Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Art Barr

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:wow: this is so true, especially chicks in there late 20's early 30's who spend the entire time previous to that whoring around.

first,..
you have to do away with words like ho/whore, for females who are not actually prostitutes.

you should apply the right label to them.
once, you do that you can have more power.
as it allows you to smash and grab.
instead of just lumping all females into the whore rout.

whore/ho, is just a buzzword name calling device.

as, a real whore/ho or prostitute.
will allow you to call her such all day long as she is actualized in what she is.
plus, has no problem with her actualized way of life.

with that said....
females prey on:

cheaters
adulterous guys
players
simp

most males don't see it because they pedestal cooch.
yet, because they applied simp based labels like these, to themselves.
they think they are doing sumfin.
when, they would be doing more if they stopped trying to be those things.

it is much easier for a female.
to make you the guilty party.
when, she knows you are those labels.
as she can easily place blame upon you.
when, she takes from you.

any female who goes about relationship on how a cheater operates is a non-committal type.
the easiest way to recognize this is simple.
if you remember what your real girlfriend was.
as opposed to the what the fake a relationship for a nut girlfriend was.

your real girlfriend before she was poisioned by the cheater.
called you all times of the day, smothered you, wanted to be under you.
the girl affected by the cheater does none of those things.
as the cheat game is based on having the free time to cheat, and try to down play emotional attachment.
when a cheater is emotionally attached to the social and mental aspects.
way more than the physical ability to copulate.
so females learned to prey upon that.
plus, a cheater is easy to prey upon.
as they give the female free time, herself.
to also indulge in the cheater based mindstate and mentality
the world is filled with more cheaters than honest commitment based people.
so, if you are an honest commitment based person.
you have to learn to navigate in a snake pit.
similar to Indiana jones, in a pit of snakes of all types.
you just have to label each snake properly.

you can deal with a boa,..
differently than you deal with a cobra.

if you use the proper labeling mentality.
you will be better off, and know how to properly be effective without getting bit in the said snake pit.




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No. It's not that we only want the mystery guy its the reality that if you tell me your whole life story too early and I havent even developed true interest, I may be turned off. At the end of the day, its a learning process. I cannot speak for all women... only myself. No need to clump us all together.

We give what we get. you give us only dikk, you get the equivalent in return. :manny:


just stop,...
that bullshyt you talking is not fooling me.
you already have been logged into the cheater mindstate.
when, said wack cheater guy you liked.
played the fukk outta you, and you turned the wrong way.

I know this shyt for real.......
when, they say all females are the same it is true.
as a female has to assail to womanhood, and then a lady.
you are still stuck in just being a female.
plus, welled in a mentality.
where you will never assail to womanhood.

jayz: once a good girl is lost,...she is lost forever.

you got lost, and it is not my job to find you in the forest...
that is your job, not mine.
you are only in this thread to produce a discovery zone.
to better allow you to take,...
which is why I only give out the obvious knowledge.
in this forum on this subject.
I know females already know and don't break kayfabe on.
as it will make them lose even further in the battle of the sexes war.
they already lost when they allowed this country to give them poverty building mechanism.
all welled and against actual sociological fact.
the only thing is,..
only women and bytchmade mentality males spend futile time trying to disprove a fact.
when, a fact can not be disproved.




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you never lied


on the real....

tell a girl, you just said hello to.
that you would like to take her out to dinner.
watch her eyes roll in the back of her head.
then, they switch to the knives that the villain in roger rabbit had when he exposed himself.

you do nuffin but make yourself a targeted fool.
if you reap spoils upon a female, now.


art barr
 
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first,..
you have to do away with words like ho/whore, for females who are not actually prostitutes.

you should apply the right label to them.
once, you do that you can have more power.
as it allows you to smash and grab.
instead of just lumping all females into the whore rout.

whore/ho, is just a buzzword name calling device.

as, a real whore/ho or prostitute.
will allow you to call her such all day long as she is actualized in what she is.
plus, has no problem with her actualized way of life.

with that said....
females prey on:

cheaters
adulterous guys
players
simp

most males don't see it because they pedestal cooch.
yet, because they applied simp based labels like these, to themselves.
they think they are doing sumfin.
when, they would be doing more if they stopped trying to be those things.

it is much easier for a female.
to make you the guilty party.
when, she knows you are those labels.
as she can easily place blame upon you.
when, she takes from you.

