Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Goddamn breh, focus on your good qualities and be your self. this shyt with bytches is a numbers game. through tinder and skout i had a legit 10 bytches wanting to fukk with me, of those half were TALKING about fukking, one actually did fukk. You gotta use what's out here. I could get bytches at school but im not there for that. shyt is NOT hard.

as you grow older and you have no kids, STDs, crazy thots running behind you/exes, own car, place, job....you're LEAGUES ahead of other nikkas. Then when you find the one you want, you sharpen up your looks and have other bytches like :drool: cause they can't get you now. :lolbron:
If only it was that easy.
 

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Thought it was healthy to have a healing/reflection process after endings a relationship not to jump into another immediately.

it is, usualyl people who hop back into relationships so soon are scared to be alone, scared to feel the heartache etc..

however im at a point in my life where im shrugs, if im dating a chick and she gets distant and we go our seperate ways that same night if i want id meet soemone, ive been through way much stuff in my life with women to waste even a hour crying or thinking of one
 

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So giving a person that you didn't get the chance to properly meet is shaming and simping now? Again another emotive response not grounded in reality. Never said that I know you..and you don't know me either we judge one another ob each other's post and thats the impression you give based on what ive seen you write.
Never said you should care....but im happy you are above it all.

As for relationships...people get in one for different reasons and dictate the direction of it. Plenty of people who don't want to get hurt and want their relationships who want it to go their way or the highway due to past wrongs. Its called baggage. Its no different than people having sex and not wanting kids.

I think in any human relationship, you sometimes need to earn the social capital (for lack of a better term) before you can make those type of mistakes - specifically, not showing up for a first date.

You only get one chance to make a first impression, do people make mistakes?

Of course they do, however, I think the gentleman made an informed decision based on his experiences - interactions, reading, etc. - and I agree with it. Could that girl have been a great woman? Possibly, however, in a planet filled with 7 billion people more great ones will come along.

He stood on his principle, and you can't make decisions based on a fear of what you may lose, you can only live by your principles.

Had they went out on a couple of dates where both had already invested time into getting to know each other, and personalities were familiar to each other, and then she mistakenly missed a date -- at that point, perhaps, he can give her another chance since he is better able to ascertain the situation and make an informed decision based on what he already knows about her.

To stray from his principles though, and give someone a second chance, after he already made his initial investment offer, based on an uknown possibliity that she may be a great girl isn't wise if it's going against what his gut is telling him to do.

Time invested is extremely valuable and the gentleman freed his schedule up for a first date where the woman did not show up, he's already in the red - cut your losses and give that initial (emphasis on initial - because I believe you can earn social capital to make mistakes) opportunity to a woman who shows value in not only her time but in yours as well.
 
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And who decides the relevancy of what is said that would be subjective to the individual. Hear me again...no matter the experience we are still limited all of us by the experience that we've had. That is why we learn from each other. You make absolute statements about women not ti mention you put women in a box. Thinking that you know what women must do to be women. When really you are saying what women must do according to men and more specifically according to you.That's the nuance that im trying to allude to.
Its your way or the highway and u have yet to see yoy dis prove so I don't how you can talk about not putting you into box when you claim to know how women behave. Youve made comments about how I look like but have never seen my face. I made my comment based on your comment history on things you yourself have revealed about yourself.


Learning from each other is still, technically, an experience.
 

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Brehs I got this ex that be hitting me up and I wanna hit.
I ain't took her nowhere since may 2.
How should I go about getting her to lemme bang?

Take her to the movies?
Zoo?
Out to eat?

*her paying her own way of course :youngsabo:*
@Emperor_ReinScarf

nah man, you can fukk in your crib, she stunts on the hotel, she hasn't offered her crib? she not about it. that was ur ex, yall already did the date thing, why you gotta get her a meal or take her to the movies to get her panties off?



so demonic. if only she had offed herself.

i don't know brehs. i'm kinda getting impatient with dudes who just seem to be stuck in their ways. it's like dudes don't want to improve, they just want a magic trick that will get them the specific p*ssy they want. dudes want to learn how to run game yet they can't even stand (let alone walk). it's like taking a Calculus 2 class yet you never passed high school algebra.

some dudes dont get it. if you make the vagina the prize, you're automatically playing by her rules. she needs to be choosing you based on who you are and what you represent.

why is this woman flirting with me now that shes married? before that she was acting all funny style around me....now that shes married shes on some hey boo shyt? fukk outa here

it's naughty to her. a lot of females love that drama. probably wont go past flirting or the second you press to see how bout it she is, she'll get all fake outraged our shaken . "omg you know i'm married!"
 

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what brand of condoms do yall rock with, ive been using lifestyle skyns, i like them because they dont have that latex smell to them, wondering if I should try something out, before the lifestyles I was rolling with the magnums the previous 2 years
 

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I've been awol for a minute, but peep this.

You have to remain logical at all times while in a relationship because your woman will not. Her emotions will get the best of her and she will react purely off of them, especially if she is deeply in love. You can be in love with her, but you always have to keep your sanity, because you will need the ability to recognize when you are not in a good situation and be able to detach from her and end the relationship. You have to understand that life can and will go on without her, so you don't want to make decisions in your relationship that will affect you for the rest of your life (putting hands on her). You want to always be rational about things, especially when it comes to getting a chick pregnant. Your emotions or sexual feelings should never determine this. One mistake due to this can change your whole life. Always be the captain of your relationship so that you navigate it in the direction that you want it to go in. If she starts to go astray, you tell her one time. She continues to do it, you cut her off. You should never feel stressed or burdened in your relationship. She is supposed to add to your life, not take away.

Never let a woman use the excuse of being a woman for her actions. If she wants to be in your life, she needs to play by your rules. And you must use logic to make good decisions, never emotion.
 

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I guess I'm just gone give up on here.
Ain't bout to put up with more bullshyt when it comes to getting the ass

nah man, you can fukk in your crib, she stunts on the hotel, she hasn't offered her crib? she not about it. that was ur ex, yall already did the date thing, why you gotta get her a meal or take her to the movies to get her panties off?



so demonic. if only she had offed herself.



some dudes dont get it. if you make the vagina the prize, you're automatically playing by her rules. she needs to be choosing you based on who you are and what you represent.



it's naughty to her. a lot of females love that drama. probably wont go past flirting or the second you press to see how bout it she is, she'll get all fake outraged our shaken . "omg you know i'm married!"
 

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what brand of condoms do yall rock with, ive been using lifestyle skyns, i like them because they dont have that latex smell to them, wondering if I should try something out, before the lifestyles I was rolling with the magnums the previous 2 years

I've been rockin with the Magnums forever, I do wanna try those Lifestyle Skyns tho
 
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