Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[winb83]

yeah but there are millions of guys who don't have car, their own place and only $300 in their pocket and they are now fukking somebody as we speak

what kinda quality is a man of those means gonna attract and how long could he possibly keep her interested in him if he himself has nothing to offer?

for the most part a woman won't date a man that's beneath her and if she does it won't last long. women want men of equal or better status to upgrade them.

if you're just in this thing to get ass i guess that's cool but if you wanna have any real control or power you're better off developing yourself so i guess that all depends on what your goal is. i don't really define getting ass as winning cause dusty nikkas can get ass.

 

[MikelArteta]

its needed breh. like i said i cant do shyt right now cause I dont have it.

last weekend a chick wanted me to reach her crib at 10:30....dad wouldnt let me use his whip though . Said my license doesnt allow me to drive past midnight (which is a lie because i am above age 19 ).

Man cockblocked me hard. Girl will probably never look at me the same like the rest of em for this reason. I live in Brampton though breh. Just work in TO

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[MikelArteta]

its just certain things you need to have before you step foot in the game:

you really need your own spot this is maybe the easiest handicap to over come but telling a woman you live with someone else is not the business. especially if she has her own place then she's just gonna look down on you so to me your own spot is a must.

you need to have a car. this is non-negotiable. if you don't have a car you can't get around at will and everything falls apart. it really needs to be your car that you fully 100% control. not your momma's car or your daddy's car or any relative's car or friend's car but yours. if you don't have a car stay outta the game and work on getting one.

you need to have a job and have your money right. if you don't meet those two standards then you really got bigger fish to fry than trying to holla at women. fix your life then worry about women. not having a job and not having your money right is gonna fukk with your confidence.

you need to have a life. things to do with your time other than chase tail. gym, friends, hobbies whatever but have something you do with your free time that keeps you busy. if not all your idle time is gonna be consumed chasing tail and it will show. your life also needs to have a self defined achievable measurable purpose. a goal you're actively pursuing that is something nothing in this world will deviate you from. when women come your way and try to distract you from this you don't budge. maybe its to get out of debt, get in better shape, start your own business but pick something and focus on it intensely.

you need to be 100% fully comfortable with yourself. whatever you don't like about you fix it if you can and if you can't learn to accept it. one of the things women do instinctively is seek out any weaknesses of the men they deal with and later down the line use those against him. if you're fat and uncomfortable about it get in shape. if you're short and uncomfortable get over it. if you're broke get your paper up and do these things before you start on the path to going after women. shore up and fixable weaknesses.

you need to develop leadership qualities including a code, principals, a sense of integrity, and the ability to make a decision on the fly and stick with it. never break your code never doubt yourself either make decisions and go with them and don't look back. God made the first woman to support the first man. that means they weren't designed or intended to be leaders. women will try to lead just to challenge you and make sure you're a true leader. if you fail the test you're done.

you need to learn to check your ego and control yourself and your emotions. your ego doesn't belong in the game period. your ego seeks to make everything about you and will lead you down the wrong path. emotions do not care what's best for you they only care about satisfying their own single minded primal urges regardless of what the actions that bring that about will do to you in the process. as for self control always maintain your composure regardless of what you're facing.

these are things that i feel are key. some more important than others but if you don't have these items and skills and you try to deal with women you're probably gonna end up getting played, fukked over, simped out, or hurt. if you don't have these tings then you got work to do that's more important than getting at females so stop doing that and start working on yourself. if you're the kinda guy that has all that going for you the game is different and much better to you than if you're the kind of guy that doesn't. honestly i decided to take a break from the game while i work on some of that shyt. i actually came up with that list from looking at all the people in my life i knew that were very successful with women and the things and traits they had.

nice list but you don't need your own spot or a car.


let me broaden this some more, i stated this earlier in the thread there is zero reason at all why a chick should ever be over at your place, i don't allow anyone to know where I live.

Even back in teh days when i as smashing chicks left and right it was at their place or 50/50 at a hotel.

