Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CrossBones]

dont waste your time trying to figure out if they like u, because if you do, you both will lose, but YOU as the man lose more because there is some chick out there that dont need to question her attraction...if the chick has to think about whether shes into you or not....its time for a trip to BUSHESVILLE

I think a lot of men have a problem with trying to rationalize what others think about us, when many times, its not rational at all. its just emotion, or something else that doesnt really matter. some things you cant figure out, and maybe youre better for it. finding your strengths and being true to yourself is the best thing to do in life - and compromising who you are in order to make everyone that you meet happy is a mistake.

and youre right, basically, women are in the position where they are approached and courted, so they know that for the most part they do not need to question their attraction. its broadcasted to them wherever they go. they know, they cant help but know. where they get it messed up is that they cant tell who is really in it for them, or who is in it just for the puss.

I mean, even broke chicks, or hurt looking women can get a man to . thirsty men are setting things up so theyre making 5s feel like 10s. its imbalancing the whole game, which is why I say you shouldnt fake or compromise anything about you in order to stand out and be a part of these games. making everyone happy and accepting of you is only gonna make you turn out like everyone else.

the main advantage women have is that they work on that intuitive level. they just understand, that if you click, then you click. if not, well, then they might try to keep you around for other things (friendship, favors, money, being nice etc). things that we generally really dont care about. as men, when we try too hard to please and make the women we're around happy, its in order to validate our importance/attractiveness/strength etc. and thats a big mistake. things should come natural and make sense, they shouldnt be forced.


the easiest way to find out if a woman is into you like you want her to be, is to take her as far as you want her to go with you. elevate it and dont hesitate. from there its either a yes or no beating around the bush solves nothing, and wondering doesnt either.

 

[Panther]

When u really take the time to listen to what these chicks are out here saying the amount of bullshyt and hoe like tendencies they display are crazy

Went out with my boys tonight and one had a few girls pull up on us. One is a single mother, one is a certified hoe and the other was an attractive chick whom i also determined to be a hoe.

Will elaborate once i get some sleep

 

[BreezyH]

How do you get to this mindset though? Like this other girl i was talking to, i immediately built enough attraction, and now she wants to meet me. But i don't give a crap about her cause she's not really that hot. But i'm just doing it for the experience Being in a LTR affects your game, i just need to get back in the game.

The other girl though, she's young and got a nice body. I'm attracted to her for sure, but i think the age gap is too much (she's 21) .. I just don't want to set something up only for her to flake.

it's like you're either a buyer or a seller.

if you go into a situation and it's known you're the buyer, then you're already in a position of weakness. you let the seller dictate the "price" and you're at their mercy. funny how the most expensive shyt is the stuff we don't need, takes a lot to maintain, or is just plain bad for you.

either be a seller or a discriminating buyer and watch the quality offers come your way. and this needs to be genuine, car salesmen are up on game and can tell when someone's did their homework but is acting nonchalant - you really cant give a fukk because items are meant to be bought, there'll be more out there to consume. nike, bmw, rolex, debeers all sell you on the idea that what they have is luxurious and rare when in reality the same pair of jordans is coming out next year and diamonds really aint worth shyt. look past the marketing and understand that they need your business as much as you need the product.

take this and apply it to dating and women.

 

[Turbulent]

@World War Z

another way to help you "get to this point"

spend 4 days without talking to any chick, without trying to get something from them. when you go out, be like the invisible man, just observing. no matter how pretty she is, don't "seek" from her, just fall back and observe how people interact with eachother. You will notice a lot of things about both men and women.

 

[Shameonyou]

I think a lot of men have a problem with trying to rationalize what others think about us, when many times, its not rational at all. its just emotion, or something else that doesnt really matter. some things you cant figure out, and maybe youre better for it. finding your strengths and being true to yourself is the best thing to do in life - and compromising who you are in order to make everyone that you meet happy is a mistake.

and youre right, basically, women are in the position where they are approached and courted, so they know that for the most part they do not need to question their attraction. its broadcasted to them wherever they go. they know, they cant help but know. where they get it messed up is that they cant tell who is really in it for them, or who is in it just for the puss.

