Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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True but I'd rather be myself

You can be yourself and if they step out of line or you feel something in your gut bushes


i forgot who said it in another thread but I prefer to be that nikka a girl complains about. I tell my friends similar shyt.

Once a girl is no longer phased or complains about your bs...you've lost her it seems. You gotta piss em off (not purposely...just by being assertive or overly honest) every now and then; get their emotions all worked up
 

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Nothing you can do is the scary thing

You treat her great like a queen she can leave

You cheat she will leave

Your mysterious she can leave

these stories of woman being with a man for 20 years then up and leave them for some random dude that just clicked scare the shyt out of me ...

giving your heart and soul to a women and having her cheat on you scare the shyt of out of me ...

love is scary brehs ....
 

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True but I'd rather be myself

You can be yourself and if they step out of line or you feel something in your gut bushes
Yea I dont play the game. Naturally I'm an abrasive, honest person though and it drives women crazy. These same women stay on my dikk though and are often the ones I dont really care about like that :yawn: or girlfriends who I am honest with because there are certain things I have to nip if I plan on going longterm with a chick. I speak my mind and stand my ground. If I hurt your feelings I might apologize but that doesnt mean I dont believe what I said :yeshrug:

I hate to use it but its like the car analogy yall use. If you have a 2011 BMW 335i or some shyt with 50,000 miles on it.

When you become the new owner and notice there's an issue with the brakes are you gonna let that shyt slide (no pun intended) and risk a car accident or take it to the mechanic and fix it? Obvious answer is the latter.

If you own shares in what looked like a Blue Chip corporation and then a news story breaks out that they're under investigation for bribes, money laundering for criminal orgs or some other shyt are you gonna hold hoping it bounces back or sell like the rest of the shareholders are? I've learned you better sell that shyt before its too late :smh: and if anything just bu back at a lower price.
 

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most dudes like to use sports to compare women to but theres no better theory than that of economics / capital markets .

Risk and Volatility
Diversification
Supply and Demand
Capital structure
Hedging


you know about this shyt? and you know everything you need to know about handle women and relationships
 
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This is why I love patrice O'Neal philosophy I do . I have all of the Black Phillip shows downloaded and listen to them daily . Some of yall need to go to youtube and listen to these shows ...it will be the best way of taking the red pill .
 
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I'm all for explanations doggy:ld:


Im come back to it I have a lot I wanna say ...I just dont believe in all this new age shyt about side dudes. Instaed of calling it what it is ...you are sexing somebody else girl . Most men are in it for vagina when sleeping wit somebody elses girl ...they dont want the woman. Shes just another female on the team thats sitting at the end of the bench that can get traded or cut by deadline or end of the season.
 

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Im come back to it I have a lot I wanna say ...I just dont believe in all this new age shyt about side dudes. Instaed of calling it what it is ...you are sexing somebody else girl . Most men are in it for vagina when sleeping wit somebody elses girl ...they dont want the woman. Shes just another female on the team thats sitting at the end of the bench that can get traded or cut by deadline or end of the season.

No we def in agreement...

I just call it that because its outside dikk...
 

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That's why you never give 100% to a woman and always prepare yourself for her walking out at any moment.

Remember when we said to focus on things other than women? That's exactly the reason why. If you aren't providing a drama circus, she'll potentially get bored and walk out.

And really, none of these women are worth providing a drama circus for. Who wants to constantly fight and stress just to keep the company of a woman?

The more completion you find in life without depending on another, the better.
 

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That's why you never give 100% to a woman and always prepare yourself for her walking out at any moment.

Remember when we said to focus on things other than women? That's exactly the reason why. If you aren't providing a drama circus, she'll potentially get bored and walk out.

And really, none of these women are worth providing a drama circus for. Who wants to constantly fight and stress just to keep the company of a woman?

The more completion you find in life without depending on another, the better.

:salute:
 

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ok here it is, like i always tell you guys by definition id be a awkward loser nice guy, but in the end whenever im disrespected etc., no matter how she looks, no matter what she offers I am not afraid to sever all ties and walk away


in the age of the simps women think they can disrespect you, walk over you dissappear and pop whenever they please because they have a vagina and you'll be there with open arms.

