Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rocket Scientist]

cosign 100%, I was always calling and texting, finally figured out that it shouldn't take that much work to kick it with someone if they are really interested in you. Said fukk it and only hit them if I feel like it, other than that I'm good

Eactly call them on your own time.Cats probably waiting by the phone,thinking their woman is thinking about them NOPE.

 

[kevm3]

BTW, just noticed this thread has over a million views!

Hit that milli club. No easy feat to do

 

[RealAssanova]

there are no consequences to them treating you like some sort of experiment. you need to show them without words that you disapprove of this. the attention you give them is your currency. use it wisely and only when you feel like it's deserved. the problem in your case is that it's gonna be weird if you switch it up on them out of nowhere. you can still do it but only if it's sincere. they will know if you are bluffing. either way, they'll accuse you of acting funny. you might have to take a L on this one.


let this be a lesson breh. How you start with someone will often dictate the tone, frame and dynamics of your future interactions with the person. once it's set, it becomes very hard to diverge from this. Always be very careful on how you start with people.

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I cannot stress how important this is and 200% agree with. If you stepping to shorty 1st time you meet, you gotta set the tone and make your intentions known FROM THE JUMP. If she agrees with it, then you can pretty much guarantee the outcome you want (ie. sex). You cannot take no back-route or use the friend card cuz shyt will not turn out the way you wanted. All this will do is prove to her that you are a pu$$y.

 

[RealAssanova]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/371266/My-wife-s-holiday-fling-is-back-and-ruining-my-life

MY wife expects me to go on holiday with a man I once caught her with.

As you can imagine, I’m not happy about it.

Three years ago we went on holiday with another couple and while she thought I was down on the beach I went back to our room.

I found her in there on the bed giving oral sex to the other man.

He had a look of ecstasy on his face and I’ll never forget it.

I just closed the door quietly and walked away, and I don’t know why.

We’d only been married a matter of months and it never crossed my mind that she could ever do this to me. When we got home we drifted apart from the other couple and I blocked the whole thing out of my mind.

But recently they’ve been back in touch and my wife reckons we should go away with them after Easter.

I’ve told her it’s a bad idea, but she reckons we’ll have a great time and I’m being a killjoy.

We’re having massive rows about it, but she doesn’t know what I saw.

I don’t know why I didn’t just confront them at the time, but instead I just went back to the beach fuming.

For the rest of that holiday I made sure she wasn’t out of my sight so I know it only happened the once.

But I wonder if I should now come clean and tell her why I don’t want to go away.

@DaRealness breh, it seems every post from there just keeps getting worst and worst. For our own sanity, can you not post anymore stuff from this site? You don't kno how many times i wanted to bang my computer cuz of sheer rage from reading shyt on this site.

 

[Two Stacks]

@DaRealness breh, it seems every post from there just keeps getting worst and worst. For our own sanity, can you not post anymore stuff from this site? You don't kno how many times i wanted to bang my computer cuz of sheer rage from reading shyt on this site.

I'm still learning shyt from this thread, but when has it EVER been cool to let finding your WIFE sucking some other nikka off slide?!?!

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

If you are intiating convo 99% of the time with your woman or interest,she is not into you.Its like baseball, the great home run hitters always waited.The ones who struck out swung at everything.Im saying sometimes its good to not contact her for a while.Being too available,will get you taken advantage of.Somebody knowing your patterns has you in check.

I havent talked to my woman since saturday and im struggling
I know she wants alone time due to her family problems but its hard to not text

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

this

this...

THIS!!!

I cannot stress how important this is and 200% agree with. If you stepping to shorty 1st time you meet, you gotta set the tone and make your intentions known FROM THE JUMP. If she agrees with it, then you can pretty much guarantee the outcome you want (ie. sex). You cannot take no back-route or use the friend card cuz shyt will not turn out the way you wanted. All this will do is prove to her that you are a pu$$y.

Its this broad at work that don't talk to too many people besides me.
My supervisor saying im scared to get at her and all this but I think she would shoot me down.
When I first started talking to her I never tried to pull her so now waiting months later and trying to get the number probably wont work.
Missed my chance.

 

[Jesus]

Using the same rules on family members...my sister is a manipulating bytch. It hurts brehs.

Saying she'll come visit me for months and finally comes to town for a appointment with her old doctor she had when she stayed her and to pick up some stuff I let her leave in my extra bedroom as storage. Stays for 24hrs. and bounces. Been visiting her guy "friend" and homegirls in a different city that's the same difference from me....multiple times. Had problems getting gas money to visit her bro, but has the cash to visit these fast bytches and some nikka.

Didn't think I'd have to use I'd had to have my guard up to my own flesh and blood as compared to the street women.

 

[Jesus]

Empyted the roster and just focusing on myself....stress free.

 

[kevm3]

People will say reincar was too hard for dumping his chick for saying she was going to a bday party only to discover it was to the club to celebrate with a male coworker, but now you guys are understanding why. If you give these women an inch and let them play around, they will do unbelievably disrespectful things. You let the club thing slide, and next it'll be her going to lunch with a male coworker or 'just watching a movie together.' As a man, your time is too precious to be playing around and dealing with nonsensical drama.

 

[kevm3]

Empyted the roster and just focusing on myself....stress free.

Sometimes that's what you got to do man. That's why I recommend men learn to be single and not be one of those dudes who always have to be in relationships. If she's not adding JOY and VALUE to your life, she gotta go. You learn how much stress is removed when you remove a troublesome woman/women to your life. A woman is free to participate, but if she starts bringing unnecessary worries to my mind instead of being a team player who is doing things the right way, she gotta get on to someone else that will accept that.

 

[Jone2three45]

He broke up with his girl? What happened?

 

[Don Mack]

Slept on this thread for a while. Glad I finally dropped in

 

[Data-Hawk]

I'm telling you, a woman who is cool with you not contacting her for 2 or 3 weeks or more has another guy on the side 9 times out of 10. A woman that really digs you will get angry that you aren't contacting her after a couple of days. Women that really dig you are very hard to get rid of and they are highly emotional. You'll likely be saying, "What in the world? Chill out ma" in your mind to women that really dig you because they desire your company that much.

Got damn if this aint the truth. Ive told negros before, if a girl aint trying to have you on the phone for hrs or always trying to take up your time. She aint really feeling you like that.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

when it comes to initiating we as men for the most part have no choice but to do a lot in the early stages but if it doesnt even out after a while then somethings wrong.
she might even only be replying to not appear rude,let her hit you up sometimes.