Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Doctors may not be attainable longterm for most, but they are short term. You swap around the stress of approaching somebody who is more intelligent and has achieved more than most for losing most of the drama you get with your average every day chick when things go bad because they in general have more class
 

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This chick that's not my girl but I been Vibing with off and on told me she fukked another nikka last month. I'm bout to hit her with the silent treatment before I decide what to do with her. I'm not to mad cause I just hit another chick Wednesday but I do feel some type of way. I might:camby:What y'all think? Y'all know we territorial she should've kept that to her self.

I lied and didn't admit to getting no puss
:laugh: just admit you mad breh

i personally wouldnt toss her for the simple fact that shes not your girl, honestly you shouldve expected her to be gettin knocked down by someone else if you 2 are on/off. And i wouldve told her im hitting something 2, what the point in lying to chicks that you aint cuffin?
 

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:laugh: just admit you mad breh

i personally wouldnt toss her for the simple fact that shes not your girl, honestly you shouldve expected her to be gettin knocked down by someone else if you 2 are on/off. And i wouldve told her im hitting something 2, what the point in lying to chicks that you aint cuffin?
true lol I'm a hit her with that cold shoulder for a couple days tho... but what kills me is she use to always tell be bout other hoes i was messing with
 

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I brought it up many moons ago, I got at a female I work with and I'm trying to advance it, but I'm at the point I'ma just dead it and keep things professional. Now this shawty, is a few years older than me (I'm 23, she's 26) and a real small petite jawn. I've been wanting to smash a small female my whole life, I been dealing with thick joints and borderline gooeys mostly. Anyways, we've been texting heavy for the past month and some change and we both expressed we're into each other. However, she ain't budging on letting me smash or even going out for a drink. She's heavy into her side projects outside of work and that's understandable and attractive to me. But, I keep thinking "if she really like me, wouldn't she make time for me?"

3 things I've learned if I woman really likes you:

(1) They'll constantly hit you up
(2) They'll wanna hang out
(3)They'll let you smash

Aint none of them happen yet in this situation. I did a lil test a few weeks ago and didn't text her all day to see if she would ever hit me up on the "Why u aint text me?" tip. The plan worked, she texted me. So I'm thinking maybe she likes the attention more than she likes me. shyt is confusing. To add on to that I've felt up on her with no resistance :patrice: and she felt the wood:sas2:

Also every now and then we'll be texting and she'll take our text convos sexual. shyt is crazy. Like the other day:

Me: *jokingly* Yall nikkas hiring?
Her: Yeah my company is. I'm looking for an assistant you down?
Me: What's the job description
Her: make it wet
Me; *emoji* Shiiiit when do I start
Her:ready..set.go.
Me:
1361358877755796323.GIF


(sidenote: if you got iMessage, implement them gifs into convos with females, shyt is always timely)

Lmaoooo, but anyways I got no clue about how I should proceed. I think she just likes the attention and texting during work to break up the monotony and she really ain't tryna fukk with me. I think recently, my conscious intent to tell females how I feel has spilled over into thirst territory when I'm really interested.
 

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I brought it up many moons ago, I got at a female I work with and I'm trying to advance it, but I'm at the point I'ma just dead it and keep things professional. Now this shawty, is a few years older than me (I'm 23, she's 26) and a real small petite jawn. I've been wanting to smash a small female my whole life, I been dealing with thick joints and borderline gooeys mostly. Anyways, we've been texting heavy for the past month and some change and we both expressed we're into each other. However, she ain't budging on letting me smash or even going out for a drink. She's heavy into her side projects outside of work and that's understandable and attractive to me. But, I keep thinking "if she really like me, wouldn't she make time for me?"

3 things I've learned if I woman really likes you:

(1) They'll constantly hit you up
(2) They'll wanna hang out
(3)They'll let you smash

Aint none of them happen yet in this situation. I did a lil test a few weeks ago and didn't text her all day to see if she would ever hit me up on the "Why u aint text me?" tip. The plan worked, she texted me. So I'm thinking maybe she likes the attention more than she likes me. shyt is confusing. To add on to that I've felt up on her with no resistance :patrice: and she felt the wood:sas2:

Also every now and then we'll be texting and she'll take our text convos sexual. shyt is crazy. Like the other day:

Me: *jokingly* Yall nikkas hiring?
Her: Yeah my company is. I'm looking for an assistant you down?
Me: What's the job description
Her: make it wet
Me; *emoji* Shiiiit when do I start
Her:ready..set.go.
Me:
1361358877755796323.GIF


(sidenote: if you got iMessage, implement them gifs into convos with females, shyt is always timely)

Lmaoooo, but anyways I got no clue about how I should proceed. I think she just likes the attention and texting during work to break up the monotony and she really ain't tryna fukk with me. I think recently, my conscious intent to tell females how I feel has spilled over into thirst territory when I'm really interested.

She playing games breh..Its obvious she has you caught on her fishing rod....

Start giving her less focus and stop playing into the sex talk
 

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she probably got someone and text u when she bored homie

Quite possibly. Or she just not feeling me as much as I think. The way I even got into gettin into deep convo with her is she recently broke up with her dude, I made it a point to tell her I don't care what they got goin on, but despite that....