I live in a city where the avg rent for a decent 1bdrm apart is over 1,000 a month, you think i'ma live that life because of what some random broads think? nah i'm going to live at home house sitting in a 4,000 sq foot million dollar house, i've always lived at home and have never ever had a problem


Secondly a car if you live in a big city with transit is not needed. a car is a luxury same is having your own place to stay that you shouldn't get in the game without the two is

i'm 27 , i never got a car till i was 24 and i've never had a problem with the game, i mean if you live in bumble@$3 idaho then yeah you need a car if you live in a city with transit and subway systems then


everythign else i agree with

 

[winb83]

nice list but you don't need your own spot or a car.


let me broaden this some more, i stated this earlier in the thread there is zero reason at all why a chick should ever be over at your place, i don't allow anyone to know where I live.

Even back in teh days when i as smashing chicks left and right it was at their place or 50/50 at a hotel.

I live in a city where the avg rent for a decent 1bdrm apart is over 1,000 a month, you think i'ma live that life because of what some random broads think? nah i'm going to live at home house sitting in a 4,000 sq foot million dollar house, i've always lived at home and have never ever had a problem


Secondly a car if you live in a big city with transit is not needed. a car is a luxury same is having your own place to stay that you shouldn't get in the game without the two is

i'm 27 , i never got a car till i was 24 and i've never had a problem with the game, i mean if you live in bumble@$3 idaho then yeah you need a car if you live in a city with transit and subway systems then


everythign else i agree with

to me your own car and spot are measures of independence. if i got my own car i can get up and go wherever i want whenever i want with no reliance on anyone or anything else. a car doesn't even have to be that expensive. its teenagers out here that get part time jobs and save up to buy cars. most people if given the choice would rather have your own car.


no i wouldn't think you'd have your own spot because of a woman. most people want their own place because it's theirs with me i'd rather live in a 1br 900 square foot apartment that's mine than live in my parents place. that's why i moved out. their place is far better than my apartment but my apartment is mine and their place isn't.

in that respect we're just totally different. i'm pushing 30 i can't be living with them. they let me stay there rent free and i chose to pay rent and get my own spot cause that's part of growing up. you reach a certain age and you strike it out on your own and walk your own path.

personally if you don't have your own place and your own car i feel like you got more important things you could be doing with your life to improve it than chase tail. once you reach the income level where those things are easy to obtain a person would naturally gravitate to having both anyway so instead of chasing tail chase money ultimately the tail will follow anyway.

 

[Nintendough]

So I'd say she's probably just missing the attention.

Most women don't like to have a simp leave the team on their own terms. Learn from the simp mistakes so you wont have to be in this position again.

 

[sixsixtwo]

"I was the guy that said he would probably never get married.
I also said I wouldn't be that guy who got married, b/c I didn't want to be that guy who is married and spends his time with his friends complaining about being married.

But, I have failed on both counts.

I was that guy who never wanted to get married, and now I've become that guy who is married and most of his free time makes it sounds like he wishes he wasn't.

Don't be that guy.
It sucks.

Don't get married.
It sucks.

At best, it's a monotonous routine of buying shyt b/c women think shyt will make them happy.
At worst, she's miserable b/c she doesn't pursue any pursuits or hobbies or passions, and she resents your newfound reliability and mild-mannered existence and blames you and/or your kids for her own lack of meaningful existence and life.


Get married. Have kids. Buy House. Or Buy house then have kids. Then buy a bigger van or station wagon. Then start finding a good school for the kids.
Then save for college.
Then kids go to college and you divorce b/c you don't have anything to talk about other than this person you worked somewhat together to raise.

It sucks. Or it's okay if you never had any lifelong passion or goal in mind.
Or if you're some guy that never did well with women and her tossing you some tepid missionary sex is a "win" in your book.

Otherwise, do your thing. It's on your terms or not at all. Never be afraid of her leaving. Know that if the time comes, you will fukking leave with nothing but the shirt on your back and start over.
Fear is what keeps people trapped. Fear of the unknown. Fear of the wilderness. Of the darkness.

How many world champions tell a story like "and then I just packed everything into my van and moved. I slept in my van for 2 years and trained or worked or did whatever every day."
You want what others don't have? You will have to suffer like others are unwilling to suffer.

