Truth right here. A lot of times now, I can just tell what the status of someone's relationship is and accurately predict where it's going. A lot of us (thanks to the thread) now understand the traits and behaviors of a subpar woman. The stories start becoming eerily similar. I previously said dropping you ego was one of the most liberating things - the other being accepting that a woman is going to do exactly what she wants, morals, ethics, or loyalty be damned.
In these modern times, a woman's livelihood isn't as attached to a man/husband as it once was, so it's clear to see why they end up breaking bad so much more often and with little regard. Similarly, you can't tie your existence to a woman, because even the "good ones" might let he coworker feel her up a little at the office party.
Build yourself up and put yourself in a position to accept the finer things in life. Someone like Obama (who's got some simpish qualities) was probably never in danger of dealing with one of these women who have a high likelihood of skank behavior because he wasn't at Club Chocolate/Love/Sin/Play or whatever bs spot is in your city. He worked on himself and was in the best positions to accept a woman who had something going for herself.
while Rachel was 
at myself, but I had to go through it in order to become stronger and wiser. I'd be damned if I trip over the same rock twice.
yea it's funny a lot of the crazy ones do. they focused but it's never in an overall way. like they'll be flaky in every other area. in my case, her apartment was ALWAYS A MESS.