any female who goes about relationship on how a cheater operates is a non-committal type.
the easiest way to recognize this is simple.
if you remember what your real girlfriend was.
as opposed to the what the fake a relationship for a nut girlfriend was.

your real girlfriend before she was poisioned by the cheater.
called you all times of the day, smothered you, wanted to be under you.
the girl affected by the cheater does none of those things.
as the cheat game is based on having the free time to cheat, and try to down play emotional attachment.
when a cheater is emotionally attached to the social and mental aspects.
way more than the physical ability to copulate.
so females learned to prey upon that.
plus, a cheater is easy to prey upon.
as they give the female free time, herself.
to also indulge in the cheater based mindstate and mentality
the world is filled with more cheaters than honest commitment based people.
so, if you are an honest commitment based person.
you have to learn to navigate in a snake pit.
similar to Indiana jones, in a pit of snakes of all types.
you just have to label each snake properly.

you can deal with a boa,..
differently than you deal with a cobra.

if you use the proper labeling mentality.
you will be better off, and know how to properly be effective without getting bit in the said snake pit.




art barr
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on the real....

tell a girl, you just said hello to.
that you would like to take her out to dinner.
watch her eyes roll in the back of her head.
then, they switch to the knives that the villain in roger rabbit had when he exposed himself.

you do nuffin but make yourself a targeted fool.
if you reap spoils upon a female, now.


art barr

I am just falling back and observing the game...because I learned the hard way that alot of shyt is outdated...

I guess I needed that to re-apply myself and understand this shyt for what it is..

Im tryin to revamp everything from the initial hello to the end game...

I remember this chick that was "feeling"me kept mentioning going out..

She said something about the movies and the response I gave her made her say I sound like I wouldnt even pay her way..shyt is real crazy
 

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Art Barr said:
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just stop,...
that bullshyt you talking is not fooling me.
you already have been logged into the cheater mindstate.
when, said wack cheater guy you liked.
played the fukk outta you, and you turned the wrong way.

I know this shyt for real.......
when, they say all females are the same it is true.
as a female has to assail to womanhood, and then a lady.
you are still stuck in just being a female.
plus, welled in a mentality.
where you will never assail to womanhood.

jayz: once a good girl is lost,...she is lost forever.

you got lost, and it is not my job to find you in the forest...
that is your job, not mine.
you are only in this thread to produce a discovery zone.
to better allow you to take,...
which is why I only give out the obvious knowledge.
in this forum on this subject.
I know females already know and don't break kayfabe on.
as it will make them lose even further in the battle of the sexes war.
they already lost when they allowed this country to give them poverty building mechanism.
all welled and against actual sociological fact.
the only thing is,..
only women and bytchmade mentality males spend futile time trying to disprove a fact.
when, a fact can not be disproved.




art barr
Please be courteous and not attack my input. I was asked a question and simply answered it. If you do not like anything I have to say, thats fine... just be respectful of it. its not necessary to write a poem of projections and assumptions.
 

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Article dated Dec. 16, 2011:

I was watching the newest episode ofReal Housewives of Atlanta the other night, and a lot of it focused on Sheree Whitfield, her money situation, and her preparation for court. Her ex-husband served her with papers to get the amount of child support he is legally obligated to pay for the care of their two children. Bob Whitfield, a former NFL player, claimed that his income was only $3,000 a month. $3,000??? Does he have an internship? I don’t understand how a former millionaire earns the amount a recent college graduate might make.

My outrage on that issue aside, the crazy part in all of this is instead of feeling bad about not paying child support — even after Sheree almost begged for it, he beat her to the punch and asked for a reduction on child support that he hasn’t even paid. Clearly, Bob is trifling for not having paid money that he is legally (and morally) obligated to pay, but the nerve of him to then turn around and testify that he wants to pay even less.

This situation should not have happened this way, and I blame Sheree for putting herself in the position to be served court papers. The episode of RHOA showed me how misplaced her priorities are, and it made me have less sympathy for her entire plight with that deadbeat ex of hers.

First of all, Sheree had been advised to serve Bob court papers for his non-payment of child support by her friend and lawyer, Phaedra Parks. Even her mother told her to do that. Mr. Whitfield was not showing any type of responsibility for his beautiful daughter and growing son, who had needs that his father should had been supporting. Their son is 14 and wears the same size shoes as his age. Undoubtedly, making sure he has everything he needs is not cheap. And let’s not forget his 11-year-old daughter, who needs her father to set an example of responsibility for her to see as she matures into a young woman.

