youngtriniboss
Rookie
Sub
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
- Start date
its always mindblown a woman you are feeling and she was feeling you goes quiet and distant all of a sudden, look at the distant/silence as your key to get out.
Don't be that simp thinking maybe she's just busy etc. thats you thinking with your emotions and not logic.
I'm great at picking up the signs through all my life experiences.
Don't be that simp thinking maybe she's just busy etc. thats you thinking with your emotions and not logic.
I'm great at picking up the signs through all my life experiences.
We all fall victim to keeping certain females around longer than they should have. I definitely am better at it these days. I'll know after date 1 if I want to even keep you in my phone.
people would rather make up excuses and alibis for the object of their infatuation (no matter how nonsensical) it is then let their ego get bruised. it's like we can't accept that maybe she just doesn't respect you enough to actually keep it real with you. making up excuses for her seems less painful.
the older i get, the more i go with what people do. the less i try to guess why they did it or to read their thoughts, the happier i am. the why is her business. her thoughts are her business. the best is to just watch her actions, instruct her on what you want and let her choose if she wants to be the one who fulfills your wants. if she dips, i'm not even trying to find out why anymore.
Youseenmywork
KING
Much of our difficilty in developing and sustaining personal relationships resides in our failure to recognize, in ourselves as well as in others, those personality characteristics that make someone a poor candidate for a committed relationship -Gordon Livingston, M.D.
great points, see this is where that pua crap comes in the ol "how to win her back", "how to use game to draw her interest levels back up" crap they spi.
thats why i say screw that ish
Youseenmywork
KING
sigh Turbulent said somereal shyt. dudes just be lonely sometimes
thats the sad thing somewhat, you talk to a bunch of girls think you got a good one become exlcusive or whatever she gets distant suddenly because you have no one you start to comeon strong start to simp, chicks can just click thier fingers and have 50 vultures around em.
football is back so
i need them eagles back brehthats the sad thing somewhat, you talk to a bunch of girls think you got a good one become exlcusive or whatever she gets distant suddenly because you have no one you start to comeon strong start to simp, chicks can just click thier fingers and have 50 vultures around em.
football is back so
i need them eagles back breh
once football comes back it consumes me like most of the week so i could cae less about women
once football/basketball/hockey are back even better
Hope yall doing okay. Haven't been in this thread active in a minute.
I used all the advice, been with my girl for a while now, getting myself better as a person too ...
At the end of the day nothing is better than your own happiness, I think that's the best advice you can give someone if you could give one piece of advice
If you're making yourself unhappy to make your girl or prospective girl happy you need to reevaluate. If you're happy then it'll click and it'll be a good match.
I used all the advice, been with my girl for a while now, getting myself better as a person too ...
At the end of the day nothing is better than your own happiness, I think that's the best advice you can give someone if you could give one piece of advice
If you're making yourself unhappy to make your girl or prospective girl happy you need to reevaluate. If you're happy then it'll click and it'll be a good match.
http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-Not-Attracted-To-My-Husband/2223631
"I understand completely. I've been married 35 years, met when we were in college. Get along beautifully and are the best of friends. He's tender, caring, sweet, smart, but...doesn't turn me on. There is someone else who does but unfortunately he possesses fewer of the good qualities of my husband except for that all important issue of physical attraction.
What to do? I've decided to take the seemingly unwise and unpopular plunge toward life with the new guy, risking stability, assured good treatment, intellectual compatibility, and mutual respect. I hope it works. I love both of them. Whoever gets turned on by my husband in the future will be a very lucky woman indeed."
"I understand completely. I've been married 35 years, met when we were in college. Get along beautifully and are the best of friends. He's tender, caring, sweet, smart, but...doesn't turn me on. There is someone else who does but unfortunately he possesses fewer of the good qualities of my husband except for that all important issue of physical attraction.
What to do? I've decided to take the seemingly unwise and unpopular plunge toward life with the new guy, risking stability, assured good treatment, intellectual compatibility, and mutual respect. I hope it works. I love both of them. Whoever gets turned on by my husband in the future will be a very lucky woman indeed."
EA
A Pound & A Prayer
Stories like these are the reason why I don't even try to impress girls anymore. Can you imagine your wife just up and leaving you after 35 years because she doesn't find you attractive anymore?
