Here's a recap of some major points:
The more indifferent you are to the comings and goings of a woman, the better. Women are largely unpredictable in this day and age, and they can leave in a whim. Being prepared for her to leave at any moment will save you many headaches in advance.
Being indifferent has another advantage in that it allows you to keep the peace. If you are too concerned with keeping her around, she will be free to disrespect you at a moment's notice, and not only will you have to deal with her drama, you will have to deal with her peeling off.
This is why it's also so important to focus on other things in life and make them priorities over chasing and dealing with women. Women are kind of like anti-stocks. It seems like the less you invest, the more you get in return. How many guys took all these women to dinner, been there for their woman, always made time, etc., and she became 'busy' and eventually broke up with you? If you got to put up some massive investment to get or to keep the attention of a woman, you are wasting your time.
Always keep things drama-free. If she starts criticizing you or bringing the drama, you let her know to cut it out. If she continues, time for her to go. Life is stressful enough as is. No need to have someone in your life who constantly disrespects you and brings unnecessary drama.
Stop wasting your time with women who aren't feeling your natural style. Talk to another woman who is more receptive. This rule alone will save you a ton of time and effort.
Women will go as far as you let them and will treat you as bad as you let them. Look at Jay Z. He let Solange get too comfortable with him and she started wilding out. If you let a woman get too comfortable with you. Never become 'so cool' with a female that you start letting them disrespect you and never let them get so comfortable to where they think they can put their hands on you.
Her behavior towards you is much more important than anything else she can offer you. If she isn't 'acting right', then there's nothing else that she should be able to offer you that will keep you around. A lot of 'coochie hounds' aka guys who put up with any and everything to get sex found out the hard way that once you have a psychopath in your life, that you wish you would have never met her.
ALWAYS observe your positioning when dealing with women. What are her motivations for dealing with you? What do you have to lose if she walks out. Can she do a smash and grab if she decides to leave(aka take your property) when she peels out? If you are not aware of your position at all times, you WILL get played.
There are only two real categories when a woman is dealing with you. Either she likes your presence or she likes what you provide. You NEVER want to be put in the latter category, aka providerman. If she requires some sort of compensation, whether it be dinner, money, etc., in order to deal with her, time to cut your losses and keep it pushing. The woman you want to deal with is the one that loves your presence and wouldn't even think of trying to 'charge you' for her time.
If you put gold-digger bait out, that's exactly what you're going to attract. You try to show off with your money or fancy car, etc., you're going to attract women who want you for that and who will eventually put you into providerman/comeup category.
If you can't pull her with your presence (charisma, style, mouthpiece), etc., then stop wasting time. When you add materials into the equation, yes, you will get played.
If you're not pulling the caliber of women you want, then step yourself up. Go out, sharpen your dress code up, get out and about and always be about your business.The great thing about improving yourself is that it dramatically increases your options.
You can't save a simp. Once you put the information out there, that's that. If the guy argues with you or tries to fight/shame you over you trying to help them, don't argue with them. Let them experience first-hand what you are talking about on their own. You try to help a simp, and not only will he argue vehemently with you, he will also put you in bad situations.
She is never really that busy. We are in an era of unprecedented communication. If you don't hear from her because 'she's been busy', cut her off and keep it pushing. A man that a woman really wants is like crack to her. She'll find a way to make time for him. If you start getting the, "I'm busy" rhetoric, you are in back-up category.
Stop looking for some magic script or routine. Keep it basic and put in your work (be social, dress well, always be leading, etc.).
god damnit J why u gotta do this to yaself
my pastor didn't even drop a sermon as good as this today.