Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

Now you see why I say focus on something else? You put all this time, all these dinners, did everything for that woman and she slept with your best friend or licked on some guy's booty. What you going to do when you find out?

Never build your life around pursuing women... which is why I view it as wack when some of those PUA guys are literally quitting their jobs so they can 'game women'. They won't have anything to show for it a few years down the line. Enjoy a woman's presence, but never expect it as a given. She can be gone tomorrow or do something that will make you send her away... what will you have when she's gone?

 

[DaRealness]

But do you really see how disgusting that woman is (not Miss Ass Connoisseur, the one in the article)?

Her man supposedly was too drunk to pay attention to her at some engagement party, so rather than talk to him about it or simply end the relationship, she goes off and fukks his best "friend" and lets it continue until she gets married (fukking the dude DURING the reception smfh) and has kids, not once, but THREE times over a period of ten years!! Then she calls the hard working man an "okay father" who is obviously doing way more than the kid's broke biological dad and despite him being a huge provider and good man in general, she basically doesn't give a shyt about his existence. When this all blows up inevitably, she's not gonna care for the trauma the man will suffer, she's just afraid of looking bad in front of her friends and family and not having the money. I've posted a lot of fukkery, but this is one of the few articles where I genuinely believe the chick should get the treatment they dished out in ancient times for that kind of treachery - the same for the man's supposed best friend this wicked she-devil been cheating with. Karma will take care of them both, it's just a shame that their wicked deeds will fukk up the children if it doesn't fall on them directly.

As for dude, he's probably the "I suspect/know, but too scared to rock the boat"/"I give her everything"/bury my head in the sand" simp types, ignoring the early warning signs. SMH.

You gotta watch who you call your friends/lovers.

 

[kevm3]

Here's what guys in here should focus on. Build yourself up and learn the difference between putting your resources into depreciating and appreciating assets. You go around here, spend all your money on Jordans, clothes, rims, etc., trying to look fly and you'll have just put yourself in a position of financial dependency. You won't be able to sell all that junk nearly for the price you've paid for them. Maybe you got some broad's attention 'flashing' and 'looking crispy', but after a few moments with them, where are those broads now? Oh yeah, they're a memory, but I bet you wish you had that money. Assets that appreciate are education, stocks, bonds, land, etc. What you really should be doing is educating yourself and developing skills, and I don't necessarily mean through school. I learned way more outside of school than I ever did inside.

A man that learns to focus on putting the majority of his resources into assets will end up much better off than one who is throwing his money away trying to impress women or just on consumer items. Here's the number one thing I want you guys to focus on this year. GET YOUR DEBTS PAID OFF. It makes no sense 'saving money' in a low interest banking account when you have a high interest loan/cc bill going against you... Why is that? Because you are getting poorer by the minute. How are you really getting ahead if you get $5 of interest but you are paying the CC company $45 worth? The key is to put the percentages of interest in your favor.

One of the best feelings you can have is being debt free and not really owing anyone money. And let me tell you one of the biggest areas people spend all their money when they could really be saving is in cars. You buy this expensive new car and you'll feel fly for a couple of years, but that new car soon turns into an old and used car, but you still have that massive car payment. Instead of getting that $40,000 car, get that $20,000 car and use the 20,000 difference to flip it legally and make more money or to significantly improve your skills, which will make you more economically viable.

You don't want to be in a state of dependency with debt collectors beating down your back, and if you structure your life correctly, you can be doing real fly things... you'll be nearly stress-free and taking trips across the world while other dudes are getting abused by their bosses at a job they can't leave because they are knee high in debt.

 

[DaRealness]

You gotta watch who you call your friends/lovers.

Speaking of which..........

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/366123/My-cheating-mate-and-wife-ruined-my-life

It was the biggest and most humiliating shock of my life.

Years before he had warned me that if I married my wife she’d break my heart.

So how ironic it was that I caught him having sex with her.

I was meant to be out for a couple of hours but I came home early.

They were in my bed and didn’t hear me come in.

I just stood there watching and realising that my life was ruined.

Eventually, after what seemed like hours but was only a couple of minutes, I had had enough.

I punched him and shouted at her and then they told me that they’d been having sex for six months before we got married.

So, I guess he knew what he was on about when he warned me.

They didn’t seem to care that they had ruined my life, instead they just sat, naked, in my bed and told me the truth.

That happened almost two years ago and I’m still finding it very difficult to trust anyone.

Even girls who seem to be very nice will not get a second date.

So I’ve started to trawl singles bars to pick up someone who I take back to my house for sex.

In last few months I’ve done it over 50 times and each time I enjoy it less and less.

Most of these girls want to see me again and give me their number, but I have no intention of phoning them. All I want is loveless sex. Am I going to be like this for ever?

 

[kevm3]

But do you really see how disgusting that woman is (not Miss Ass Connoisseur, the one in the article)?

