A few weeks ago this a fellow coworker who i sometimes take lunch with was asking for a advice from this other person (female),
we take lunch with sometimes. Anyways he said that he's been feeling his gf becoming distant, phone calls are few, texts are few,
cancelling plans etc. Anyways the female advice was, just ask her how she is doing maybe she is goign through something in life.
I chimed in that she is thinking of how to break up with you, this is the tactic that women use. Text messages and phone calls become scarce,
cancelling plans when before they couldn't wait to see you, being distant waiting for the opportunity then hitting you up with a we need to talk etc.
Well what do you know brehs just had a lunch and he told me I was right :jalwarus:. That she doesn't feel as happy as she used to and she doesn't know why, she just needs "space"
It's amazing the routine women follow when they about to drop them thangs, as a man their is nothing you can do but either
1. pull the carpet under them first aka dump them before they dump you
or
2. agree with everything they say, yeah you need space I agree wholeheartedly instead of the tears, anger and the questions of why, what did i Do etc. and satisfaction they might be expecting.
or
3. continue to think your situation is different and your girl is not like that, only to be blindsided.