Aww its charming I knew guys had insecurities but its interesting how candis you guys are here. Btw, have you ever opened up to any close girlfriend about your insecurities? Just wondering...if not why not?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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She could have honestly forgot and you are already throwing in the bushes? What if you missed out on a great girl? In all for respecting yourself but that seems very petty.Ol girl works at the gym I go to. Apologized to me in person and then was like what about this evening...
Was like nah I'm good now. I don't feel like bullshytting tonight.
Tried to talk to me a couple of times more I just gave her the one word answers like i do to white people at work.
18 year old me would be reacheduling dates. Current me glad the bytch exposed her silly ways early and saved me hassle. Never let them see you bothered.
And you may have missed on a great girl. Life happens. ..if she apologized to you. What else do you want...had this happen the second time...I could understand. Oh well, your mind is made up but if you have a tendency of cutting people over the first sign error...then you might as well stay single because people will always disappoint.
I don't think giving people the benefit of the doubt is being a simp...you never know when you'll need to be on the receiving end but life has a tendency to humble us when we most need it.
Y'all really gotta understand the power of doing what YOU want to do. @kevm3 and @Emperor_ReinScarf been saying this for a couple of years now. You want to take a chick out? You set the itinerary, and if she really rocking with you, she will get with the program. You have to start off by leading, you let a female start making demands from the first encounter, it's all down hill from there. The days of catering/manipulating a chick into liking you really needs to end because that's what's fukking shyt up now.Is that so...you never listened to your mother growing up?
The old addage never listen or take advice from a woman
took a chick out the other night and she paid for her own stuff and wasn't even upset about it, and she is kidless 
well see how this goes
well see how this goes
Every mother was a young single woman at some point though.
You did the right thing. One of the things that makes a person 'great' is being cordial, aka on time. More than likely, she didn't want to go out, so she 'fell asleep'. Even if she did fall asleep, that just shows the level of concern she had for dealing with you. You can get an offer to be interviewed by McDonalds, and if you call in and say, "I'm sorry, I fell asleep... can we do this another time?" What will they say? Most likely, "Nope, if you can't prioritize, we don't want you working here."
If anything, she should have at least called you before the act and said something along the lines of, "I'm sleepy and probably will pass out soon, so can we reschedule?" I could understand that, or if she apologized immediately after waking up... but when these women don't want to go out, they simply disappear and don't contact you... when they see you they may be all apologetic or simply act like nothing happened.
A lot of what these women do is try to fit you into their schedule and chill with you on their terms. She doesn't feel like going out? Here comes some excuse. She sees that she's able to pull that on you once, and she'll be doing it all the time. What you did, a lot of other men need to do. They need to make these broads stop playing with them. If you can't prioritize and I'm low on your list, you aren't going to get an iota of my time. I ain't no negro you can summon when you feel like it.
These broads need to 'make an excuse' to do the right thing instead of engaging in rude behavior and seeing if they can talk out of it. A quality job ain't going to accept excuses for people who don't show up, and a quality man doesn't accept excuses for women who can't bother to show some cordiality or consistency. Less talk, more action.
looks like the same policies they field-tested in the black community to destroy the family structure is now being instituted elsewhere
that's the end game of this modern 'feminism'... destruction of the family unit
that's the end game of this modern 'feminism'... destruction of the family unit
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