Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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How many messages do you go back and forth with a chick before u ask for the # or give her yours? I never pulled a chick online even tho me and her went to school together
 

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We just been on some how u been how's life type vibe nothing to serious.
Work backwards in the equation.

What is she going to say? "I was interested but he asked for my number to quickly"?

More times than not your fate was sealed before you asked for the number on or offline.
 

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there will only be a few women in life you come across, who you can tell are "different", what i mean by different is that rare women who is worthy, worthy of your time, your texts, who appreciates every little thing you do. There for you if you got a million in your account or if you are in overdraft, don't f this up because its the equivalent of losing a lottery ticket. these women add to your life not subtract, make you feel free, respect you when you encounter a broad like this you will know, don't get greedy, these are the ruths, the coretta scott kings, the esthers, the nancy reagans :kony:, the type of broad if you were to die would never marry again.
 

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I've learned this from first-hand experience, as well as observation, and to this day it may be the most powerful piece of knowledge I've ever come across in regards to dealing with females (which is saying something with all the gems dropped in here), besides just doing you and taking the best of what comes your way as a result.

If a woman really likes you and desires your presence? In general, it doesn't matter how you act, how she gets it, or none of that. If you mess around and get a woman wide open over you, you'd be hard pressed to mess it up even if you seriously tried your damnedest to do so.

yup
you can be shy and awkard drop ketchup on yourself, stutter and all that and it will be "cute".

Its the same aspect somewhat if a woman finds you attractive you can just meet her and say somethign crude and she will laugh, but if your ugly then its hell to pay
 

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Had to let the teacher go, she was looking for a comeup :childplease:. I'm dealing with 2 nurses, I got a feeling that one of the nurses might already have some other nikkaz she's dealing with, but she be talking that shyt i like to hear ::banderas:. The church going nurse is definitely playing her position and doing all the right things to make it appear that she's altogether.


Yea those teachers are lame man. Teachers dont make much money so they are always looking for the come up plus they are very busy 9 months out the year and dont have much time to chill. I'm dealing with a Nurse now :blessed:
 

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Yea those teachers are lame man. Teachers dont make much money so they are always looking for the come up plus they are very busy 9 months out the year and dont have much time to chill. I'm dealing with a Nurse now :blessed:

So far the one im talking to isnt but i can definitely see that. Guess we'll see when the school year starts. That's all I run into are teachers mostly, 8 out of 10.
 

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yup
you can be shy and awkard drop ketchup on yourself, stutter and all that and it will be "cute".

Its the same aspect somewhat if a woman finds you attractive you can just meet her and say somethign crude and she will laugh, but if your ugly then its hell to pay

Pretty much. Just about everything with a woman is contingent on how much she likes you. If she doesn't like you, then just a stare is 'creepy'. If she really digs you, then just about anything you say will have her busting out laughing, talking about, "boy you crazy."

It's amazing how powerful the simple rule of focusing on the woman who really likes you is.
 
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http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/387940/Just-Jane-Woman-I-love-cheated-with-around-20-other-guys

I’ve always accepted that she’s a private person – but now I know differently.

We’ve been talking about her moving in after going out for five years, but one of my mates said he needed to have a chat with me.

He told me that she’s cheated on me loads of times while we’ve been together.

It seems everyone knew except me – but no-one wanted to tell me the truth.

Now she is about to move in, my pal said he thought I should know.

I was absolutely broken-hearted and very angry.

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I went round to her flat and demanded she tell me the truth about what she’s been up to.

She was in total denial at first and was adamant that she had not been seeing anyone else.

And she tried to blame my pals by saying none of them liked her and they’d been trying to break us up from day one.

But I wouldn’t accept that and finally she admitted that she had cheated on me.

I thought she was going to say once or twice.

But I almost fell over when she finally admitted to sleeping with about 20 other guys during the five years she’s been with me.

She says she loves me and promises that she’ll change.

I love her too and want to believe her – but can I? She’s a great woman and I’ve always felt very happy with her.

We get on better than I have done with any other woman and sex with her is incredible. But now I’m so confused.

Would I be a total idiot to continue our plans for her to move in or should I just end our relationship now?

Bad enough dude even has to ask, but check out the first sentence in Jane's reply. :dead:
 
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