I mean, even broke chicks, or hurt looking women can get a man to . thirsty men are setting things up so theyre making 5s feel like 10s. its imbalancing the whole game, which is why I say you shouldnt fake or compromise anything about you in order to stand out and be a part of these games. making everyone happy and accepting of you is only gonna make you turn out like everyone else.

the main advantage women have is that they work on that intuitive level. they just understand, that if you click, then you click. if not, well, then they might try to keep you around for other things (friendship, favors, money, being nice etc). things that we generally really dont care about. as men, when we try too hard to please and make the women we're around happy, its in order to validate our importance/attractiveness/strength etc. and thats a big mistake. things should come natural and make sense, they shouldnt be forced.


the easiest way to find out if a woman is into you like you want her to be, is to take her as far as you want her to go with you. elevate it and dont hesitate. from there its either a yes or no beating around the bush solves nothing, and wondering doesnt either.

great points

 

[MikelArteta]

Daps

The sad thing dudes in category 2 and 3 waste so much time trying to get into category 1.

When there is a girl out there who is better in every way imaginable and will put you in category 1 without you doing anything

if you have to tell a woman to let you know if she likes you, i'm pretty sure she doesn't. the attraction a woman has for you falls under three categories:

1. omg, he's so hot, i wanna be around him all the time, i wanna have his babies etc. there's nothing he can say that will turn me off him.
2. he's cute. i'll talk to him here and there and wait for him to say some dumb shyt that'll turn me off
3. ehh. he's not bad looking. might fucck him at some point when i'm between boyfriends or when i'm bored.


If you want to know which category you fall under with any girl you're messing with, look back at your history wit the girl. how many times has she canceled a date on you? or rescheduled? if that number is greater than 1, and it's not because of something related to Work, or something else important that relates to family matters, yeah, you are most likely in category 2 or 3.

some guys knowinngly cope with being in category 2 or 3...mainly because these guys cant get any other women. i cant fault them. some folks just dont have luck with women for whatever reason...looks, height, personality...etc. but if you know you are in category 2 or 3, do yourself a favor and KILL ANY HOPE you have of ever making something serious out of a girl who barely likes u. use the relationship for what it is and keep ur emotions distant!

 

[MikelArteta]

@World War Z

another way to help you "get to this point"

spend 4 days without talking to any chick, without trying to get something from them. when you go out, be like the invisible man, just observing. no matter how pretty she is, don't "seek" from her, just fall back and observe how people interact with eachother. You will notice a lot of things about both men and women.

I've done this for a month before.

Funny thing is thats when a girl at the bus stop started talking to me

 

[MikelArteta]

I equate it to the Alex Smith.

Never appreciated , taken for granted even though you were winning and putting up good numbers. You get injured lose your spot and now kapernick is the number 1.

You can be quiet do the reps continue in that number 2 role or you can say f it, get out of there and find a team that wants you ala the chiefs . Now you are the chiefs number 1 and they love you and appreciate you.


And that's the model us men should take, scrre fighting over being number 1 in a chicks eye, when there is a chick who is in the same professionsal league that is begging to have you and will treat you like a chief pun intended

 

[Turbulent]

I've done this for a month before.

Funny thing is thats when a girl at the bus stop started talking to me

yup. and it's even better when it's not even a tactic to get something. you're just genuinely falling back and observing. People seek power from eachother. when you're not giving them what they want, they try to manipulate you into it. had you looked at her and flirted with her everyday for a month, she probably would have fronted, or maybe she would have flirted back, who really knows.

"Chicks want a guy who will make the first move, it shows_______". who gives a fukk what they want, how is giving them what they want gonna make me happy? Why would she give me what i want after i've already given her what she wants? the reason that chick came and talked to you is to figure out what you're about, what it is that she can give you that would be of interest to you, mind you not to give it to you, just to manipulate you with it so she can then get what she wants from you. it's ok to let them know what you want from them. they'll give you a taste. give a free sample. then they'll try to flip the game on you and charge you. that's when you walk away. The smart chicks will charge it to the game, the dumb ones will show their hand and try to offer you a discount on the original price to salvage their ego. once a chick offers you a discount, it's a vicious circle because the more you reject her discounts, the more it devalues her product and hurts her products' rep so she'll try even harder. after that she'll be super needy from you, not because she loves you, but because you have something she wants back from you (her dignity).

