Occasionally, sometimes you come across people who aren't great initiators, and they always expect you to hit them up, especially if you've established the precedence of being the one to initiate. Other times, if that other person doesn't initiate, they don't really have that deep of an interest in you.
Now, I bet if you say you thought she lost interest, she'll be like, "Oh nahhh, I was just mad busy." lol in fact, if she does hit you up, I want you to say that just to see what her response is. I bet you it'll be how she was busy with school or this and that. You can essentially know someone by their deeds... by their actions. If someone deeply loved you, they would have a deep emotional attachment to you. If you just suddenly disappear for two weeks, they will be very concerned and will wonder where you are at. if she responds coolly, then she is playing with you. If she is like where in the world have you been? Why didn't you hit me up, and gets highly emotional, then there MIGHT be something real there... although i feel she is shady from what you told me about 'feeling lonely and single' on facebook while telling you she loves you to your face. Females have 'game' too and they can have a playerish mentality. She can say she loves you and make you feel great while in her presence, but if your absence doesn't provoke any large emotional response from her, then what does that really say about how she feels about you? You haven't hit her in two weeks and she hasn't hit you back... look at her facebook and see her activity on there.
You brehs have been spot on about not trying to force or manipulate someone into liking you. You have to like who you are at the end of the day, and if they not with it than it's bushes. Definitely felt like I was dumbing myself down dealing with this certain chick, it's no point and there's too many smart women out here for me to be doing all of that.