Her man supposedly was too drunk to pay attention to her at some engagement party, so rather than talk to him about it or simply end the relationship, she goes off and fukks his best "friend" and lets it continue until she gets married (fukking the dude DURING the reception smfh) and has kids, not once, but THREE times over a period of ten years!! Then she calls the hard working man an "okay father" who is obviously doing way more than the kid's broke biological dad and despite him being a huge provider and good man in general, she basically doesn't give a shyt about his existence. When this all blows up inevitably, she's not gonna care for the trauma the man will suffer, she's just afraid of looking bad in front of her friends and family and not having the money. I've posted a lot of fukkery, but this is one of the few articles where I genuinely believe the chick should get the treatment they dished out in ancient times for that kind of treachery - the same for the man's supposed best friend this wicked she-devil been cheating with. Karma will take care of them both, it's just a shame that their wicked deeds will fukk up the children if it doesn't fall on them directly.

As for dude, he's probably the "I suspect/know, but too scared to rock the boat"/"I give her everything"/bury my head in the sand" simp types, ignoring the early warning signs. SMH.

You gotta watch who you call your friends/lovers.

This is clearly why you should never be in providerman mode. What's so sick is she will divorce the dude, hit him with child support and alimony and probably run off with the best friend. I mean, look at Usher. He married some old woman and you would think she would be grateful for the life he provided her, but come divorce time, she tried to tap the brotha for as much as she could get. A lot of these broads are literally thieves, and they are using legal means to get it. I would feel bad as a man if I cheated on my woman and divorced her... no way in the world would I then try to reach into her pockets and get her to pay me so I can live off of her back. Some of these broads are so sick they are using their child as a pawn to get a free come up. You see how the child support system is rewarding these women.
Step carefully and don't give nann one of these women a come up off your back.

 

[DaRealness]

This is clearly why you should never be in providerman mode. What's so sick is she will divorce the dude, hit him with child support and alimony and probably run off with the best friend. I mean, look at Usher. He married some old woman and you would think she would be grateful for the life he provided her, but come divorce time, she tried to tap the brotha for as much as she could get. A lot of these broads are literally thieves, and they are using legal means to get it. I would feel bad as a man if I cheated on my woman and divorced her... no way in the world would I then try to reach into her pockets and get her to pay me so I can live off of her back. Some of these broads are so sick they are using their child as a pawn to get a free come up. You see how the child support system is rewarding these women.
Step carefully and don't give nann one of these women a come up off your back.

Personally, I don't think men should really discuss their careers in too much depth with women. To me, that's the equivalent of exposing your cut foot in a river where there's piranhas nearby. Sure, you might not get bit, but why risk it? I'm not 'balling' at the moment, but when I change my job to what I really wanna do, I'll just give a really vague and all encompassing title like 'IT Engineer' when the inevitable question comes up. I wouldn't even give my exact title. You know why? Because I'm not gonna have her check the salaries online and get a rough estimate of what my earnings are. This is why I disagreed with dude who said Coming To America was bad propaganda in how to deal with women. Sure, the part about women (well some of them anyway) wanting to be lead by a man who takes charge is true, but also making a woman prove herself by showing she loves you for YOU while not knowing your financial worth was a huge gem too. Women should be proving themselves to US, NOT the other way around. They say they will hold off on sex for a long period until they know the man really loves them. OK, cool. Likewise, no huge goodies or money until THEY show they love you for real. Fair is fair.

And even then, be very careful and wise with how you deal with them bearing in mind that people change and never give your all. Always have a safety net just in case.

Anyway, when you have other interests and hobbies, you'll have other stuff to talk about. Volunteering helping children in some way is the sign of an honourable and good man and makes for good conversation. If she doesn't seem concerned about your interests, then obviously the green vegetation is where she must be thrown.

 

[kevm3]

Personally, I don't think men should really discuss their careers in too much depth with women. To me, that's the equivalent of exposing your cut foot in a river where there's piranhas nearby. Sure, you might not get bit, but why risk it? I'm not 'balling' at the moment, but when I change my job to what I really wanna do, I'll just give a really vague and all encompassing title like 'IT Engineer' when the inevitable question comes up. I wouldn't even give my exact title. You know why? Because I'm not gonna have her check the salaries online and get a rough estimate of what my earnings are. This is why I disagreed with dude who said Coming To America was bad propaganda in how to deal with women. Sure, the part about women (well some of them anyway) wanting to be lead by a man who takes charge is true, but also making a woman prove herself by showing she loves you for YOU while not knowing your financial worth was a huge gem too. Women should be proving themselves to US, NOT the other way around. They say they will hold off on sex for a long period until they know the man really loves them. OK, cool. Likewise, no huge goodies or money until THEY show they love you for real. Fair is fair.

And even then, be very careful and wise with how you deal with them bearing in mind that people change and never give your all. Always have a safety net just in case.

Pretty much. At most, tell them, "I make enough to live decently." You can't be mad at gold diggers coming at you if you using gold digger bait to attract women. If she doesn't know how much you got and she ain't feeling you, but she finds out you got money and her attitude changes, what does that tell you? Keep your money quiet and if any woman chooses not to deal with you because she can't get an ID on how much you making, then let her go.

