maybe she should date her friend then
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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Women judge men all the time, he's short or tall, his hair , his job, his car, his clothes. Yet the moment a man judges a woman life say her sedual history he's suppose to let it go.
There is nothing worse to me than a woman who gives her most private commodity her vagina away like that. The more sexual partners the easiness in which she gives up her body ties into your dealings with Her
There is nothing worse to me than a woman who gives her most private commodity her vagina away like that. The more sexual partners the easiness in which she gives up her body ties into your dealings with Her
Jone2three45
Superstar
Absolutely.
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
maybe she should date her friend then
:patricenah: I mean he's got/getting the milk for free
why should he pay for the cow 
lurkandmurk
The Bull
Brehs it's not just the fact they will cheat, try and friend up these women and they will laugh behind your back
They think you tryna try that simp shyt when you really actually just wana chill with someone coo
This why I need more people that respect me for being me, instead of trying to make connections with people who only talk down. Especially women. They will disrespect you off the strength of giving them the time of day.
EDIT: Went to page 540 and it's explained perfectly by @kevm3
I wouldn't put female friends anywhere near the level of my real road dawgs who I've known for years, but they can be cool for conversation and just chilling with every now and then. You can even tell them to hook you up with one of their friends. Where a man will get it messed up is thinking they will operate on that same level as their down and dirty potnas. J.B. is right. They are usually girls you weren't feeling that much but they had a cool personality.
These are ssually women who you disqualified in some way or the other or were restricted from messing with on that other level, but they are mad cool. The thing with female friends is you got to keep your eye on them. If it's one of those women that are constantly asking for favors and keeps on escalating, you've got to let her go. If she asks you some disrespectful type stuff like calling at 2 in the morning to pick her up from the club or drop her off at some guy's house, you got to cut that kind off too. Those type of women don't respect you, but see you as some kind of simp.
They are more like 'associates' that you kick it with every now and then and enjoy a cool conversation with than your real ones that you chill with every day.
They think you tryna try that simp shyt when you really actually just wana chill with someone coo
This why I need more people that respect me for being me, instead of trying to make connections with people who only talk down. Especially women. They will disrespect you off the strength of giving them the time of day.
EDIT: Went to page 540 and it's explained perfectly by @kevm3
I wouldn't put female friends anywhere near the level of my real road dawgs who I've known for years, but they can be cool for conversation and just chilling with every now and then. You can even tell them to hook you up with one of their friends. Where a man will get it messed up is thinking they will operate on that same level as their down and dirty potnas. J.B. is right. They are usually girls you weren't feeling that much but they had a cool personality.
These are ssually women who you disqualified in some way or the other or were restricted from messing with on that other level, but they are mad cool. The thing with female friends is you got to keep your eye on them. If it's one of those women that are constantly asking for favors and keeps on escalating, you've got to let her go. If she asks you some disrespectful type stuff like calling at 2 in the morning to pick her up from the club or drop her off at some guy's house, you got to cut that kind off too. Those type of women don't respect you, but see you as some kind of simp.
They are more like 'associates' that you kick it with every now and then and enjoy a cool conversation with than your real ones that you chill with every day.
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Mordith
H.E.N.R.Y.
So I'm talking to this chick,
Nothing serious but she wants to go out on a date.
Our conversations gets deeper as days go by.
She slipped up and told me that she slept with her friend, had unprotected sex with him and he came inside of her. They are still friends and talk everyday. I gave her thelook. She then said I was being honest with you and your judging me? He's my friend, so what if we had unprotected sex?! I was on the pill! it's college life, get over it.
To the bushes she goes
What I don't get is why you care about what a single chick that your aren't serious with did with another dude?
Jone2three45
Superstar
I try not to build with women who have a sexual relationship with their friends that they still keep in contact with
Mordith
H.E.N.R.Y.
I try not to build with women who have a sexual relationship with their friends that they still keep in contact with
If you are comfortable living with a defeatist mentality.....
Kasual Konfidence
Keep it Kasul
can you be too straightforward with a chick
Erase that thought breh, not even with ya main bytch 
2 Up 2 Down
Veteran
Yeah that's just a messy situation.I try not to build with women who have a sexual relationship with their friends that they still keep in contact with
2 Up 2 Down
Veteran
I could've used this thread about six years ago
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
You guys are spitting the truth. I have a story that relates to this about something that happened recently.
Basically, during school I met a girl named ... lets just say Rosie. I've graduated this year and she has two years left. Outside of school she lives about 45 mins easy of my city. After a while of getting to know me she really started feeling me and I was feeling her a little to. She made her feelings known and Ialthough she has some good qualities (mainly physical) i concluded that because of her religion, my busyness with school, and my general propensity to make sure I know a girl is worth it before I commit I decided to sag off. I'm Catholic but not overly religious and she used to basically comment about how she feels she HAS to marry a muslim man (so why waste my time right?) On top of that she is a virgin and while I have no problem with that I'm not sacrificing p*ssy for a relationship unless I KNOW she is worth it. And you can almost never know but I digress.
So there are two chapters to this story and those reading will have to bear with me. I broke my ankle about five weeks ago and the first chapter was her hitting me up while I was taking time off work just to catch up and what not. She started asking questions about my love life and what not saying she has a right to know as my "friend". I cut that out and told her if she had some boy issues she wanted to ask me about then she can go ahead. After all I had nothing better to do cause I was crippled and home alone. Like @EQ. alluded I like to get to know about how girls think and listen to their BS sometimes. So she called and we spoke about it and this relates to what EQ and @kevm3 said about the irrationality/contradictions/delusion these women have. Essentially the story was about getting hooked up with some dude through one of her guy friends that goes to our university. She thought he was cute and they started DMing over twitter but she was worried why he hasnt asked for the number over Twitter and has become distant. Furthermore she told me that she had seen pics of him with another girl in his Twitter display pic/IG/snapchat or some combo of those. The friend that hooked it up said that he kinda sagged off because he felt that she wanted something serious. She asked her friends and they were telling her stuff like, "take long to reply to him" and other foolery.
I know this girl and know shes one of those fairy tale minded chicks. She wants to marry when shes like 23 (shes 20 years old now) and doesnt like the dating game. She wants a serious relationship NOW. So I tell this girl "He apparently doesnt want something serious and here you are still worrying about him and trying to play SMS games so that hell try to pursue you harder? Whats the point of that? If you guys have different mindsets then hes not right for you and you should leave him alone." I break it down further and she sees where I'm coming from. Something so simple yet she couldnt see it
So after a while, day or so later this girl asks when I'm going to take her out cause I guess she's feeling me again. I know shes kinda joking and usually I wouldat that time of comment but again I'm bored at home with a broken ankle so I entertain it for fun. I say I have a broken ankle remember...but if you are willing to come to my city (she drives) then perhaps, otherwise when I heal. She says I must meet her halfway and not let a broken ankle keep me from seeing her. I say "Youre underestimating how hard it is to navigate with crutches/a broken ankle. After all I didnt take 2 weeks off work (in an office at that) for no reason." The implication is im in pain and I'm thinking is this bytch serious
So she says something like, "oh well" and I keep it moving. 3 or so weeks later she brings it up again and I am at work reading like, "this girl was actually serious?" I repeat what I said and proceed to distance my self from this bird as a whole cause I'm sensing some serious entitlement and selfishness. 5 days later apparently, she messages me asking why we havent spoke. Rather than ignore her, out of respect I basically show her why I naturally "fell back" and of course she marginalizes the issue. Instead of seeing how it may make her look selfish and like a bytch she thinks I simply stopped talking to her cause I said to meet her halfway
she arab?