Fear is a prison. Your mind is a prison. B/c your mind and your body fear pain. They fear hunger. They fear uncertainty. They fear many things.

Let go of that fear and endure hardship. You will be stronger for it.
Sometimes losing your job can be the single best thing that can happen to you. It forces you to go back to school. To move. To cut expenses. To cut back the drinking. To decide what the fukk is really important to you.

I know what's important to me. And I know that I'm willing to start over with nothing in order to pursue it.
Which as soon as I take care of a few loose ends over the next few months, by next year, that's what I will be doing.

You're NEVER trapped so long as you're willing to leave everything and start over from scratch.

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. fukk them. They are trapped. They are afraid.
You don't have to be. Their limiting beliefs are not yours."

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[mbewane]

Subs for later cause obviously doing something wrong

 

[winb83]

"I was the guy that said he would probably never get married.
I also said I wouldn't be that guy who got married, b/c I didn't want to be that guy who is married and spends his time with his friends complaining about being married.

But, I have failed on both counts.

I was that guy who never wanted to get married, and now I've become that guy who is married and most of his free time makes it sounds like he wishes he wasn't.

Don't be that guy.
It sucks.

Don't get married.
It sucks.

At best, it's a monotonous routine of buying shyt b/c women think shyt will make them happy.
At worst, she's miserable b/c she doesn't pursue any pursuits or hobbies or passions, and she resents your newfound reliability and mild-mannered existence and blames you and/or your kids for her own lack of meaningful existence and life.


Get married. Have kids. Buy House. Or Buy house then have kids. Then buy a bigger van or station wagon. Then start finding a good school for the kids.
Then save for college.
Then kids go to college and you divorce b/c you don't have anything to talk about other than this person you worked somewhat together to raise.

It sucks. Or it's okay if you never had any lifelong passion or goal in mind.
Or if you're some guy that never did well with women and her tossing you some tepid missionary sex is a "win" in your book.

Otherwise, do your thing. It's on your terms or not at all. Never be afraid of her leaving. Know that if the time comes, you will fukking leave with nothing but the shirt on your back and start over.
Fear is what keeps people trapped. Fear of the unknown. Fear of the wilderness. Of the darkness.

How many world champions tell a story like "and then I just packed everything into my van and moved. I slept in my van for 2 years and trained or worked or did whatever every day."
You want what others don't have? You will have to suffer like others are unwilling to suffer.

Fear is a prison. Your mind is a prison. B/c your mind and your body fear pain. They fear hunger. They fear uncertainty. They fear many things.

Let go of that fear and endure hardship. You will be stronger for it.
Sometimes losing your job can be the single best thing that can happen to you. It forces you to go back to school. To move. To cut expenses. To cut back the drinking. To decide what the fukk is really important to you.

I know what's important to me. And I know that I'm willing to start over with nothing in order to pursue it.
Which as soon as I take care of a few loose ends over the next few months, by next year, that's what I will be doing.

You're NEVER trapped so long as you're willing to leave everything and start over from scratch.

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. fukk them. They are trapped. They are afraid.
You don't have to be. Their limiting beliefs are not yours."

Modern society in this country has transformed marriage into a prison for men. A life of servitude and bondage to the whims of another. If the marriage is win lose for the man and win win for the woman.

As a man you're more than likely gonna be the bread winner so in the divorce they'll split all the assets that you worked your ass off to get.

she could possibly be a stay at home rearing the kids and spending your money on bs and one day she's bored or whatever and decides to leave because there's no real penalty she's facing. She gets to leave with far more than she brought in and more than she put in and you get to have shyt taken from you.

at best the win of marriage is a life of servitude. She gets to live her dream of having kids and rearing them and on somebody else's dime and you get to work your ass off to keep her happy. To provide for the kids at different stages in their lives until they hit that awkward teen phase and resent you then you get to deal with that till the college years where you'll possibly be taken for grands to help fund their education and get them a piece of paper that no longer mean much.

all the while hanging over your head is the fact that if it fails the shyt you worked your ass off to build will be stripped away by a third party court system.

was that the marriage God built for Adam and Eve? Or is it this is a man made mutation if a concept God designed? i don't hate marriage i more or less hate what the legal system has transformed marriage into. what's the point of marriage for a man when facing the losses the legal system forces men to face?

