Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Medio]

Everything with women is contingent on how much they like you. As soon as they stop liking you, you pretty much are nothing to them. You could have been there and done everything for them, but as soon as they don't have those feelings for you anymore, you are disposable. When a woman likes you, she's sweet as sugar. When she doesn't, she's cold as ice. It really doesn't matter that you help a woman out, you upgrade her or any of that nonsense. She won't appreciate it and won't care. She'll give her best to whatever man is making her 'feel something' at some particular moment in time... so I don't seek any longer to 'upgrade' some woman's game or position in life. They don't appreciate that at all. How many example of it do you need to see? A big girl finds the one and only guy who appreciates her while she was big and he stays by her side and helps her lose weight. As soon as she loses the weight and gets newfound attention, she ditches the guy that stood by her. You have some girl that is out of a job and has no money. James Simperson the II steps onto the scene and pays her rent and helps her get on her feet. Do you think she will appreciate that? I think not. Improving a woman's life, being by her side, etc., will not keep her around nor will it make her appreciate you. Ice cold, but it's the truth. Don't waste your resources trying to rescue these women. The only time you need to be spending on them is if they've demonstrated a commitment to you as your woman. Going over and fixing her computer for free, playing taxi cab and all other sorts of corny behavior is a no no.

she used to say i was sweet as sugar , now she cold hearted

 

[BreezyH]

Just was telling my friend yesterday that females won't turn down a free meal, if a woman is interested, she will take the initiative sometimes to plan something. Stop coming out of pocket each and every time thinking you are getting close, when in reality you probably aren't.

some dudes will never understand this. if you present yourself as someone who's willing to give, people are always going to take. you outchea doing $135 dates, gifts for no reason, no woman is turning that down regardless of her interest level. you offer yourself and if she gravitating toward that then we can see where things go.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Female I went out with last night legit tried to pay for the meal, I let her take care of the tip, but I appreciated the gesture

 

[DaRealness]

I've now just started reading that thread 'how did you find out your boo cheated'.

Wow.

I'm only on page 7 so far and already I'm thinking that is the second most important thread on this whole forum after this one.

 

[#1 pick]

Manhood doesn't exist anymore.

 

[Astroslik]

1.You tell them your #1 hurt and she throws in your face later

2.To gossip.Women love juicy news.You tell her you been hurt and she tells her homegirl,sister,mother etc Not that yo ucare what anyone thinks but they will advise her based on your hurt or as I say weakness.

3.Never tell any woman who you share interest in about your past relationship.The ONLY man who tells a woman about his past girlfriend is the man who has a child with another woman,cause you cant hide that.Even in that situation you say you have a child and keep it moving

I told her I've never been in love or been hurt before (which is true)

is this a bad look?

 

[MikelArteta]

Everything with women is contingent on how much they like you. As soon as they stop liking you, you pretty much are nothing to them. You could have been there and done everything for them, but as soon as they don't have those feelings for you anymore, you are disposable. When a woman likes you, she's sweet as sugar. When she doesn't, she's cold as ice. It really doesn't matter that you help a woman out, you upgrade her or any of that nonsense. She won't appreciate it and won't care. She'll give her best to whatever man is making her 'feel something' at some particular moment in time... so I don't seek any longer to 'upgrade' some woman's game or position in life. They don't appreciate that at all. How many example of it do you need to see? A big girl finds the one and only guy who appreciates her while she was big and he stays by her side and helps her lose weight. As soon as she loses the weight and gets newfound attention, she ditches the guy that stood by her. You have some girl that is out of a job and has no money. James Simperson the II steps onto the scene and pays her rent and helps her get on her feet. Do you think she will appreciate that? I think not. Improving a woman's life, being by her side, etc., will not keep her around nor will it make her appreciate you. Ice cold, but it's the truth. Don't waste your resources trying to rescue these women. The only time you need to be spending on them is if they've demonstrated a commitment to you as your woman. Going over and fixing her computer for free, playing taxi cab and all other sorts of corny behavior is a no no.

i've been in those positions and you are correct. the funny thing is you do all this back breaking ish for a broad and some other dude who does nothing is the one whose getting her best.

You help out a broad with her rent or whatever, its some other dude whose spending the night. You help her fix her computer, its some other dude shes skyping with, or chatting on pof with.

It's sad but rarely will you find a woman who appreciates your kindness or generosity,.

I have no problem with helping out soemone in need but like i've said before you can help out a man no homo and he will remember that till the day he dies, you can help out a woman and its eh nothing.

the things ive done in my life out of kindess not expecting sex, a kiss nothing a thanks would be nice but rarely did i even get that, and its sad that a few bad apples have turned me off from ever helping out a women again but ah well.