..while I thought I was the one playing, I'm possibly gettin played :pachaha:

She playing games breh..Its obvious she has you caught on her fishing rod....

Start giving her less focus and stop playing into the sex talk

:salute:
Noted.
 

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Quite possibly. Or she just not feeling me as much as I think. The way I even got into gettin into deep convo with her is she recently broke up with her dude, I made it a point to tell her I don't care what they got goin on, but despite that....

..while I thought I was the one playing, I'm possibly gettin played :pachaha:



:salute:
Noted.


:upsetfavre:....Those types are the worst..They don't know if they want rebound dikk or attention
 

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I brought it up many moons ago, I got at a female I work with and I'm trying to advance it, but I'm at the point I'ma just dead it and keep things professional. Now this shawty, is a few years older than me (I'm 23, she's 26) and a real small petite jawn. I've been wanting to smash a small female my whole life, I been dealing with thick joints and borderline gooeys mostly. Anyways, we've been texting heavy for the past month and some change and we both expressed we're into each other. However, she ain't budging on letting me smash or even going out for a drink. She's heavy into her side projects outside of work and that's understandable and attractive to me. But, I keep thinking "if she really like me, wouldn't she make time for me?"

3 things I've learned if I woman really likes you:

(1) They'll constantly hit you up
(2) They'll wanna hang out
(3)They'll let you smash

Aint none of them happen yet in this situation. I did a lil test a few weeks ago and didn't text her all day to see if she would ever hit me up on the "Why u aint text me?" tip. The plan worked, she texted me. So I'm thinking maybe she likes the attention more than she likes me. shyt is confusing. To add on to that I've felt up on her with no resistance :patrice: and she felt the wood:sas2:

Also every now and then we'll be texting and she'll take our text convos sexual. shyt is crazy. Like the other day:

Me: *jokingly* Yall nikkas hiring?
Her: Yeah my company is. I'm looking for an assistant you down?
Me: What's the job description
Her: make it wet
Me; *emoji* Shiiiit when do I start
Her:ready..set.go.
Me:
1361358877755796323.GIF


(sidenote: if you got iMessage, implement them gifs into convos with females, shyt is always timely)

Lmaoooo, but anyways I got no clue about how I should proceed. I think she just likes the attention and texting during work to break up the monotony and she really ain't tryna fukk with me. I think recently, my conscious intent to tell females how I feel has spilled over into thirst territory when I'm really interested.
:snoop:
 

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she playin bruh. If you young n handsome this happens a lot with older broads around that age, at least to me. They openly simp/thirst for laughs but they don't really mean it 100. She may genuinely find you attractive but won't commit to the idea of fukkin with you cause of the age dynamic and she assumes you're handsome enough to fukk with the women you find most attractive. (chicks your age)

This means you gotta make the first move, and doing so will most definitely lower your value. To her, to her coworkers and maybe even yourself. And if she plays you then it'll be 100x worse. If you gonna stake your work reputation on p*ssy, you might as well get some quality

Personal theory, but I don't think women openly simp/thirst dudes they think they have a chance with. Women will "YASSSS" "DAMN :takedat:" "he so fine:datazz:" dudes like Chris Breezy, 2pac, Idris, lightskin dude from the mugshot and anyone else who they think they don't have a chance of meeting, much less dating. But if they meet a dude IRL who's as attractive and into her she's gonna put on her:hmm: poker face and play hard to get. I guess nobody wants to start off as the simp in the relationship, male or female.

If she is really sprung and bout it she'll flirt in a less overt but more forward way.

For example I had a older woman coworker flirt with me but never escalate like she does you. I also had a coworker who was into me and was really bout the bullshyt. The former flirted on the clock and that was about it. The latter came up to me one day and asked me "are you going to take me home when i get off? :queen:"

You'll know the difference.
this dude knows. when a chick is that open and blatant with it, it gets tricky. it's a form of attention whoring. if she really wanted to fukk she would move different. all she wants is for dude to flirt back with her so she can get the attention from the cute younger guy. doesn't mean he couldn't fukk. but ironically, it would probably be trickier than fukking a chick who doesn't flirt as much.
 

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look for true cooperation from these chicks. fukk her excuses. anything other than a green light is a red light. if a chick tells you "I'm feeling you but with school/work/family/whatever she chooses to put in there..." you already know she just wants the attention.
 

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Very true...but when they're RUDE, that is when all bets are off. I will cuss a bih out; it's one thing to not be interested, but don't try and break fly ho....
If a bytch is rude to a respectful STRANGER then she's got way bigger issues and you're dodging a bullet.

If I holla at a female and she's disrespectful off GP to someone who she has never met her in life then I look at her like she's got a head growing out her ass. That's one miserable mf
 

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Had to let the teacher go, she was looking for a comeup :childplease:. I'm dealing with 2 nurses, I got a feeling that one of the nurses might already have some other nikkaz she's dealing with, but she be talking that shyt i like to hear ::banderas:. The church going nurse is definitely playing her position and doing all the right things to make it appear that she's altogether.
 
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