A.V.
reTIreMEnt: THE ALBUM (01/22) ALL DSPs
It means you're not yet smart enough to stop asking dumb fukking questions on the internet, and she thinks you're a bytch ass nikka.
that hoe number.
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It means you're not yet smart enough to stop asking dumb fukking questions on the internet, and she thinks you're a bytch ass nikka.
that hoe number.
Let me give you a little secret. The less time you sit around wondering what this or that woman is thinking or what this or that little sign means, the better. The underlying problem in this day and age is that men are scared and wanting risk-free interactions with women because they have this impression that a woman not feeling you is some huge let-down.
Keep it simple. You can tell a woman wants to deal with you if she makes herself available to you and to roll with you. If she doesn't, then move on. Keep it that simple. Have your conversation with the woman, ask her if she wants to roll. If she does, then she's interested. If she makes all these excuses, don't bother wondering why. Keep it pushing and give another woman that opportunity.
Keep it simple. You can tell a woman wants to deal with you if she makes herself available to you and to roll with you. If she doesn't, then move on. Keep it that simple. Have your conversation with the woman, ask her if she wants to roll. If she does, then she's interested. If she makes all these excuses, don't bother wondering why. Keep it pushing and give another woman that opportunity.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
It's one thing to offer to take a girl out for dinner.....it's another thing for her to try to trap you into to doing it & picking the place. Don't be a girl's personal ATM breh. I don't even really know this girl and she's asking me can I take her to dinner and pay. FOH. I met this girl while I was Djing last week and she came up to me and holla'd at me. We had a few text message conversations but bytch I'm not taking you to dinner on the 1st date you just choosing some place.....WTF is wrong with these hoes. The game is fukked up.
I'm gonna try to smash and if she doesn't let me smash quickly I'm throwing her in the bushes breh. She showed her hand. Too many cats are getting used for dinners. Not me breh.
These bytches have a nerve, I swear. I would have just told her to piss off after that "ain't you just get off work" comment as if you fukking owe her anything.
It's one thing to offer to take a girl out for dinner.....it's another thing for her to try to trap you into to doing it & picking the place. Don't be a girl's personal ATM breh. I don't even really know this girl and she's asking me can I take her to dinner and pay. FOH. I met this girl while I was Djing last week and she came up to me and holla'd at me. We had a few text message conversations but bytch I'm not taking you to dinner on the 1st date you just choosing some place.....WTF is wrong with these hoes. The game is fukked up.
I'm gonna try to smash and if she doesn't let me smash quickly I'm throwing her in the bushes breh. She showed her hand. Too many cats are getting used for dinners. Not me breh.
The game is messed up because you would have 10,000,000 dudes who would be willing to do it. Guys value themselves so little they actually believe they owe females dinner for their attention. The sad thing is that these very females will look at Mr. Meals on Wheels as of having little value and actually prefer to spend her time with the guy that tells her no.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
I forgot to mention there's another coworker. Really short, slim, and has humongous t*ts. Chocolate like I like. She been fukking with a deadbeat ass nikka, as told by a friend of mine that also works there. She's a really nurturing chick, comforted a breh when I got turned down for a promotion.
I told her a couple years ago she will make a great wife. Friend told me, nikka takes her whip (and has beat it up) had the girl walking home after a closing shift etc etc. like....wtf...and that she assumes that the dude could have/still is abusing her (but she shows no physical signs of this)
Girl got the dude initial tatted on the inside of her wrist. So I assume he the first dude she fukked. She's a great woman but stubborn, nothing anyone says can get her to leave him. I dropped her off one day and said so where we going for valentines day? Her: As friends? Me:Her:
you know i have a bf right?! Me: Yup.
I was outta line but I had to tell her. She need to leave that bytch nikka alone. This was about 3 months ago, end of 2013. I have since left that alone, but i told her a long time ago that if i ever found out she broke up with son that i will be calling her the SAME day.
