Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm too ugly for online or Tinder so where do I go to meet women without coming off as a weirdo. I don't do clubs/parties so that's out, most people meet each other through work, school, or mutual friends anyways. I only have the work option though which hasn't worked out so far

why dont you just try tinder

you never know which girl may find you attractive

never sell yourself short
 

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why dont you just try tinder

you never know which girl may find you attractive

never sell yourself short

I meant that I already did. POF, match, eharmony, blackpeoplemeet, OKC, etc. shyt doesn't work for me and i've been on POF since 09 and tried the rest over a course of 4 years
 

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I meant that I already did. POF, match, eharmony, blackpeoplemeet, OKC, etc. shyt doesn't work for me and i've been on POF since 09 and tried the rest over a course of 4 years

oh

i always say you never know , ive had dry spells, i gave up on online dating because its just catered for women.

tinder setting myself in other cities i ate up like a pig at a trough, actually how i ended up meeting my vancouver model
 

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im just now getting caught up with breaking bad and finally made it to the last season and was watching it last night and realized how manipulative and deceptive skylar was, walt did what he did but he was still loyal to her and never cheated and always made sure everything was taken care of regarding his family yet she goes out and has a affair with ted to try and get revenge on him :beli: millions of dollars couldn't even keep her from keeping her legs closed.

its impossible to keep a women satisfied for a extended amount of time.

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Got this from the good folks over at sosuave.com


The Shelf Life of a Woman Most of us know that women have a shelf-life. Here is a summary of the phases before, during, and after it, at least in terms of how date-able they are. This doesn't necessarily apply if you're in a LTR or married to the woman, although some aspects of it may show up in those situations.


This is the infancy of a woman(0-7). They learn how to walk, talk, and most importantly, discover they have emotions! The groundwork of their personality is laid out here. If their father has walked out on them, this is when daddy issues will be deeply rooted. If they are sexually abused, this is where their sexual problems will be rooted. When these kinds of things happen in this age range, they will be 100% defective product during the rest of the phases. This defectiveness can also occur during the 8-12 range, but it may not be as apparent.


This is the "crush" phase(8-12). Girls realize they have feelings, especially when it comes to cute boys. They develop crushes, believe in the fantasies they see in Disney movies, and become excited at the prospect of kissing boys. Some of the girls who become defective in this stage will begin kissing boys, and a few will have sex.


The puberty phase(13-17). They start getting their periods, growing breasts, getting pubic hair, and begin experimenting with high school dating. Many lose their virginity in this phase. They will also get their hearts broken and go through extreme emotional fluctuation even though the cause may be insignificant. Some will become pregnant and be forced into early adulthood, speeding up their "maturity".


This is the "party" phase(17-22). It could also be coined as the "experimentation" phase. They start getting into drinking, drugs, staying out late, having huge groups of friends, and fvcking just for the sake of fun and experimentation. This is the point where a woman may develop deep-rooted addictions. Many will "grow out" of it. More become pregnant than the previous age range. A few may marry.


This is "The Sweet Spot" or "Prime Shelf Time",(23-27) at least with regards to the women who manage to avoid defects, addiction, and pregnancy. This is when a woman is ripe for picking with regards to LTRs. She is most likely done with her party phase, not too jaded against men, still has her looks intact, and also doesn't fully realize the countdown to her expiry with regards to child-bearing. Many will marry and become mothers in this phase. Some will also get divorced and/or become single parents.


The "declining shelf-life" phase(28-35). Her appearance begins to degrade, her biological clock begins to tick louder, and she becomes more jaded towards men as her impending infertility approaches. Marriage, divorce, and pregnancy are still rampant in this phase.


The "Last Chance" phase(36-40). Looks are rapidly declining or have already deteriorated, the biological clock has become unbearably loud, and many women in this phase will become extremely bitter about men. The women who focused on their career instead of finding a mate during all the other phases may be lower-mileage sexually, but will have high expectations when it comes to the men they date, even though their prime shelf life is pretty much over. Childless women will be desperate to fulfil their need to have a baby before the biological clock runs out. Many marriages end, divorce is high, and there are many single mothers in this range.


