Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[GoldenGlove]

Odd question but I am going to throw it out there anyway.

Have any of you guys been in the position with a girlfriend where she wants to have sex but you are too tired/burnt out and really just want to get some rest?

What was her reaction when you told her no?

My fiance wants sex pretty much all the time. There are times where I just don't feel like it. I can tell when she fiending for some and I'll have to make the decision... do I smash and get this out of the way, or do I go to sleep or continue doing whatever it is I'm doing and deal with a minor attitude about not fukking.

She gets highly annoyed if we go a few days without having sex though.

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[#1 pick]

Ahhh... he's not even being strategic with you.

Dude is so comfortable with his game that he's just laying it out all there (in more ways than one... eh heh heh).

But on the real.

Trust me when i tell you this;

He might not be your only option...


But you obviously ain't his only.


The way he brings you back to his place and shirts/socks off routine (i know that - only when a mothafukka don't give a shiit is when he's willing to put on such a show). The calls and texts stem from him doing that to a multitude of women simultaneous and seeing which one is naive enough to bite.


I was 29 a few months ago and was on that, "It's time to stop giving a fukk" mode, which essentially brought on certain attitudes/behaviors as expressed by the so called, "nice guy". But don't categorize him as such because he's anything but.

Don't mean to cockblock, but you're a poster here and i don't know him.

You may be repulsed by his actions... but it's game really (and as they say, its takes those who know it to realize it - aka game recognize game).

And he's gaming the shiit out of you and you think dude is tryna settle down. Don't confuse the two hun.

He really ain't ready to commit that. He's at the peak of his machismo (the right balance of sexual aptitude, wisdomic attitude and financial altitude) and right now - the game is being played at maximum occupancy and how he divi's up his prospect depends on how long they are able to retain his attention before he beats before moving on.


And right now, babe... you're not even a chess piece.


THis is checkers...


And he's not just double jumping... he's tripling up and is basically 4 steps ahead of you.


My suggestion to you?


Sit back, enjoy the ride... cuz fellas like that don't come around too often. He's here to show you a good time and swoon you, romance you and build you up to unprecedented levels of affection, admiration and exotic bliss.


The bar just got set yay high.

...it's just up to you whether or not you wanna grasp onto it and see what happens next.

Good luck.


;)


.

Just know that this is a rollercoaster ride. That's all.

 

[#1 pick]

Any woman with a bunch of male friends I don't even associate, the funny thing is deep down even chicks know these guys aren't her friends.
More than likely these are guys she slept with in the past. I dated a girl with a bunch
Of male friends before, funny how they are disappeared when they found out she was in a relationship. Funny that when we broke up and she was in the hospital near death none of her.

Only when something is needed will you be called
Upon as a male friend for the most part. Example
Where I work one of my "female friends" lives in a condo behind my workplace. I used to go there every day for lunch etc for a while. I've known this chick for like 10 years platonic, as soon as she got a bf haven't heard from the chick since.

I had a chick in LA like that. I thought we were just cool, I wasn't trying to hit, she live too far away.

 

[Ohene]

ol ex girl messages me saying hi,

the same one who messaged me a couple months ago, i replied, and then she replied like 7 hours later.

its a shame its come to this but I just might have to ignore at thiss point. never been one to do such buffoonery but....

 

[twan83]

Alright fellas got a question.

So I recently got back in a relationship with my babymoms . We broke up on her terms last year while she was pregnant, I was trying to fight it the whole time, but she didn't trust me. So of course I was out doing my thing the whole time. Went on vacation(was suppose to be a surprise for her, but she broke up with me, so I took another female).

So of course she ask did I smash any females. I kept it real and told her I've smashed plenty. I asked once and she said no. So I took her word for it.

Well she brought it up again, and I asked. She said once() a few weeks before I came to visit. I was upset of course cause another nikka slid in and cause she lied. She said she's sorry for lying(started crying and shyt), but I shouldn't be upset cause we wasn't together.

