lurkandmurk
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I'm gonna be 20 this Sat, b. Happy early birthday
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I'm gonna be 20 this Sat, b. Happy early birthday
I'm trying to get her in the crib tomorrow. She has no class in between 2-7 and he school down the street from me.
with the right woman, there will definitely be less game playing. you just need to understand that everyone acts in [what they believe to be] their best interest, so there's always going to be situations where one tries to establish some sort of advantage over the other. also, if we are to believe that there is only one person out there for us, then your daily interactions are with females who will not stand the test of time, why give them such free reign over your well-being and such? the things laid out here for the most part help to establish a code that allows you as a man to be very level-headed about your interactions with women so that you're in the best position to A) find the right woman 2) manage not to be undone by the wrong ones
are you married breh?
I believe in life there are a few people who you fit like a damn puzzle piece with, some puzzle pieces may fade, or break after a while but you may find one that lasts a good while. The thing is imo, stop trying so hard to squeeze them puzzle pieces together that don't fit, your just wasting your time etc.
if you have to ponder what do i do next, ponder how does she feel about me, have to play games with all these levels, fight off 100 other nukkaz, her lifestyle bothers you just say screw it.
if you have to ponder what do i do next, ponder how does she feel about me, have to play games with all these levels, fight off 100 other nukkaz, her lifestyle bothers you just say screw it.
The less you focus on women and the less you try to mold yourself into some fantasy concoction of what women want, the better off you will be.
You also need to realize the fact that for that one woman that you are pulling all of these stunts for trying to 'win her over', trying to come with the perfect conversation, there's another dude out there who has to do nothing but text here 'come through', and she's gone. You need to be THAT dude. If you got to put in all this work, you're playing the game wrong.
Honestly, the times are getting too rough for ya'll to be over here screwing around in life. You better get your job skills up and be extremely competent. Those women ain't going nowhere. Stack your bread and get your passport as well.
You also need to realize the fact that for that one woman that you are pulling all of these stunts for trying to 'win her over', trying to come with the perfect conversation, there's another dude out there who has to do nothing but text here 'come through', and she's gone. You need to be THAT dude. If you got to put in all this work, you're playing the game wrong.
Honestly, the times are getting too rough for ya'll to be over here screwing around in life. You better get your job skills up and be extremely competent. Those women ain't going nowhere. Stack your bread and get your passport as well.
Way too much work for a p*ssy she won't let you smash when you fukked up the first TimeI posted this in the other oblivious to chicks thread.
Man I feel like I'm catching a L right now with this chick that's been THROWING it at me for years.
I met this chick a couple of years ago at a party, a friend of my EX so to speak. We exchange numbers and I start talking to her a few months later heavy since she didn't have a cell phone at the time and she lost my number because she had to write it on something. So anyway she was on my dikk heavy. Calling me every day, texting me all the time you know. So I'd invite her to the crib to come chill and after like the third time we made out in the room while watching Netflix. This happens a few more times but everytime I go for it she moves my hand away which I'm guessing is because she's scared or something. She usually would come over right after work so she'd still be dressed up in her work clothes so she wasn't in the best condition but
Fast forward about a year and change later and we spoke from time to time but me losing interest kind of did that. Now recently as of a month or so ago my birthday was coming up so she was pretty much talking to me a lot like before. She'd come over and chill and the first time nothing happened because my EX was at my house downstairs and I guess she was nervous or something.
The next time she came over we watched IP Man 3 and after the movie was done she was in my room just all giddy and shyt but she was on her period I believe because a few days earlier it was my birthday and I was making out with her in my car and when I started feeling on her I felt her pad. I assumed she was on her period still and plus I didn't have any condoms that day so i felt like it wasn't good time to get blue balls.
So anyway while she in my room she stood up and was looking at herself in the mirror and then me sitting on the floor against the bed, she sits down on me missionary style but she isn't all the up on my lap she's like on my knees close to my thigh. She's just playing poking me and play fighting and all I did was play back.She then gets up and lays on the floor on her back and she's like "Pick me up
". I start trying to but stopped like "
She still talks to me but it feels less frequent. She did start going back to school but it seems like she don't really text me as much and usually she'd keep asking me if we cool as friends and what do I want from her. I keep telling her let's just be friends and take it from there but then she start playing with me talking bout "Well I'm gonna tell this boy 'Yes'". I'm like yes for what? She's like Yes to be his boyfriend. Now I'm thinkingbecause she's been constantly asking me if we could ever be bf/gf in the future but I always side step the question.
Usually when I give her that ambiguous answer she'd be like "Yea it might not be good for us, yea I don't care let's just be friends then." answer but it felt more reactionary.
Now the other day I was texting her asking if she was gonna be in my house later that night because I left her at my house with my ex and my cousin(they're all friends.) Btw my EX actually lives in my house currently because she's not with her BF anymore and her pops in another state atm. I live in a three story house so the 2nd floor she sleeps with my aunt and her daughter(my cousin.) Anyway that day I texted her asking if she's still gonna be around when I get back she said she don't know. Then she said something like She don't want to get closer to me anymore". Then i said "Okay now you're talking." and then she said "Yup we just friends."
