I brought it up many moons ago, I got at a female I work with and I'm trying to advance it, but I'm at the point I'ma just dead it and keep things professional. Now this shawty, is a few years older than me (I'm 23, she's 26) and a real small petite jawn. I've been wanting to smash a small female my whole life, I been dealing with thick joints and borderline gooeys mostly. Anyways, we've been texting heavy for the past month and some change and we both expressed we're into each other. However, she ain't budging on letting me smash or even going out for a drink. She's heavy into her side projects outside of work and that's understandable and attractive to me. But, I keep thinking "if she really like me, wouldn't she make time for me?"
3 things I've learned if I woman really likes you:
(1) They'll constantly hit you up
(2) They'll wanna hang out
(3)They'll let you smash
Aint none of them happen yet in this situation. I did a lil test a few weeks ago and didn't text her all day to see if she would ever hit me up on the "Why u aint text me?" tip. The plan worked, she texted me. So I'm thinking maybe she likes the attention more than she likes me. shyt is confusing. To add on to that I've felt up on her with no resistance

and she felt the wood
Also every now and then we'll be texting and she'll take our text convos sexual. shyt is crazy. Like the other day:
Me: *jokingly* Yall nikkas hiring?
Her: Yeah my company is. I'm looking for an assistant you down?
Me: What's the job description
Her: make it wet
Me; *emoji* Shiiiit when do I start
Her:ready..set.go.
Me:
(sidenote: if you got iMessage, implement them gifs into convos with females, shyt is always timely)
Lmaoooo, but anyways I got no clue about how I should proceed. I think she just likes the attention and texting during work to break up the monotony and she really ain't tryna fukk with me. I think recently, my conscious intent to tell females how I feel has spilled over into thirst territory when I'm really interested.