Sheree is owed money, but in spite of the advice she received about having the courts handle it for her, she sat on it. Her reason was that she didn’t want to look bad by suing her ex. And she didn’t want people to think she really needed it. We’ll chock it up to pride, which comes before the fall.

But many things made me give Sheree the side-eye (o_O). First, she said she needed the money from Bob. However, when she was going to Phaedra’s place to prepare for the case, she showed up in a brand new Porsche. Who buys a $75,000 car when they are about to go to court to say they need money??? Common sense should say that doesn’t match up, but it clearly did not. This is the same person whose Aston Martin got repossessed last year, yet she’s buying another luxury car. She needs a financial advisor because she’s not making the smartest decisions with her wallet.

Also, Sheree brought potential court day outfits for Phaedra to see. One of them was a Dolce & Gabanna suit. And her bag was a STUNNING orange Hermés. Her outfit alone was worth over $12,000, four-times the amount that Bob Whitfield said he was making in a month. And she wants the judge to actually believe that she needs his money. I’m not saying she isn’t still owed money. She really is but her approach to it was a bit naïve and she was focusing on the wrong things. The courtroom is not for stunting, ma’am.

Then we got a look at where Sheree was currently staying. She lives in a two-bedroom apartment with her son, but she says it’s temporary as she builds “Chateau Sheree” from the ground up. This “chateau” is another example of how Sheree wants to show she’s wealthy on one hand and needing money on the other. But since she claims this is just a temporary arrangement, I guess she thinks the small place with very little furniture is excused. Yet she’s driving a Porsche. These things do not add up.

And that isn’t even the worst part. At one point, the camera followed her son as he walked into his room and before it panned away, it zoomed in on the floor. There was an air mattress laying there. THIS is when I basically lost the rest of my sympathy for Sheree and her struggle wallet.

I could NOT believe that Sheree’s son doesn’t even have a REAL bed. Even if they’re in the apartment temporarily, beds aren’t disposable. I don’t understand. She can’t afford a Sealy Posturepedic but she has Louboutins for days and Birkin bags on her wrist? No, that doesn’t work. Sheree is losing because there is no excuse for her son to be laying on an inflatable bed every night when she’s driving an expensive sports car and wearing nothing but designer clothes. NONE whatsoever.

Sheree needs a life coach, a financial advisor, and a stern talking to because her priorities are full circle messed up. Yes, she’s owed child support by her ex. BUT she doesn’t seem to be starving for all the luxuries of life. Meanwhile, her son sleeps on a bed that you fill with air every night. I don’t respect this and she should be ashamed of herself.

These bytches mane....
 

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i think someone posted this a while back but its true its much easier to talk yourself out of puzzy than into it.its better to lose a chick from being too quiet or boring than talking a load of shyt and revealing too much
 

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therapy for what breh?

dog... my homeboy got engaged and put the video of the proposal in our group chat. i was happy for him but then I felt bitter because it reminded me of my failures.

then i had a moment of clarity like, "damn, I can't even be happy for folks. I'm fukked up." and i decided to do something about it.

I'm all for the lessons we preach in here but i dont want to be a bitter person. i dont want my feelings and views to come from a place of negativity.

@Easy-E yeah I'm serious bruh.​
 

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so I hit up my ex last night, havent seen her since like June, to see if she has a man, because a couple of weeks ago she had text me a couple questions about a date she went on. So she tells me yes she has a man, well she is still under the impression that i have a gf, well once she finds out im single she stops texting and actually calls me to talk more. Come to find out she doesnt have a man, she only said that because she thought that if she said no, I would stop talking to her. Anyways she has gone on like 5 dates with this one guy. Make a long story short she was like we should get together for drinks this weekend. I tell her sure, why? because I know at the end of the day I know I will get to smash. If she acts funny, bushes she goes, but if she obliges then we have can have a strictly sex relationship while we are both single
 

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that's a cause for celebration
dog... my homeboy got engaged and put the video of the proposal in our group chat. i was happy for him but then I felt bitter because it reminded me of my failures.

then i had a moment of clarity like, "damn, I can't even be happy for folks. I'm fukked up." and i decided to do something about it.

I'm all for the lessons we preach in here but i dont want to be a bitter person. i dont want my feelings and views to come from a place of negativity.

@Easy-E yeah I'm serious bruh.​

the main reason we recommend focusing on your own life is so you can be in a zone of positivity instead of negative. Keep handling your business and doing what you got to and finding ways to find joy in your life and your turn will come.
 
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