Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

@kevm3 with so much truth.

I thought I could be a exception to the rule. Just a heads up to any lurker or anyone that might be going back and forth with a Ex don't do it.... Especially if your the one that has to do the chasing and begging and pleading.


It might seem like your situation is different but trust me its not all that different when it all boils down, no matter how it may seem on the surface.








edit: I also need to out the mindset of wanting to shine hard to so i can look back at her in 3 years and be like "I told you so" granted im 31 now and she's 25. But that is a strong part of my burning motivation. I know it shouldn't be, but I have been like that my whole life.... You think your just gonna look past me or sleep on me. I'll make sure you know you slept on the wrong one.

Its a great thing and a terrible thing imo.... For this situation I'd prefer it more of a lifestyle change instead of something to prove or to "gloat" about

 

[Turbulent]

in life I think its a very powerful skill to be able to turn a negative experience into positive motivation. with that said - when your motivation isnt really positive and it relies on making others jealous and envious, youre not going to really be satisfied with your outcome - because youre still basing your successes on how someone else feels.

if youre not doing it in life to make YOU feel right, to make sure you have your OWN goals covered, and to make YOU happy, then youre still tied to this other person. youre worried about what they think about you. you still cant grow with that mentality and realize what you REALLY want to be doing with your life and how. or truly finding out why. instead of thinking and focusing on what someone else is going to feel about your success, think about how youre going to feel about it. thats the only way you keep your peace of mind intact and to stop living for validation from others. life your life for you, not to make other scornful and jealous. that should be the least important thing

 

[Mr210]

Just was telling my friend yesterday that females won't turn down a free meal, if a woman is interested, she will take the initiative sometimes to plan something. Stop coming out of pocket each and every time thinking you are getting close, when in reality you probably aren't.

Yep that's what I love about my gf

 

[Atlrocafella]

The looks other bad chicks give you when they see you with a bad chick

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Since we are talking sports analogies. Lets talk about women and "the ring". Women want rings like NFL quaterbacks want Super Bowl rings to seal their legacy,gain status,respect a "champion".etc Women want that ring so they can show it off and say "They are taken".Think about it,you dont see no small ring on no engage woman's finger.They say money cant buy love,notice bigger the ring more happier the woman.Alot of these brothas cant even afford lunch at the job,yet going out here buying expensive ring to make their lady happy.If a woman was truly non materialistic and loved you she would be happy with a rubber band or something.Im not sayin be cheap but at same time.Dont go mortgaging ya house when things dont work out because you decided to buy babygirl a 2(insert number) K ring.

 

[The Frozen One]

Fukk an ugly chick just for the hell of it or stay away ? Lol

 

[Rich Spirit]

Fukk an ugly chick just for the hell of it or stay away ? Lol

Stay away

Value yourself and your dikk

 

[Beerus]

new semester.... time to scope out on new targets at school

 

[Astroslik]

why do some girls ask you if you've ever been heartbroken/hurt?

 

[Raiders]

Theme song for this thread?



I guess a small portion of it, but I might bump this on my way to see a chick, so I will be in a cutting a bytch off mood...Looking for any excuse

 

[kevm3]

Any time you hear a woman say one of the keys to a relationship is that 'relationships are built on trust' or 'i need my space in a relationship' as a point of emphasis, she most likely is a cheater. Her telling you relationships are built on trust is subtly saying that she doesn't want a man watching her actions and she has had previous men who looked at what she did and probably called her out on it. How she will refer to those guys is as, 'insecure' or some other such nonsense. Women that use that kind of language are the type that want to be in a relationship with you for emotional stability, but also be free to go to the club with her homegirls and chill with other dudes. What will happen when you try to call her on it? "You trust me don't you babe? Remember, relationships are built on trust!"

 

[TLOL is back]

This is a dirty trick for serious relationships.

Apologize and express guilt over something stupid and something she doesn't care about every once in a while.

The purpose of this is when you're arguing about something that actually matters, you can easily convince her its her fault, because she'll instinctively realize that when you're wrong, you apologize for it.

 

[MikelArteta]

why do some girls ask you if you've ever been heartbroken/hurt?

they just want to know about your past relationships. I never bring up the past, because they will throw it in your face later on.

"now i see why that chick cheated on you"

 

[Astroslik]

they just want to know about your past relationships. I never bring up the past, because they will throw it in your face later on.

"now i see why that chick cheated on you"

I took it as her seeing if she can possibly run game on me or not

i dont trust these hoes

 

[DaRealness]

Any time you hear a woman say one of the keys to a relationship is that 'relationships are built on trust' or 'i need my space in a relationship' as a point of emphasis, she most likely is a cheater. Her telling you relationships are built on trust is subtly saying that she doesn't want a man watching her actions and she has had previous men who looked at what she did and probably called her out on it. How she will refer to those guys is as, 'insecure' or some other such nonsense. Women that use that kind of language are the type that want to be in a relationship with you for emotional stability, but also be free to go to the club with her homegirls and chill with other dudes. What will happen when you try to call her on it? "You trust me don't you babe? Remember, relationships are built on trust!"

Something like that would tell me right away a chick is bad news. They wanna get into a relationship but still holla about 'independence'. FOH.

they just want to know about your past relationships. I never bring up the past, because they will throw it in your face later on.

"now i see why that chick cheated on you"

These Delilah ass bytches think they're slick.

I would just tell them "anyone who has dealt with human relationships romantic or otherwise has been hurt in some way or another" and leave it at that. The key is not to get into specifics and be as vague as possible. No way am I exposing my achilles heel and giving you any ammunition to use on me later on down the line.