 

[Medio]

so this shyt still bothering me and I don't want it to

me and this girl went out then she ended it but i would still see her sometimes and keep it light and keep moving. she would just text me light shyt and i'd text back though, i'd never text her first though. then it's funny cause my uncle works with her. so a few weeks ago she tells me something my uncle has been doing to her at work (nothing sexual) but it's pretty rude - she asks me not to tell my uncle. so then after this I ask her if she wants to chill when break starts, she says yea. so then a few days after this I just ask to make plans for the day and then she's like she has to work more, study for mcat, shyt like this. so i tell her i'm confused to why she would she say yea then no. and she doesn't say anything to this (cause she knows it's fukked up). then a few days later she ask me if i said anything to my uncle, i just ignore it, then the next day she ask again following in the evening with a ?, following in the late night with an 'ok'. this was her birthday mind you. I feel she just asked to see if I was still on good terms with her. I just ignored them texts because I felt she played me saying she would hang out knowing she really wouldn't. I felt she thought she knew she could just pull this stunt and get away with it, then thought to herself damn that was kind of fukked up - let me text him to see if he's mad.

Anyways, I don't feel bad but at the same time I do. How do I not feel bad about this?. The reason I feel bad is because she really is a genuine nice girl but her flaw is her cowardness.

And then the next day I get a text from an unknown number, mad fishy.

 

[CASHAPP]

live and learn man, trust me the second girl I was in love with almost destroyed me and i sacrified and did alot, financially, emotionall I don't even want to get into it .

One time she was near death and I was the only person in the hospital with her for a few days, she was literally useless in life until she met me, she had no job, no education, every guy she been with before me just pumped and dumped.

I gave her my all and treated her like a queen, and in the end i had my heart ripped out, to this day im ashamed of all the simping stuff i did, i had to deal with the hardships, the talking out of suicide, the opening my door when she had no place to stay, the opening my cupboard when she had nothing to eat, and then i got played and some other dude got the finished product.

all you can do is cut off the poison, heal, get on with your life and choose better women and be smarter about it. I speak from experience , and still to this day I still don't want to rehash all the things this woman did to me. Literally if it wasn't for me she would be dead in a ditch somewhere, or turning tricks on the street.

sometimes having your heart broken is needed, you no logner see women as innocent and always right and realize what they are capable off.

they really need to repeal the 19th amendment

 

[kevm3]

I've now just started reading that thread 'how did you find out your boo cheated'.

Wow.

I'm only on page 7 so far and already I'm thinking that is the second most important thread on this whole forum after this one.

Pretty much. It's one reason among many why men need to stop with that tricking, paying for hair and nails, rent and all of that.

 

[My neck and my back]

Manhood doesn't exist anymore.

even if this shyt is scripted and overdramatized...it gives you a good idea of how 50/50 relationships work with nikkas that accept bullshyt from their bytch...bytches like this get enjoyment out of having that much control over a man even if they live in a miserable environment

 

[Turbulent]

so this shyt still bothering me and I don't want it to

me and this girl went out then she ended it but i would still see her sometimes and keep it light and keep moving. she would just text me light shyt and i'd text back though, i'd never text her first though. then it's funny cause my uncle works with her. so a few weeks ago she tells me something my uncle has been doing to her at work (nothing sexual) but it's pretty rude - she asks me not to tell my uncle. so then after this I ask her if she wants to chill when break starts, she says yea. so then a few days after this I just ask to make plans for the day and then she's like she has to work more, study for mcat, shyt like this. so i tell her i'm confused to why she would she say yea then no. and she doesn't say anything to this (cause she knows it's fukked up). then a few days later she ask me if i said anything to my uncle, i just ignore it, then the next day she ask again following in the evening with a ?, following in the late night with an 'ok'. this was her birthday mind you. I feel she just asked to see if I was still on good terms with her. I just ignored them texts because I felt she played me saying she would hang out knowing she really wouldn't. I felt she thought she knew she could just pull this stunt and get away with it, then thought to herself damn that was kind of fukked up - let me text him to see if he's mad.

Anyways, I don't feel bad but at the same time I do. How do I not feel bad about this?. The reason I feel bad is because she really is a genuine nice girl but her flaw is her cowardness.

And then the next day I get a text from an unknown number, mad fishy.

the uncle shyt, half of it is her trying to find an excuse to text you/seeking your attention, the other half is her being paranoid because she thinks your uncle is acting funny now and is wondering if you really did tell. Another thing i see from this is that she is scared of being the bad guy. like you said, she is a coward. you were straight forward with her about something that bothered you and she stayed silent cause there's nothing she could say. if you are trying to fukk, you could game your way into it by continuing doing what you are doing now.she's used to attention from you and now feels uneasy and awkward because she's not getting much from you, continue doing the same thing and watch her offer more and more in exchange of attention. the tricky part is knowing when to stop while your ahead before it crumbles. at certain points you could give her a bite at the carrot and then continue to dangle it infront of her face.

or you could just toss her in the bushes because at the end of the day, is it even worth all that extra effort?

 

[mamba]

I've now just started reading that thread 'how did you find out your boo cheated'.

Wow.

I'm only on page 7 so far and already I'm thinking that is the second most important thread on this whole forum after this one.

Where's the link to that?

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

Is it possible to renig on past p*ssy if you fukked all of her friends?

 

[DaRealness]

[quote="Turbulent, post: 6865907, member:

or you could just toss her in the bushes because at the end of the day, is it even worth all that extra effort?[/quote]

That's really all I'd advise the dude.