Now I got mad as hell and didn't really reply back but I thought to myself all the times before I was messing with her we were "friends" but still. I feel like she's starting to lose interest. reason being is that I just don't "feel" her interest is as heavy anymore. I can't tell if it's because of her now taking classes and being busy all day but before she used to go to school and work and she'd still hit me up but lately the past week she hasn't been hitting me up as often. It usually felt like I'd hit her up.
I'm gonna try to go see her tonight but usually she only ends up coming in the car and chills there since she's in front of her house and she has to wake up early for school. I usually drive by her street on my way home so I usually just call her and tell her to come outside and she'd come out and sit in the car with me for a while.
Man I can't even form a coherent post right now my mind is all over the place.
And stop giving her rides
I just want to say stop falling for sob stories from women.
nahhh. no rush either. this. it's funny how in convo or on social media, many women have a laundry list of characteristics a guy needs to have to even breathe their air, when in reality she's dealing with derrick who just got out from serving 2 1/2.
i voted for obama twice and while i def wasn't voting for some of the other candidates, i pretty much knew that he was the one i was selecting. all he had to do was not come out on some homocidal shyt and he had my vote. even his little hiccups, i let slide and continued to support. it's like that when you're dealing with someone you just like above all else. it's not a rational thing at all.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
So breha, my ex chick who would never hit me up unless I hit her first been hitting me up occasionally the past 2 months.
Last week she hit my phone calling me hun and saying she miss talking to me.
Yesterday she said the same thing and I said I KNOW. She put HUH I said YOU TOLD ME LAST WEEK.
She put a sadface smiley and said nevermind and I stopped texting.
What yall think is going on?
Hoe I heard you last week when you said you miss talking to me.
@Emperor_ReinScarf @Jahmal
Last week she hit my phone calling me hun and saying she miss talking to me.
Yesterday she said the same thing and I said I KNOW. She put HUH I said YOU TOLD ME LAST WEEK.
She put a sadface smiley and said nevermind and I stopped texting.
What yall think is going on?
Hoe I heard you last week when you said you miss talking to me.
@Emperor_ReinScarf @Jahmal
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
I already knew who the user was that you replied to.
Breh steady chasing after a broad who clearly aint as interested as he is.
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
One thing i will add which might seem kinda contradictory at first is that you should take some time off and actually talk/listen to some of these goofy broads. Not so much so you can smash etc but just so you can realize how ILLOGICAL they are. Like i didn't truly appreciate Kevm's/Turbulent/Crossbones/Emp Reincar's gems till i took like a hour or two a week to just sit down and ask these broads general info, get them talking about sex etc without expectations/judgement. shyt is ENLIGHTENING!! The amount of contradictory statements/ideas/thoughts etc would drive a sane man crazy. But for me it serves as my many moments of clarity when i feel like i am about to make a bad decision female wise, hearing all those goofy ideas from the females sobers me up quick 
. And the crazy thing right after these conversations, i tend to more focused on working on myself/ achieving my goals!! its helped me reinforce the idea that females we are chasing out here and not worth chasing.
. And the crazy thing right after these conversations, i tend to more focused on working on myself/ achieving my goals!! its helped me reinforce the idea that females we are chasing out here and not worth chasing.One thing i will add which might seem kinda contradictory at first is that you should take some time off and actually talk/listen to some of these goofy broads. Not so much so you can smash etc but just so you can realize how ILLOGICAL they are. Like i didn't truly appreciate Kevm's/Turbulent/Crossbones/Emp Reincar's gems till i took like a hour or two a week to just sit down and ask these broads general info, get them talking about sex etc without expectations/judgement. shyt is ENLIGHTENING!! The amount of contradictory statements/ideas/thoughts etc would drive a sane man crazy. But for me it serves as my many moments of clarity when i feel like i am about to make a bad decision female wise, hearing all those goofy ideas from the females sobers me up quick
Exactly bruh, we say what we say for a reason. Women say they want one thing, but respond to something completely different. They'll say they are cool with a 50/50 dude, but for some odd reason they never end up with one.
Reason we say keep working on yourself is because after all the effort you put into these females, what did you end up with? You might have had a little fun, but after that what is there? As you notice, a lot of it is pure madness.
On the other hand, stacking your money, you can now take trips and travel the world and essentially position yourself to where you can retire early by not spending money on stupid things. A lot of people talk about how we're bitter, but the ones that are actually bitter are the ones who DIDN'T heed the advice we're kicking. Assess a woman's character before you deal with her.
There was just a thread on here about a fella who is dealing with a crazy baby momma trying to tax him for as much as she can get, but she won't let him see his kid... and the sad thing is if you get one of the wrong ones pregnant, you will have to deal with her antics for the next EIGHTEEN YEARS if not the rest of your life. THAT's the dude that will end up bitter... knowing that if he doesn't come up with his payments, he can go to jail.