Expiry. Menopause begins to kick in(41+). A few will manage to get pregnant, but will likely be single mothers for the next 15-20 years. Bitterness towards men will cause many women to become "born again virgins" for the rest of their lives. Many "cat ladies" evolve during expiry. Divorce continues, and many single mothers will continue to date but never commit to a man. Some may find a partner to share their lives with, but it will mostly be to avoid "dying alone". When couples form during this "dying alone" scare, they begin to put up with all the defects of their partner and settle for "good enough".
 

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oh

i always say you never know , ive had dry spells, i gave up on online dating because its just catered for women.

tinder setting myself in other cities i ate up like a pig at a trough, actually how i ended up meeting my vancouver model

What's the point though unless you're gonna go on vacation there for a few weeks. I did that in ATL because my fam is down there but I still didn't get shyt out of it smh.
 

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Just finished boning a new chick from tinder. I matched with her Tuesday morning , texted her during the day and by the night she was at my place sucking and fukking. Tinder is golden. If you are halfway decent looking you should be eating off of tinder. More please...:feedme:
 

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So its been 2 months since i met the chick from Tinder. She just moved around the corner from me so:

Her: you wanna come over for about 45 mins?

*goes over there*

We chill and talk. Wasn't expecting to go over there and fukk...yet. When I got there I immediately pictured myself fukking her in her bed though. :lolbron:

*leaves*

Her: Thanks for coming over, I really enjoyed seeing you last night. Now that we live so close, we can hang out all the time.


So, I take this as she's comfortable with me as I was over there past 12am for about 2 hrs not 45 mins. Intentions have been laid out and she as well as I have said, we'll see. I haven't gotten any indication that she's against fukking with me on a relationship level, because SHE does a lot of initiating, text me alot etc etc.

So i see, that she's comfortable and there is a mutual interest. We know what each other are looking for, and just are going 1 day at a time.

Age: 23 (about to be 24 soon)
Job: Teacher (AND has a part time job on top of it)
Edu: Bachelors Degree
Own car and place (female roommate)
Gym 6 days a week.
Vegetarian.
VERY limited social network use: No twitter or IG, has a fitness page on FB that she rarely updates, her normal FB she hasn't used in over 2 months.
Doesn't want kids. Her twitter that she had was last used March 26 2013.
Good relationship with both parents.


So she seems like a good candidate. Looking for red flags, haven't found a single one yet.
 

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So its been 2 months since i met the chick from Tinder. She just moved around the corner from me so:

Her: you wanna come over for about 45 mins?

*goes over there*

We chill and talk. Wasn't expecting to go over there and fukk...yet. When I got there I immediately pictured myself fukking her in her bed though. :lolbron:

*leaves*

Her: Thanks for coming over, I really enjoyed seeing you last night. Now that we live so close, we can hang out all the time.


So, I take this as she's comfortable with me as I was over there past 12am for about 2 hrs not 45 mins. Intentions have been laid out and she as well as I have said, we'll see. I haven't gotten any indication that she's against fukking with me on a relationship level, because SHE does a lot of initiating, text me alot etc etc.

So i see, that she's comfortable and there is a mutual interest. We know what each other are looking for, and just are going 1 day at a time.

Age: 23 (about to be 24 soon)
Job: Teacher (AND has a part time job on top of it)
Edu: Bachelors Degree
Own car and place (female roommate)
Gym 6 days a week.
Vegetarian.
VERY limited social network use: No twitter or IG, has a fitness page on FB that she rarely updates, her normal FB she hasn't used in over 2 months.
Doesn't want kids. Her twitter that she had was last used March 26 2013.
Good relationship with both parents.


So she seems like a good candidate. Looking for red flags, haven't found a single one yet.

:myman: Hopin it works out brehbreh

For real before I go into college I was searching on Wal-Mart site-to-store type ish for a laptop where I stay, the most bought product is a TV.

iight the city I'm going to for college, the most bought product is a carseat.:huhldup:

I done heard how women in that city get down. Especially these college girls.:huhldup:

Brehs it's just a FACT, I could mess around end up catching some shyt that killed the dinosaurs, or even worse, they poke a hole in a condom now I'm stuck with a baby. I keep bein told by others "You just dont know how to handle women.":comeon:

Cannot tell if I'm being too uptight, but shook from the thought of sleepin with any girl in college. I don't know how many times these girls have been run through.:wow:

I'm wanna build my foundation financially, first and foremost.
 
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