NAH

And I aint even saying I'm all that, i literally have Nothing right now phone aint buzzed in a few days, but i don't need no broad to complete me.

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two things i notice from this. #1 She feels like she got kicked out of the game without the upperhand so she wants an opportunity to go back in and get 1up on you. #2 she's using a lot of emotional tricks. At first she tries to guilt you into caring about her. she tries to make it like because she cares about how you're doing, you should care about how she's doing as well. when that doesn't work, she tries to make you admit you still think about her. doesn't work either, she then tries to ask a question that forces you to reject her harshly hoping you won't have the balls to tell her you don't want to speak to her anymore. when that STILL doesn't work, she says ok, but keeps talking throwing everything at you hoping one of the darts she throws triggers an emotional trigger. at this point she'll even take anger. anger from you would be a temp win for her. The old me would have taken advantage. not just for her p*ssy either. i would have made her my bytch. the funny thing is, i'm sure if she had the choice between the current status quo (you not giving her any emotion to feed on) and becoming your bytch, she would choose the latter. then you get older and i don't know if it's just because you soften up or maybe you get wiser but you realize the time and energy spent on playing that game could be spent on more worthwhile things.
 

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two things i notice from this. #1 She feels like she got kicked out of the game without the upperhand so she wants an opportunity to go back in and get 1up on you. #2 she's using a lot of emotional tricks. At first she tries to guilt you into caring about her. she tries to make it like because she cares about how you're doing, you should care about how she's doing as well. when that doesn't work, she tries to make you admit you still think about her. doesn't work either, she then tries to ask a question that forces you to reject her harshly hoping you won't have the balls to tell her you don't want to speak to her anymore. when that STILL doesn't work, she says ok, but keeps talking throwing everything at you hoping one of the darts she throws triggers an emotional trigger. at this point she'll even take anger. anger from you would be a temp win for her. The old me would have taken advantage. not just for her p*ssy either. i would have made her my bytch. the funny thing is, i'm sure if she had the choice between the current status quo (you not giving her any emotion to feed on) and becoming your bytch, she would choose the latter. then you get older and i don't know if it's just because you soften up or maybe you get wiser but you realize the time and energy spent on playing that game could be spent on more worthwhile things.

:salute:

funny thing as well back in teh day i would have done the same, now that i have a backbone and could care less if a female comes and go i refuse to play games.

like i said before you can be nice, a gentleman and all that the key is never be afraid to walk away
 

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funny thing as well back in teh day i would have done the same, now that i have a backbone and could care less if a female comes and go i refuse to play games.

like i said before you can be nice, a gentleman and all that the key is never be afraid to walk away

:mjlol:....The feeling they get when they get thoroughly rejected...
 

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This is gonna sound like a @yo moms post but it's serious.

My girl of 5 years just broke up with me, I got terrible student loan debt problems, my mental health is bad, I'm 136lbs at 6'2," and I may have to go live with my grandma in the near future cuz Sallie Mae is trying to bankrupt me.

Can I seriously get a girl in my state of affairs? When I was 165lbs I'd say I was an 8 (no brag). Now with these health problems and being 136lbs, I dunno what I'm at now. A 6 maybe?

How the fukk am I gonna get a girl with so much going against me? :sadcam: Suggestions brehs?

I've been out of the dating game for so long, I dunno even where to start. Also, I can't drink cuz of meds I'm on. So bars and clubs are kinda out of the question I guess
 

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This is gonna sound like a @yo moms post but it's serious.

My girl of 5 years just broke up with me, I got terrible student loan debt problems, my mental health is bad, I'm 136lbs at 6'2," and I may have to go live with my grandma in the near future cuz Sallie Mae is trying to bankrupt me.

Can I seriously get a girl in my state of affairs? When I was 165lbs I'd say I was an 8 (no brag). Now with these health problems and being 136lbs, I dunno what I'm at now. A 6 maybe?

How the fukk am I gonna get a girl with so much going against me? :sadcam: Suggestions brehs?

I've been out of the dating game for so long, I dunno even where to start. Also, I can't drink cuz of meds I'm on. So bars and clubs are kinda out of the question I guess

Describes me to a tee....

Fam get ya shyt together 1st bruh...you got some real issues
 
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