about marriage a few weeks back, moving in will make her start thinking things

based on your scenario, you should start looking.

paying more than market rate and still gotta follow rules like a boy. nah, be respectful but get outta there when you can.
:stylin:My ex paid 600 out of the 900 she owes me ... :blessed:

:ehh: genuinely surprised.



bytches ain't shyt. :smh:

Plus that annoying chick with the red hair needs to get punched in the face just for living. :camby:



that chick was so annoying, some of these women are devils, no other way to put it
 
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