She deserves better but, fukk it. oh well.
Sorry my dude, but you sounding like:
Girl, i know it's been hard since he went away
And left so sad you cry everyday
Let me kiss your tears erase all your doubts
Because for you i'm here, you won't be without love!
Don't need a man who can give you money
C'mon let me show you just what you need honey (i got what you need)
You need a man with sensitivity (a man like me)
Someone who can love you
Someone who will need you
Someone who will treat you right (like me girl)
Someone who will hold you tight
Someone stable in your life (ah baby)
You need a man with sensitivity
A man like me (baby)(honey)
Baby and i'm the man (ah you no, you no)
Baby like i do baby (hang in their baby)
You need a man with sensitivity
A man like me
See you need someone who's their like a gentleman
If anybody can fit the description baby i can
Someone who cares and dares to give himself completely
You got it in me you need a man with sensitivity
You need a man (3x's)
Not any man
Warm and sensitive that's what i can give
Man with sensitivity
A man like me
Chorus
Save a little love for me (sensitivity)
Baby i got what you need (i got it)
Hold on my darling
Don't let me down
Here's something to think about. Stop trying to 'have' women, and instead, mentally get in the mindset of you allowing them an opportunity to be with you. The former demonstrates that you have low value, or rather, lower value than the woman. The latter demonstrates you have higher value. Bottom line is, women want a high-value man, and one of the ways she perceives you to be high-value is how you act when you're around her.
What I mean by this is a lot of guys look at a pretty woman and they say, "I have to have her." This mentality opens up a sort of thinking where you'll do anything by any means necessary to have her be in your presence, including buying her dinners and gifts for no reason, allowing her to disrespect you, and just allowing a host of other nonsense. In essence, you're trying to hand-cuff her to your presence via gifts and catering and accommodating behavior. One of the first signs that you are trying to 'have' a woman by any means necessary is if you cull your speech and change your speech patterns around if you're afraid of offending her or letting her call shots because you're afraid to lose her. The sooner you get into the mentality that each and every woman is losable given the right set of circumstances, meaning you won't think twice about letting her go if she acts in a certain fashion, the better. High value men don't need to put up with nonsense because they know they'll be fine without her. What makes a woman have worth is her behavior. If her behavior ain't right, she can't ride.
What I mean by this is a lot of guys look at a pretty woman and they say, "I have to have her." This mentality opens up a sort of thinking where you'll do anything by any means necessary to have her be in your presence, including buying her dinners and gifts for no reason, allowing her to disrespect you, and just allowing a host of other nonsense. In essence, you're trying to hand-cuff her to your presence via gifts and catering and accommodating behavior. One of the first signs that you are trying to 'have' a woman by any means necessary is if you cull your speech and change your speech patterns around if you're afraid of offending her or letting her call shots because you're afraid to lose her. The sooner you get into the mentality that each and every woman is losable given the right set of circumstances, meaning you won't think twice about letting her go if she acts in a certain fashion, the better. High value men don't need to put up with nonsense because they know they'll be fine without her. What makes a woman have worth is her behavior. If her behavior ain't right, she can't ride.
A.V.
reTIreMEnt: THE ALBUM (01/22) ALL DSPs
Low key, I been peepin ur posts for quite some time & they either line up with my ideology on women, or hip me a little more.
Your pops was a real nikka.
This is going to be entertainmentYou know what...I have my morals. She's 31. I was told that she doesnt have sex at all. That either means she's NEVER had sex or she's reformed. If i find that she's reformed, im
I'm not naive nor am i ignorant. She's either a super prude angel or a bustdown. Gotta find out which.
I don't expect a woman to pay all my bills, shyt i havent even had a phone convo wtih her, just a single text convo. I'm not tryna marry the woman....yet
You know what...I have my morals. She's 31. I was told that she doesnt have sex at all. That either means she's NEVER had sex or she's reformed. If i find that she's reformed, im
I'm not naive nor am i ignorant. She's either a super prude angel or a bustdown. Gotta find out which.
