Youseenmywork
KING
Women tell u so much about themselves when they think they’re telling u about men.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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One of the worst things I'd have to say is building up a woman, then she leaves and another man gets the benefits.
Sadly I didn't learn untill my second time.
You meet a chick with low self esteem struggling in every regard in life, your there for her, everyone in life has treated her bad, you treat her good, you build her up then poof.
Now the next nygga reaps all the benefits.
It's like signing a undrafted fa with a broken jump shoot and whose game sucks.
You spend time in the gym with them, encourage them, build them up then they avg 20 a gme forget about you and the next team reaps all the benefits and didn't have to put in the training, the long frustrating nights and days etc.
I wish I was smarter earlier in life than to build up broken azz women.
I'm telling all you men out there, be the new York Yankees, don't be the Miami marlins, Kansas City royals, Houston astros etc.
Don't be the feeder team, don't be the team that invests resources, time, and gives opportunities. Be the Yankees go after the finished sure thing product that is refined and consistent.
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i wish more dudes would realize this. the con game is, these bytches try to come in the game already with the mythical "great girl" status yet she never showed or proved she is that. you start believing the hype and you're done cause now you fear losing a great girl (eventhough again, she never proved she was one). so you start getting tunnel vision and only see her, ignoring the one who literally prays every night to Jesus that you give her an opportunity to show you she could help contribute to your happiness. And i feel like women (even if it's not maliciously or even consciously) have a tendency to defend that paradigm because it benefits them and keeps men chasing.
exactly , so many men have them rose coloured glasses on if only they would take them off and remove them from the pedastal.
I may be harsh on women sometimes, but there are good hearted great women out there who are literally praying on their hands and knees every day for qualities that you offer.
I may be harsh on women sometimes, but there are good hearted great women out there who are literally praying on their hands and knees every day for qualities that you offer.
Youseenmywork
KING
Ive been thinking about what patrice said when he said " you cant get mad at them cause its NOT malicious its there nature to test you and to do dumb shyt this is why you gotta guide them threw there goofiness" he said that and I often forget it. I dont go that hard on females on the coli ...cause a lot of them are young and im 30 so I just dont think ...they get it just yet its a lot they havent gone threw and wont admit to themselves. I have to remember that even eve manipulated adam into eat the fruit ...its been in there nature to test you as a man from the beginning . You just have to know how to be above the BS and constantly educate yourself.
Again what else should have offered him? What did he compromise on? What is not standing up on? He barely knows this girl...ya she slept...I agree it is not a good first impression but she approached him apologized and asked to reschedule what else could she have done? If she really had no interest she wouldn't have bothered. If he feels that she was not worty his time..cool don't agree withh it though.
How does that determine how women behave when make posters have said the same thing about women that they have dropped like a bad habit. People don't like their ego being bruised...you've said it yourself no one is above beinh rejected. People are fickle and can be jerks what else is new. But you are really going to talk about women as a monolith as if you know them inside and out based on nothing more than your relationships. What designated you as some kind of authority on women. If women should not tell other women about men than same can be said about you as a man preaching some kind of truth about women to men. Mattter of fact botg sexes need to talk to each other about themselves.
women end 75% of all relationships whether its dating or marriage.
believe male posters when i would say a majority of them are lying. Most males if a woman is halfway decent and shes giving up the goods will continue going to the well until it dries up. If you actually are that naive to think that male posters of the coli actually disappeared and went cold from a chick who was giving them the goods.
what designated me as some kind of authority on women? my experience, i've been through everything a man can be with a woman, I've spent countless countless hours studying pyscology, biology, reading books, going around the internet, talking to women from different cultures, social status, married women, old women, young women, fat women, ugly women, pretty women etc. as at one point in my life I was actually writing a book on women.
believe male posters when i would say a majority of them are lying. Most males if a woman is halfway decent and shes giving up the goods will continue going to the well until it dries up. If you actually are that naive to think that male posters of the coli actually disappeared and went cold from a chick who was giving them the goods.
what designated me as some kind of authority on women? my experience, i've been through everything a man can be with a woman, I've spent countless countless hours studying pyscology, biology, reading books, going around the internet, talking to women from different cultures, social status, married women, old women, young women, fat women, ugly women, pretty women etc. as at one point in my life I was actually writing a book on women.
Youseenmywork
KING
You are jumping way ahead of yourself here. Reading into something that isn't there. I think you are mixing in too much of your own emotions. It's not that deep...reserve your soapbox for a situation that it actually applies.
I said he could have missed out on a great girl just cause he assumed that she did not care. All I said he should have given her the benefit of doubt...that does not equal losing your self respect. Too early ro make the grandiose statements you are making.
this is why its useless to even argue with a women, they are so stuck in their was its absurd
Youseenmywork
KING
I wont preach on this any more. Each man has his own limits. NO man should put up with disrespect of any form ...yes some guys NEXT women to quickly(but thats life)....then some guys dont next women quickly enough. You have to know your limits. And rule number 1 when it comes to women is to PAY ATTENTION to her actions NOT what she is saying . Know YOUR limits !
Cheat though...again way ahead of yourself. You guys are giving me scorned man status. The guy just met the girl nowhere am I justifying cheating or allude to it.
Accountability lacks plenty in men so I don't know what you use to base that women lack accountability more so than women. I know we all frame or arguments and opinions based on experience but you try too often to make absolute statements about women based in your short lived existence...30 years is not old, you still have a long way to go in terms of experiecing relationships. Men twice your age will tell you they are still learning but you guys like to acts like experts on women but are barely past a quarter of a century.
Rather your stance is based on your experience with the failed and successful relationships that you have had. It does not give you insignt on women though. But your experience with women which you are trying to pass off as gospel.
see this is why I really don't like women posting in this thread
whenever a woman disagrees with what a man says he's scorned, he's bitter, he needs to get over it, he hates women.
As I always say if Chris brown, denzel washington had a date with that chick at 8pm do you think she would have overslept? do you think she would have missed it? HELL NO. Women pull tricks on guys all the time guys they don't view as valuable for her it was just a night out and meh she didn't feel liek going it wasn't important it wasn't vital to her. It's like if I have a job interview i read more into it and i find it pays like 9 dollars a hour, i say screw it and go to sleep and miss the interview, the job wasn't important to me, but if that job was paying 50 a hour you damn well sure i'd be there early lined up because its valuable.
My life isn't short lived. Jesus was only on earth for 33 years, martin luther king jr died at the age of 39, age has nothing to do with experience or learning.
I've seen more in my 29 years than most people have and I don't need a female telling me what she thinks she knows