 

[AtomicUse]

@kevm3 said in a post a while ago, "don't argue with or even entertain feminists." I don't know why I remember reading that one line, but I had the face after what happened today.

I was like "Damn, that boy Kev was right."

Look breh's, don't do it if you have anything major to lose by going toe to toe with them, but if it's off the cuff and at the end of it you can walk away, do it just once. Just to SEE what that sh*t feels like.

You'll feel so relieved that you can walk away and not deal with that, it will make you feel BETTER than you did BEFORE you even got into the argument. I walked away giving off the most potent aura I've ever had in my life.


The crazy thing is, It wasn't even like arguing with a regular female. (I'll admit you shouldn't argue with women anyway, it's stupid, but we're all human, we're gonna argue with our women now and then, but I digress....)

Breh's, this broad had to be the angriest, rudest, deeply perturbed, upset....just.....breh's....this woman.....breh's....I mean.....goddamn.

The reverse man-hate logic, the inverted sexist double standards, the oppresive hypocricy, the lack of gender facts, and the way it got contorted into an argument.... breh's...... it was like she was a handicapped gymnast trying to pull tricks on the mat, but the mat was the conversation.

I came home and enjoyed the sound of not hearing anything from anybody for about an hour after that argument.

*edit*

I got a dope feel good post to counter this bad one though....I'll put it up in a second...

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Brehs, what would you do?

I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now. She's works, runs her own business, helps the youth and goes to church. She seems like the perfect woman. She likes me and wants a relationship. Lately our conversations have been about sex. She said she has eaten out guys asses before.

She should have kept her mouth shut because now I'm about to throw her in the bushes and she's knows it and it copping pleas.

Am I wrong though?

Always get a hoefax, brehs.

Don't take what I'm saying the wrong way. I'll pause this, but dog you have a good girl and you're missing out. If your chick is willing to eat your ass you can do ANYTHING with her. Three somes, anal the whole 9.....

I wish a girl told me she was about that ass eating life breh.

shyt, I like eating bytches asses. I like to walk right up on a bytch and bite her right in the ass. Then eat the ass, eat the p*ssy....give her back shots.

You just gotta be a nastier nikka breh.

 

[Xtraz2]

You don't.
That's what threw me off,
The fact that she's goes to church.
Sex is natural,
I can't change how many partners and unprotected sex she had with them(she says that she was in a relationship when she had unprotected sex with them) but fukking eating ass?! That shyt threw me off. I had to give her up to the bushes. shyt is demonic.

You should have kept her for being honest, this is how bytches get damaged, nikkaz shame them for honesty

You know how many bytches lick ass, they just ain't going to let you know when you wife them up

 

[Jone2three45]

You should have kept her for being honest, this is how bytches get damaged, nikkaz shame them for honesty

You know how many bytches lick ass, they just ain't going to let you know when you wife them up

She did say she felt like I was humiliating her

 

[DaRealness]

Pretty much. At most, tell them, "I make enough to live decently." You can't be mad at gold diggers coming at you if you using gold digger bait to attract women. If she doesn't know how much you got and she ain't feeling you, but she finds out you got money and her attitude changes, what does that tell you? Keep your money quiet and if any woman chooses not to deal with you because she can't get an ID on how much you making, then let her go.

Exactly, or "It pays the rent, I get by" type of attitude.

Also, a lot of men end up revealing too much about themselves because they're eager to show the woman they're ambitious and have drive. They want to prove they're not losers and have something going for themselves. While I perfectly understand that mentality, I also believe that's not the best way to go about it. The movie Heat shows how the RIGHT woman will stand by you if she senses potential and is ready to help you reach that potential. The black dude who had just got out of jail was frustrated with life and at his lowest ebb, but his woman supported and stood by him when she saw his persistence and work ethic and said she believed him. That's the kind of quality to look for. That's the kind of woman you marry and treat like a queen. Compare that to a woman who meets you right off the bat with money falling out your pockets, then the minute times get hard later on in life, runs away quicker than the Flash.

 

[DaRealness]

She did say she felt like I was humiliating her

So what? That's not your problem. If you have certain standards as man, you have the right to reject a chick and say NO. I'm sure she's "humiliated" a few dudes in the past who didn't meet her standards for one reason or another. Don't ever think you have to mollycoddle and accommodate a chick just to save her feelings. We all face rejection in many areas of life, she just has to deal with it like everyone else.

 

[jjj123]

men...dont be fooled...im sick to my stomach read these womens confessions...purely sickening...dont get married brehs

http://www.lipstickalley.com/showthread.php?t=425797

 

[jjj123]

^^^MUST READ, HAVE A THROWUP BAG READY...DO NOT TRUST THESE HOES...

READING THIS THREAD AND HEARING STORIES FROM MEN IS ONE THING...BUT HEAR IT FROM A WOMENS OWN MOUTH...PURE DISCUST TO THE X1000 DEGREE!!!!

P.S. EVERY POST IS A DIFFERENT WOMAN POSTING ANONYMOUSLY
























AFTER READING THAT shyt YOU WILL SURELY KNOW WHY THEY SAY "WHY BUY THE COW WHEN U CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE"