Something important to realize is that it is very important to 'be yourself'. That doesn't mean do whatever comes to mind, follow your emotions, or to be weak, but that means to like who you are and to work on your weaknesses to such an extent that when you look in the mirror, you feel positive about yourself. It also means to stop trying to 'show' women anything than who you are and put them in a position to either accept it or to get on with someone else. It means stop changing your viewpoints, style, or overall personality around when you're in the presence of a woman. It also means not caring if this or that particular woman doesn't want to deal with you. She doesn't like my style? Oh well, there is someone else who will. I wish her the best and hope she finds someone she can fit in with. When it's said and done, if you're a mighty morphin power ranger who has 10 different personalities for 10 different women, you're going to end up confused at the end of the day. How can a woman ever really like you if she never gets to experience you? Instead, she's experiencing this fake facade that you're putting up to try to impress her? How can you find the woman that fits into what you're trying to do with life if you're not allowing her to experience something real? This is why the last thing you should be thinking of when dealing with a woman is, "What do women like? Does she like this?" You're not here to impress anybody, but you're seeing if she is someone who can connect with what you're all about.