Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Brehs I done semi simped and text/called my woman too many times recently. :snoop:
She ain't hit me up since Tuesday and I know im smothering her.
I wonder how long I gotta wait til she starts to message me
 

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If you ever get into a new relationship require her to cut ties with her ex, ALWAYS. :banderas:

has anybody been in that role before? as the BF with a girls ex still in the picture in some aspect? I'm still cool with one of my ex's. I don't really interact with her too much currently, I'm with/see her son more than I do her. I'm just trying to get a overall feel of what dude is thinking :dwillhuh:(met him a few times, seems like a mellow dude), that whole ideal is foreign to me in regards to letting your girl have friends of that nature. I kind of feel bad for dude because she is keeping some things from him that should be talked about in a relationship. It's not really my business/or role to tell him so im like :manny: he'll find out once her and her son move in with him. I'm thinking now she found someone that will just deal with whatever and really have no say so on things.
 

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A few weeks ago this a fellow coworker who i sometimes take lunch with was asking for a advice from this other person (female),
we take lunch with sometimes. Anyways he said that he's been feeling his gf becoming distant, phone calls are few, texts are few,
cancelling plans etc. Anyways the female advice was, just ask her how she is doing maybe she is goign through something in life.
I chimed in that she is thinking of how to break up with you, this is the tactic that women use. Text messages and phone calls become scarce,
cancelling plans when before they couldn't wait to see you, being distant waiting for the opportunity then hitting you up with a we need to talk etc.
Well what do you know brehs just had a lunch and he told me I was right :jalwarus:. That she doesn't feel as happy as she used to and she doesn't know why, she just needs "space" :mjlol:

It's amazing the routine women follow when they about to drop them thangs, as a man their is nothing you can do but either


1. pull the carpet under them first aka dump them before they dump you
or
2. agree with everything they say, yeah you need space I agree wholeheartedly instead of the tears, anger and the questions of why, what did i Do etc. and satisfaction they might be expecting.

or
3. continue to think your situation is different and your girl is not like that, only to be blindsided.
 

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I never saw him but she always mentioned him.

Like omg Sarah said she saw James at the bar and he got in a fight and arrested.

And yeah she was cavorting with him on the side.

If a woman talks to much about an ex, or she's still friends with him 9/10 times he's in them guts or can be if he wants.

Women are emotional creatures no matter how bad an ex treated them they cant fight those chemicals that makes them attracted to them.

has anybody been in that role before? as the BF with a girls ex still in the picture in some aspect? I'm still cool with one of my ex's. I don't really interact with her too much currently, I'm with/see her son more than I do her. I'm just trying to get a overall feel of what dude is thinking :dwillhuh:(met him a few times, seems like a mellow dude), that whole ideal is foreign to me in regards to letting your girl have friends of that nature. I kind of feel bad for dude because she is keeping some things from him that should be talked about in a relationship. It's not really my business/or role to tell him so im like :manny: he'll find out once her and her son move in with him. I'm thinking now she found someone that will just deal with whatever and really have no say so on things.
 
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I will leave the lunch/financial part to others but why not just ask in person?

won't see her till next week tuesday .. and talks are usually hey how you been .. did you do the reading and the work .. etc etc .. lol.

btw she looks like a young vera farmiga :ahh:
 

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won't see her till next week tuesday .. and talks are usually hey how you been .. did you do the reading and the work .. etc etc .. lol.

btw she looks like a young vera farmiga :ahh:

I would do it in person :manny:

Plus the semester can't be ending soon so you are going to ask for a date that's a month from now?
 
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