 

[kevm3]

Marriage nowadays is something decimated by feminists and this modern culture of promiscuity. There used to not be 'no fault divorces' and things such as cheating and getting divorced were actually looked down upon. Was marriage perfect? By no means... but what marriage is now in modern society is way different than what it was even a generation ago.

 

[winb83]

Marriage nowadays is something decimated by feminists and this modern culture of promiscuity. There used to not be 'no fault divorces' and things such as cheating and getting divorced were actually looked down upon. Was marriage perfect? By no means... but what marriage is now in modern society is way different than what it was even a generation ago.

they need to get rid of no-fault divorce its dumb. your wife cheats on you then decides to leave and you gotta pay her?

 

[kevm3]

Yea, no fault divorce is pretty disgusting. Society was actually reengineered to make marriages fail and to destroy the family system. Women of pats generations were actually different as well. With this modern brainwashing, women actually attempt to take on the characteristics of men while men are taught to embody feminine characteristics. Back then men were to be the breadwinners and females were taught to be the support role of the home with the cooking, cleaning and looking up to her man. What we have to DEMAND in this day and age was actually the norm...

 

[HabitualLineSteppa]

Brehs I got a story to tell...

The shyt that I'm hearing on the other end of my horn right now is on some shyt but then again, it's nothing I haven't heard before...

In short, this chick I been choppin with for a few months (no title, no commitment, just kick it, good convo, free meals for me, and some kicks (again for me) )

In the last 15 minutes shorty has told me the following:

-She was pregnant by my best female friend's ex (who also impregnated her...potna had a miscarriage, shorty terminated)

-Her body count is 30+ (shorty is a 7.5 so I can understand the fukkablility factor but )

-She's had 4 abortions...

-she was drugged and raped by her bd (I googled it, homie is doing a 20 year big )


Alright, so she's 29 now and about to enter law school () but her levels of real life in the past is on levels....

Decent chick now but her past is so checkered, I'm wanting to not even communicate with this broad at this point....


She's mad cool now but whenever we chop about her past I'm always left with the face

 

[Nintendough]

at the that story you posted. I can only imagine how many miles some of these women in their late 20's have.

 

[blatantlyobvious]

Brehs I got a story to tell...

The shyt that I'm hearing on the other end of my horn right now is on some shyt but then again, it's nothing I haven't heard before...

In short, this chick I been choppin with for a few months (no title, no commitment, just kick it, good convo, free meals for me, and some kicks (again for me) )

In the last 15 minutes shorty has told me the following:

-She was pregnant by my best female friend's ex (who also impregnated her...potna had a miscarriage, shorty terminated)

-Her body count is 30+ (shorty is a 7.5 so I can understand the fukkablility factor but )

-She's had 4 abortions...

-she was drugged and raped by her bd (I googled it, homie is doing a 20 year big )


Alright, so she's 29 now and about to enter law school () but her levels of real life in the past is on levels....

Decent chick now but her past is so checkered, I'm wanting to not even communicate with this broad at this point....


She's mad cool now but whenever we chop about her past I'm always left with the face

Holy shyt. She's had four abortions and a body count of more than 30 different sexual partners. Dude, cool or not, she's a health hazzard. She's screaming out "I have/had multiple STI". You'd be a fool to continue fukking her (if you're fukking her). I'm not opposed to befriending hoes, but I do not condone reckless conduct of any STI infected person (including the HIV/AIDS virus). Just tell her to get tested, check her viral load and count her t-cells. She seems down bad.

 

[blatantlyobvious]

Yea, no fault divorce is pretty disgusting. Society was actually reengineered to make marriages fail and to destroy the family system. Women of pats generations were actually different as well. With this modern brainwashing, women actually attempt to take on the characteristics of men while men are taught to embody feminine characteristics. Back then men were to be the breadwinners and females were taught to be the support role of the home with the cooking, cleaning and looking up to her man. What we have to DEMAND in this day and age was actually the norm...

The leading cause of DIVORCE is MARRIAGE!