Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

SubLyminalz

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Im sorry but fukk confidence. If women cared about that then I wouldn't be in this situation. Give an ugly dude confidence and now you have an ugly dude with confidence which still means jack shyt
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I've been on Tinder for 2 months now (I've noticed most of my matches are young chicks between 19-21). The biggest problem for me is what you gotta say in that gap between "hi" and basic small talk to meeting and fukkin the chick :jawalrus:

what kind of lines work? you can only give so many compliments before you start coming off like :cape:
 

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I've been on Tinder for 2 months now (I've noticed most of my matches are young chicks between 19-21). The biggest problem for me is what you gotta say in that gap between "hi" and basic small talk to meeting and fukkin the chick :jawalrus:

what kind of lines work? you can only give so many compliments before you start coming off like :cape:

take her off the pedastal, she swiped you she likes you.

i never message anyone first.

but when they messaged me

it was like a hey, then how is tinder treating you, what part of the city you live in, are you loking for anything, heres my number.


just flip the script

hey

hey

so how is tinder treating you

lol it sucks

have you met anyone off here yet?

nah not yet, have you?

Just signed up :jawalrus:, so what part of the city do you live in

ah i live in .............

wow now way im there all the time, maybe we can get coffee one day

sure

do you have whatsapp?

:blessed:
 

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key is t get their number asap

that why tinder is so great, they already find you cute attractive, and women dont do what guys do ala swipe everything its meticulous for them.

I've had clicks check my flickr , blog and then write me like omg i love your pictures etc.

my flickr is how i got my model :noah:
 

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So its been 2 months since i met the chick from Tinder. She just moved around the corner from me so:

Her: you wanna come over for about 45 mins?

*goes over there*

We chill and talk. Wasn't expecting to go over there and fukk...yet. When I got there I immediately pictured myself fukking her in her bed though. :lolbron:

*leaves*

Her: Thanks for coming over, I really enjoyed seeing you last night. Now that we live so close, we can hang out all the time.


So, I take this as she's comfortable with me as I was over there past 12am for about 2 hrs not 45 mins. Intentions have been laid out and she as well as I have said, we'll see. I haven't gotten any indication that she's against fukking with me on a relationship level, because SHE does a lot of initiating, text me alot etc etc.

So i see, that she's comfortable and there is a mutual interest. We know what each other are looking for, and just are going 1 day at a time.

Age: 23 (about to be 24 soon)
Job: Teacher (AND has a part time job on top of it)
Edu: Bachelors Degree
Own car and place (female roommate)
Gym 6 days a week.
Vegetarian.
VERY limited social network use: No twitter or IG, has a fitness page on FB that she rarely updates, her normal FB she hasn't used in over 2 months.
Doesn't want kids. Her twitter that she had was last used March 26 2013.
Good relationship with both parents.


So she seems like a good candidate. Looking for red flags, haven't found a single one yet.

stars are aligning :blessed:

the bold is what's key

don mess it up breh dont mess it up, this opportunity comes a few times in a lifetime
 

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Im sorry but fukk confidence. If women cared about that then I wouldn't be in this situation. Give an ugly dude confidence and now you have an ugly dude with confidence which still means jack shyt
There are broke ugly confident dudes in the hood everyday and they have no problem getting p*ssy. Whats your excuse?
 

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when i was playing around on tinder back in teh day, some i was trolling locations :manny:

had over 1000 matches both timesi created n deleted my account

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just swipe away :manny:
 

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you'll be waiting all your life

Didn't you say that you never made the first move and they came to you? So what is it?

Tinder is gay, i'm going to delete this shyt and reactivate an account and swipe until there's no more broads in my area. Bet i will get an maximum of 5 matches, if i'm lucky 10
 
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Like I said I have to go talk to a female ...women never approach me I guess Im not blessed or fortunate...or maybe the wrong state . But im a blue collar nikka when it comes to the females as with so much else in my life. I never was or am picture guy to me im not photogenic ...but I do plan on taking some pic for instagram since I have one now. I dont know how I fell about online dating ...im really a direct guy ...but im convinced that at this age(30) that I have to approach there is no sitting anywere and some girl approaches me ...hell even if I put up an online profile ...I bet coli cash I would have to approach.Its just been my life story.
 
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