my boy wanted to go up last night and actually ask some of the chicks there who was actually here to fukk and who was here to basically act like wild chick in front of everyoneIf I don't know anybody at a party I just find someone who could be there by themselves or anybody who's looking like they're on a third wheel ting and talk to them. You never wanna be that one nikka who's posted up and talking to nobody. If anything you should just leave if you feel like that's whats happening to you.
I rarely go to parties though.
That feeling when it's the only time of the week where you can fukk girls cuz they're drunk out of their mind and you still don't take one home <<<<<<<<<<
That feeling when you try to bag but she L's you <<<<<<<<<<<<<
The taste of alcohol <<<<<<<<<<
The moment you wish you could teleport back to your room for relaxation and serenity<<<<<<<<
That feeling when you realize you got dressed, convinced yourself you taking a W, went outside, and it wasn't worth it at all <<<<<<<<<<<
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Brandeezy
Superstar
The thing was that I was staying in his dorm for the weekend so he was my ride home. If I had my own car I would've bouncedIf I don't know anybody at a party I just find someone who could be there by themselves or anybody who's looking like they're on a third wheel ting and talk to them. You never wanna be that one nikka who's posted up and talking to nobody. If anything you should just leave if you feel like that's whats happening to you.
I rarely go to parties though.
That feeling when it's the only time of the week where you can fukk girls cuz they're drunk out of their mind and you still don't take one home <<<<<<<<<<
That feeling when you try to bag but she L's you <<<<<<<<<<<<<
The taste of alcohol <<<<<<<<<<
The moment you wish you could teleport back to your room for relaxation and serenity
That feeling when you realize you got dressed, convinced yourself you taking a W, went outside, and it wasn't worth it at all <<<<<<<<<<<
Beerus
Banned
When I think about it.... maybe I should have came inside her.
Brandeezy
Superstar
You guys have wardrobe tips? My uncles keep telling me that I have no style but I just whatever I feel comfortable in. Usually it's just a diamond supply type shirt, black Levi jeans and some Nikes I barely wear with a fitted. I don't understand the problem. I feel like I dress better than the majority of these Bay cats with bad ass women
PhonZhi
Veteran
Feel like that at every party I went to. I usually knew one or two ppl there but they would always pretend like they didn't know me so I get left out. I remember going to this campus party with this guy I was cool with. He disappeared as soon we got there so I pretended to have an imaginary convo on my cell for almost 2hrsshyt was embarrassing. All my party experiences have been like that. Knew this shyt wasn't for me when I showed up to this girl's party in middle school even though I wasn't invited. My boy back then convinced me that it was ok because she invited him and I lived down the street from him
. I hid in the bathroom by the pool at the club house the party was held at
Your mentality is very important as a man.. When you come across adversity, you have to respond by finding a way to overcome it. For example, when dealing with women, if you aren't getting the caliber of women you want, instead of complaining, look at one aspect of yourself, and step it up. You feel frustrated? Go to the mall and get a new cologne and a new outfit to sharpen up our external. Make sure you go out instead of sitting at home this weekend. Make sure you hit the gym extra hard. Make sure you attack one of your weaknesses head on. Honestly, this should be a fun process for you just watching yourself improve. You have to realize everything is a progression. You won't magically become superman tomorrow. You have to learn to love the process and keep on pushing different areas of yourself for improvement. Everytime you feel like getting down or depressed, make a move to improve yourself.
A lot of dressing comes down to the fit of the clothes and how the colors match/complement each other. I can't really tell you what exactly to wear because everyone has their own style... but what I will tell you is think about some cats out there that dress sharp to your eyes and attempt to break down what makes their style sharp. It's hard to be able to say where exactly you are going wrong with your dress style without seeing a typical outfit you wear. Do you wear your pants very baggy? Do your shoes match with the rest of your outfit or do you just throw them on? Believe it or not, one of the biggest elements to how you look overall is how your jeans fit you. You don't have to buy expensive, 'premium denim', but it's the fit of the jeans. For example, here are 'dad jeans': They are loose and don't fit very well.
In this pic, these are Levi 501s (the right pic) that are fitted much better than what Obama is wearing. They are not overly baggy.
Dark jeans are typically easier to work with than lighter jeans.
Shirt-wise, fit is very important as well. If you are wearing big, baggy t-shirts with loud graphic designs, you are going to give off a 'straight from a hood rap video' impression.
TheArchitect
All Star
That's why I quit going to clubs and parties...that shyt is the worst...annoying ass females only want to dance with each other, then get an attitude like your not supposed to bother them as a man....the party i went to last night was a very "fish out of bowl" experience for me unfortunatly i didn't talk to any females i sat and chilled i just didn't know what to do in a situation where i was just soaking it all in. it wasn't a complete sausage fest but there could've been more chicks alot them were the type of chicks who wouldn't give up p*ssy but were dancing and twerking on each other(these were white hipster girls along with a few pawgs) but I definitely lowkey felt out of my element and just didn't know how to even make an approach to chicks who know my boys but didn't know me(I don't get out that much) but i'm glad i got the experience i just kind of need tips on what to do next time i go to another party
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TheArchitect
All Star
If I don't know anybody at a party I just find someone who could be there by themselves or anybody who's looking like they're on a third wheel ting and talk to them. You never wanna be that one nikka who's posted up and talking to nobody. If anything you should just leave if you feel like that's whats happening to you.
I rarely go to parties though.
That feeling when it's the only time of the week where you can fukk girls cuz they're drunk out of their mind and you still don't take one home <<<<<<<<<<
That feeling when you try to bag but she L's you <<<<<<<<<<<<<
The taste of alcohol <<<<<<<<<<
The moment you wish you could teleport back to your room for relaxation and serenity
That feeling when you realize you got dressed, convinced yourself you taking a W, went outside, and it wasn't worth it at all <<<<<<<<<<<
That shyt is the worst....I'm not even quick to go out anymore because of it...
Kenny West
Veteran
the party i went to last night was a very "fish out of bowl" experience for me unfortunatly i didn't talk to any females i sat and chilled i just didn't know what to do in a situation where i was just soaking it all in
talk to someone next time
you didn't talk to any females so you didn't get any experience. don't be so self conscious next time. nobody paying you no mind anyway, might as well use the opportunity of women actually being there in a sociable environment. embrace those fish out of the bowl experiences, those are the ones that make you a better person. comfort is the enemy of growth
supply of women becomes a big problem for dudes later in life. if you're in college chicks are numerous, diverse, close and accessible. don't squander your opportunities. make use of this time to sharpen your social skills cause you're obviously behind in this game. at some point you just gotta say fukk your fear, fukk looking cool, fukk your reputation, fukk being scared of looking thirsty....you gotta go ahead and take your lumps.
talk to 5 people next party. and get rejected by at least 3 chicks. then you'd be making progress
Beerus
Banned
It was a year ago she broke the rubber when I was finna hit it from the back. Thought was in the back of my head but I still pulled out, and was
when I saw the rubber broken.
dodged a bullet on that oneThen again she was so fine