 

[Shameonyou]

things women tell you when they are not attracted to you, but still want your attention:

"If you dont try hard to go after what you want, you will never get it."

in other words, I will never be with you, but I also dont want you to cut off my feeding ego supply either..

a woman will keep validation in her life one way or the other

 

[Turbulent]

things women tell you when they are not attracted to you, but still want your attention:

"If you dont try hard to go after what you want, you will never get it."

in other words, I will never be with you, but I also dont want you to cut off my feeding ego supply either..

a woman will keep validation in her life one way or the other

she's selling a dream. only suckers buy dream.

EDIT: dream-sellers only sell dreams to people who they think are asleep (don't even ask me how)

 

[Panther]

When u really take the time to listen to what these chicks are out here saying the amount of bullshyt and hoe like tendencies they display are crazy

Went out with my boys tonight and one had a few girls pull up on us. One is a single mother, one is a certified hoe and the other was an attractive chick whom i also determined to be a hoe.

Will elaborate once i get some sleep

Some of my takeaways from just general convo with these 3 chicks last night

1. The baby mama acts like she's too good for any man, one of those women who dont want to be led but was claiming to having various different dudes taking care of her and her child financially. Also claims shes wasnt giving up the p*ssy to none of these cats of course i wasnt buying it. If i spent enough time around her im pretty sure i could dive in those cheeks with ease. Typical hoodrat whos been boosted by simps'

2. All around loose party girl. This is the chick my boy kicks it with from time to time, but has never smashed. she be throwing the p*ssy at em too. No reason to keep her around if you know she wants to fukk and you dont.

3. The last chick was very attractive, solid 8.5 but she is one of those chicks who will test a dude to see how much she can get away with. She mentioned having a second car in her name that her ex pays for, and that she stores for him while he's overseas playin ball. Im looking like shes says her current dude is cool with it. And shes in a long distance relationship with her current dude .. Im sorry i know its another nikka out here hittin that on the regular, especially when u run with the 2 boards mentioned above who love to party. Birds of a feather

Its crazy how easy it is to screen a chick these days through conversation, they literally blurt out of their red flags for you. All you gotta do is pay attention and not get caught up with trying to knock em down

 

[Turbulent]

I equate it to the Alex Smith.

Never appreciated , taken for granted even though you were winning and putting up good numbers. You get injured lose your spot and now kapernick is the number 1.

You can be quiet do the reps continue in that number 2 role or you can say f it, get out of there and find a team that wants you ala the chiefs . Now you are the chiefs number 1 and they love you and appreciate you.


And that's the model us men should take, scrre fighting over being number 1 in a chicks eye, when there is a chick who is in the same professionsal league that is begging to have you and will treat you like a chief pun intended

perfect analogy

 

[MikelArteta]

Its amazing how great and overvalue women think they are. Then you sit back and realize none of these broads have a quality dude around them, none have commitment.

Some of my takeaways from just general convo with these 3 chicks last night

1. The baby mama acts like she's too good for any man, one of those women who dont want to be led but was claiming to having various different dudes taking care of her and her child financially. Also claims shes wasnt giving up the p*ssy to none of these cats of course i wasnt buying it. If i spent enough time around her im pretty sure i could dive in those cheeks with ease. Typical hoodrat whos been boosted by simps'

2. All around loose party girl. This is the chick my boy kicks it with from time to time, but has never smashed. she be throwing the p*ssy at em too. No reason to keep her around if you know she wants to fukk and you dont.

3. The last chick was very attractive, solid 8.5 but she is one of those chicks who will test a dude to see how much she can get away with. She mentioned having a second car in her name that her ex pays for, and that she stores for him while he's overseas playin ball. Im looking like shes says her current dude is cool with it. And shes in a long distance relationship with her current dude .. Im sorry i know its another nikka out here hittin that on the regular, especially when u run with the 2 boards mentioned above who love to party. Birds of a feather :ducktales:

Its crazy how easy it is to screen a chick these days through conversation, they literally blurt out of their red flags for you. All you gotta do is pay attention and not get caught up with trying to knock em down

 

[kevm3]

Its amazing how great and overvalue women think they are. Then you sit back and realize none of these broads have a quality dude around them, none have commitment.

pretty much, which is why it's worthless to worry about some special techniques to please her. Either she likes what you are offering or not. If she doesn't like it, she can go back into her void of loneliness.