I don't expect a woman to pay all my bills, shyt i havent even had a phone convo wtih her, just a single text convo. I'm not tryna marry the woman....yet
you believe that? How did that even come up? Thats just another form of "I don't wanna come off like a hoe" line. Or either she has an STD 
Every chik who hit me with the "I haven't had sex in (insert random long period)" have been the ones who been down to smash on the 1st or 2nd date…..especially if they don't have any kids. With kids they are more cautious, so for them it could be true.
I forgot to mention there's another coworker. Really short, slim, and has humongous t*ts. Chocolate like I like. She been fukking with a deadbeat ass nikka, as told by a friend of mine that also works there. She's a really nurturing chick, comforted a breh when I got turned down for a promotion.
I told her a couple years ago she will make a great wife. Friend told me, nikka takes her whip (and has beat it up) had the girl walking home after a closing shift etc etc. like....wtf...and that she assumes that the dude could have/still is abusing her (but she shows no physical signs of this)
Girl got the dude initial tatted on the inside of her wrist. So I assume he the first dude she fukked. She's a great woman but stubborn, nothing anyone says can get her to leave him. I dropped her off one day and said so where we going for valentines day? Her: As friends? Me:
I was outta line but I had to tell her. She need to leave that bytch nikka alone. This was about 3 months ago, end of 2013. I have since left that alone, but i told her a long time ago that if i ever found out she broke up with son that i will be calling her the SAME day.
She deserves better but, fukk it. oh well.
Leave that alone breh
Every chik who hit me with the "I haven't had sex in (insert random long period)" have been the ones who been down to smash on the 1st or 2nd date…..especially if they don't have any kids. With kids they are more cautious, so for them it could be true.
It came up via someone else who was in the store who says that he's known her for several years. I took it with a grain of salt, just tryna let yall know what really happened, i have no reason to lie. I cant lie, I WAS like
when he said that...31 and she aint fukk nan nikka? Don't believe it.
Sorry my dude, but you sounding like:
Girl, i know it's been hard since he went away
And left so sad you cry everyday
Let me kiss your tears erase all your doubts
Because for you i'm here, you won't be without love!
Don't need a man who can give you money
C'mon let me show you just what you need honey (i got what you need)
You need a man with sensitivity (a man like me)
Someone who can love you
Someone who will need you
Someone who will treat you right (like me girl)
Someone who will hold you tight
Someone stable in your life (ah baby)
You need a man with sensitivity
A man like me (baby)(honey)
Baby and i'm the man (ah you no, you no)
Baby like i do baby (hang in their baby)
You need a man with sensitivity
A man like me
See you need someone who's their like a gentleman
If anybody can fit the description baby i can
Someone who cares and dares to give himself completely
You got it in me you need a man with sensitivity
You need a man (3x's)
Not any man
Warm and sensitive that's what i can give
Man with sensitivity
A man like me
Chorus
Save a little love for me (sensitivity)
Baby i got what you need (i got it)
Hold on my darling
Don't let me down
I been left her alone. I just had to update yall to where i am now, give yall the whole picture.It sure is, but trust me, i've learned, I aint a dumbass anymore. Everything she will possibly tell me is taken with a grain of salt until backed up by actions. The only 2 things I know are true is she's a doctor and she goes to church. Nothing more, nothing less.
I did breh, that all happened in the period of 3 to 4 months ago.
Meanwhile the chick off the app texts me asking me how my day was and shyt like that good morning/goodnight
texts and shyt...seeming genuinely concerned and shyt. I be looking at the shyts like
I don't text her first.
Got set up to meet shorty's mom yesterday, Mom loves the kid though, still ain't like being set up like that though. 
wow..lol
she trying to tell you something
I've paid like 4 meals in the past 18 months.
My dad is a pro at women...just don't like talking to him about stuff like that. I slipped up the other night and he gave some gems.
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