the more you say the more you can mess it up, you don't know if she hates liberals or conservatives, or she hates guys who like sports, or etc.
I remember years ago when i was

i went out on a date with this chick she lived miles away but was in town anyways everything was going good i could have hit it, anyways driving her back to the hotel, this homeless bum was knocking on my glass and i told him to f outta here you crackhead bum, anyways that comment got her so livid because one of her close friends was in rehab and been through alot, if i kept my mouth shut i would have hit it that night, but because i had to make a snide comment it ruined my chances.