Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:blessed: the block feature on the iPhone is so great. Eliminates the temptation to respond to a chick who you no longer want to deal with.

Brehs know what I mean, when the ex hit you out of no where with that "I was thinking about you..." :camby:

i swear nikkaz don't realize the power that they have...its just so :ohlawd:

yet they CONSTANTLY refuse to use it :aicmon:
 

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Man when will you guys understand if she's good looking or half way decent then 9 times out of 10 she has someone she's dealing with....weather their just friends or fukking it's up to you to show her something different to get her on your team. I've done it and it's been done to me stop kicking these hoes to the curb just because you not the only she's talking and of course she's going to tell you your the only one she should think the same.. You a never get p*ssy acting like this don't be naive. But one thing I never do is mess with a chick I know had a boyfriend I might hit it once but that's not my problem I don't do love triangles... I got 3 girls I'm juggling and they all think they special :youngsabo: No matter how honest you think your girl is being she's not at the beginning you have to build that bond and trust if it's worth it unless she a true tramp

The point a lot of us are making is that we shouldn't look at being with these girls as a privilege. Showing her something different to get her on your team, when you know she's talking to another dude leaves you out of pocket the majority of the time. If a girl likes you as much as she says she does, she'll actually drop everything around in order to try and secure you. I know girls that have said the courting period is the most exciting time of the relationship for them...none of them have held down a long term relationship. That says it all.
 

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The point a lot of us are making is that we shouldn't look at being with these girls as a privilege. Showing her something different to get her on your team, when you know she's talking to another dude leaves you out of pocket the majority of the time. If a girl likes you as much as she says she does, she'll actually drop everything around in order to try and secure you. I know girls that have said the courting period is the most exciting time of the relationship for them...none of them have held down a long term relationship. That says it all.
The beginning is the most exciting part for everyone but u got to understand women get hit on all day every day unless their in a significant relationship their not shooting everyone down. Liking someone doesn't mean you give your all to them. You ever been talking to a chick and she cut you off for someone else?
That's my point you can be that someone else
Everyone is playing the game until they find someone they feel worth it
 

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And I'm what these women consider a dog I have no trouble getting women I just understand perception from reality
 

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To each their own, but I know I'm a catch. If she wants to talk to other guys while we're together then I'm not wasting my time.
 

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To each their own, but I know I'm a catch. If she wants to talk to other guys while we're together then I'm not wasting my time.
If y'all together that's a different story but the way they talking in here is like they just getting to know each other.
 

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Something important to realize is that it is very important to 'be yourself'. That doesn't mean do whatever comes to mind, follow your emotions, or to be weak, but that means to like who you are and to work on your weaknesses to such an extent that when you look in the mirror, you feel positive about yourself. It also means to stop trying to 'show' women anything than who you are and put them in a position to either accept it or to get on with someone else. It means stop changing your viewpoints, style, or overall personality around when you're in the presence of a woman. It also means not caring if this or that particular woman doesn't want to deal with you. She doesn't like my style? Oh well, there is someone else who will. I wish her the best and hope she finds someone she can fit in with. When it's said and done, if you're a mighty morphin power ranger who has 10 different personalities for 10 different women, you're going to end up confused at the end of the day. How can a woman ever really like you if she never gets to experience you? Instead, she's experiencing this fake facade that you're putting up to try to impress her? How can you find the woman that fits into what you're trying to do with life if you're not allowing her to experience something real? This is why the last thing you should be thinking of when dealing with a woman is, "What do women like? Does she like this?" You're not here to impress anybody, but you're seeing if she is someone who can connect with what you're all about.
 

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Work on your mission way more than you 'chase women'. Think about guys like 50 Cent or a Trey Songz. No matter how much work you put in with your current woman, unless she's just unbelievably principled, she will leave you in a heartbeat to go deal with one of those guys. Instead of them having to 'prove something' or impress a woman, the women try to impress them. Obviously they have celebrity, but do you think that came from spending all their time and money chasing skirts? They put the vast majority of time into their art. They put themselves in the POSITION to where women want to impress them instead of it being the other way around. I'm not saying to chase wealth and fame. I am saying that you should eventually get into a position to where you find out what God has given you to do in this life and pursue it full-throttle.

Find out what your interests are and interesting locales you want to visit and go there. Solidify your finances and career prospects. Work on your character. All of these things will culminate in you being a much more solid man, and as an added benefit, you will have women who notice your change and will be attracted to it. It's very important to get to the stage where you realize who you are and you can offer that to a woman you come across without apologies. You should get to the point where you do not miss a beat if she doesn't take you up on it because you know there is another woman out there who will. Your mission is not to 'impress women' and try to show her you are worthy of her dealing with you. That is essentially coming for a position that you are of lower value. Your mission is to allow a woman to participate what you are doing with your life if and only if she knows how to act right. On a quantity basis, you might 'miss out' on some women, but really, you haven't missed out on anything but headaches. Who really wants to deal with a woman who is completely contrary to what you're doing in life? Doesn't the Bible tell you not to be unequally yoked? If you and the woman you are tethered to are going in completely different directions, either you two will be at a standstill or she will drag you somewhere you do NOT want to be at. YOU are the man setting the agenda, and it is you who allows a woman to participate in what you're doing if she is of the same mind as you.
 

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I'm close to getting out of hibernation early. Too many passed opportunities lately. I'm tryin to wait til I got a new ride (June) and my daughter turns 1 (May) but its so damn hard cause the women are out there :ohlawd:

This morning 8:30 am I went to get gas and I got stopped by this decent 7 with a nice lil body in leggings that asked me what part of town I was from. I should've spit right there and I could tell she was waiting.

I feel like Kobe wanting to be in the game but holding off til im 100% :noah:
 

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I'm close to getting out of hibernation early. Too many passed opportunities lately. I'm tryin to wait til I got a new ride (June) and my daughter turns 1 (May) but its so damn hard cause the women are out there :ohlawd:

This morning 8:30 am I went to get gas and I got stopped by this decent 7 with a nice lil body in leggings that asked me what part of town I was from. I should've spit right there and I could tell she was waiting.

I feel like Kobe wanting to be in the game but holding off til im 100% :noah:
U still need teammates u should've got her number at least
 

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Man some guys be crying like babies over these women never thought I'll see the day a man cry like that over a woman
 
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