Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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how long did you ghost her, and how did you give her the upper hand?

Ghost for 4 days with 0 communication. She asked all these questions like would I kiss her if she tried to kiss me, could we still fukk and I froze. Should of just been ice cold but bish is a 9. :shaq2:
 

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I know exactly where this boy is coming from. You see a girl, you make it a necessity to bag her, and when you don't, you have a slight mental breakdown. Happened to me like 8 times this semester still. Some girls got it like that :manny:
We all have those stories. I totally blew it with a woman I had a lot of interaction with business wise. I knew she was single for a while and never made move. Sat around wondering if she was throwing mild hints. Really cute, super personality, long term potential.

Out of nowhere she started dating someone and was left looking like :snoop:

Other aspects I can't get into but me not taking a shot was criminal.

:manny:
 

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I know exactly where this boy is coming from. You see a girl, you make it a necessity to bag her, and when you don't, you have a slight mental breakdown. Happened to me like 8 times this semester still. Some girls got it like that :manny:

the dreaded oneitis

just go on tinder you'll find ten girls within 2 miles that look hotter than her
 

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It's not so much oneitis but more of a blow to confidence.


I don't have facebook :mjpls:

I always say its a blessing when a women isn't interested in you , because there is prob some deep issues you know nothing about but all you can see is her looks.

There are to many single women out there to even put a twinge of effort into caring about one who is not interested in you.
 

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Brehs say I get a girl's number. What's the quickest and most effective way to get in them guts. Inquiring minds need to know
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I'm tired of being patient :to:
 

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Brehs say I get a girl's number. What's the quickest and most effective way to get in them guts. Inquiring minds need to know
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I'm tired of being patient :to:

if a girl likes you, all you have to do is not mess it up and it'll happen.

As in dont say anything dumb/stupid/ stop being mysterious and soon enough she will invite you in for a drink, or to watch a movie, or invite you to sleep over.
 

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if a girl likes you, all you have to do is not mess it up and it'll happen.

As in dont say anything dumb/stupid/ stop being mysterious and soon enough she will invite you in for a drink, or to watch a movie, or invite you to sleep over.
:ehh: yesterday a girl asked me out but normally that shyt never happens. But I make sure I don't say anything stupid so how come it doesn't happen often? :lupe: fukk it ima get more girls numbers
 

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:ehh: yesterday a girl asked me out but normally that shyt never happens. But I make sure I don't say anything stupid so how come it doesn't happen often? :lupe: fukk it ima get more girls numbers

the more you say the more you can mess it up, you don't know if she hates liberals or conservatives, or she hates guys who like sports, or etc.

I remember years ago when i was :demonic: i went out on a date with this chick she lived miles away but was in town anyways everything was going good i could have hit it, anyways driving her back to the hotel, this homeless bum was knocking on my glass and i told him to f outta here you crackhead bum, anyways that comment got her so livid because one of her close friends was in rehab and been through alot, if i kept my mouth shut i would have hit it that night, but because i had to make a snide comment it ruined my chances.
 

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If a girl is feeling you she'll let you smash....

Went on a double date once with my ex and her bestie..at the time it was our second date. I made a comment about this special kid that was at the restaurant. Her best friend happened to have a mentally retarded brother...cried and it almost ruined the night. :troll:

Just to happened that earlier her best friend has no issue with jokes on "fakkits" and fat chicks...so I expected she'd have no problem with aggressive jokes.

Regardless I ended up smashing that night. :mjlol:
 

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If a girl is feeling you she'll let you smash....

Went on a double date once with my ex and her bestie..at the time it was our second date. I made a comment about this special kid that was at the restaurant. Her best friend happened to have a mentally retarded brother...cried and it almost ruined the night. :troll:

Just to happened that earlier her best friend has no issue with jokes on "fakkits" and fat chicks...so I expected she'd have no problem with aggressive jokes.

Regardless I ended up smashing that night. :mjlol:
Wait the chick with the special brother?
 

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Wait the chick with the special brother?

My girlfriend at the time and her c*nt friend who had the special brother. I still was able to smash my future ex-gf even though her friend wanted to kill me.

All said just to reiterate what others said about if a girl's feeling you...you'll get to smash regardless. :yeshrug:
 

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I'm tired of being patient :to:
Call her, set up a date, afterwards go to a secluded place ???? smash
 

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To make a long story short, she been having issues at her job and couldnt pay a bill. I let her have 60 so that she can pay it. We was going to hook up last night to chill then i get a text stating that she not coming, i'm a loser and that she seeing someone else who can provide for her. We had a issue while back where she needed some cash and i didnt have it and she got pissed. She was just fukking with me for money but she got scraps anyway so i dont care.

Fug dat dirty azz bytch breh.

Karma is a bytch an best belee dat bytch

gone see her azz.
 

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the more you say the more you can mess it up, you don't know if she hates liberals or conservatives, or she hates guys who like sports, or etc.

I remember years ago when i was :demonic: i went out on a date with this chick she lived miles away but was in town anyways everything was going good i could have hit it, anyways driving her back to the hotel, this homeless bum was knocking on my glass and i told him to f outta here you crackhead bum, anyways that comment got her so livid because one of her close friends was in rehab and been through alot, if i kept my mouth shut i would have hit it that night, but because i had to make a snide comment it ruined my chances.
i feel what you're saying if we're looking at it from the player perspective. a player should be able to adapt to whatever he needs to be to get the girl. but on the flipside, not doing what you feel is too much work just to get p*ssy. in your situation, if she refused to give you puss because you said what you felt :manny: i don't think you should regret saying what you said (and peeping your posting style, i'm sure today you don't regret it that much).
 
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