Maybe its just me, but I hate the thought of it. It could be my pride, but right now I don't even feel like being with her. Plus when a female says once, hell usually it means multiple times. And if they lie once, they'll usually lie again. Am I tripping for wanting to dip or what?

Honestly she should of kept it 100% with since u did. Regardless of how u feel about her u need and should be in your kid's life no matter how much u hate her dont let that stop u from being a GOOD FATHER.

Women lie in general and so do us Men. Let things simmer down before u actually make a final decision on staying with her or not. Think clearly not on emotion

 

[jalamanta]

ol ex girl messages me saying hi,

the same one who messaged me a couple months ago, i replied, and then she replied like 7 hours later.

its a shame its come to this but I just might have to ignore at thiss point. never been one to do such buffoonery but....

breh, isnt this shyt described in this thread?

its called ping, she just checking if you still hooked to boost her ego

the rule is simple - you never ever reply, nothing comes out of it

 

[Nintendough]

ol ex girl messages me saying hi,

the same one who messaged me a couple months ago, i replied, and then she replied like 7 hours later.

its a shame its come to this but I just might have to ignore at thiss point. never been one to do such buffoonery but....

Sometimes it has to be done. Nobody wants to be a scallywags text ego boost.

 

[J_rock]

Brehs I have a question. I already kinda know what I gotta do, but I wanna get some second opinions first.

I've been talking to a chick I go to grad school with now for like three weeks. Nothing serious but she seems like a cool chick and we have a lot in common. Everytime we've been out together (house parties, school events, etc.), she's been heavily flirting with the kid and basically expressing her interest.

She even invited me over to her spot and cooked for me last week and catered to me like Beyonce. Up until then, I hadn't even asked if she was single or not. We finally had a conversation about it after the meal and she was like yeah she broke up with her boyfriend about five months ago. Supposedly he was her only serious boyfriend that she's ever had strong feelings for. She was like they're done now tho, but they're still friends. I told her guys can't stay friends with girls they've dated because they still wanna fukk them. She was like no that's not the case with her .

I was like cool. I wasn't simping, but I wanted to see what lane I should place her in. If she had a boyfriend and she was still flirting with me like she was, then obviously I could smash and keep it moving. But if she was single, then I could maybe keep the window open for something more. Not on no simp shyt, but she's a pretty girl, smart, and we have a lot in common so I was like who knows what might happen.

Fast forward to this weekend. She'd invited me over again for a potluck she doing at her spot with her roommates and maybe a couple of other people from school. This is her email:

"Are you coming over tomorrow? We're definitely going to be cooking. We also have a guest (my ex now turned semi current boyfriend|you were right about exes remaining friends) he will be cooking too so there's gonna be lots of food. Bring tupperware


hope to see you tomorrow! (it will probably be around six)"

I'm now confused. What the fukk is a semi current boyfriend? Is this bytch playing games? I still kinda wanna go for the food. I can't cook and my grad school diet has consisted of mainly fast food. What should I do brehs?

 

[kevm3]

Semi boyfriend is she's talking to him, he's got an opportunity to blaze her up if he isn't doing so, but he hasn't made it official they are back together. Don't waste time playing around girls who are dilly dallying with other men.

 

[RickyGQ]

Brehs I have a question. I already kinda know what I gotta do, but I wanna get some second opinions first.

I've been talking to a chick I go to grad school with now for like three weeks. Nothing serious but she seems like a cool chick and we have a lot in common. Everytime we've been out together (house parties, school events, etc.), she's been heavily flirting with the kid and basically expressing her interest.

She even invited me over to her spot and cooked for me last week and catered to me like Beyonce. Up until then, I hadn't even asked if she was single or not. We finally had a conversation about it after the meal and she was like yeah she broke up with her boyfriend about five months ago. Supposedly he was her only serious boyfriend that she's ever had strong feelings for. She was like they're done now tho, but they're still friends. I told her guys can't stay friends with girls they've dated because they still wanna fukk them. She was like no that's not the case with her .

I was like cool. I wasn't simping, but I wanted to see what lane I should place her in. If she had a boyfriend and she was still flirting with me like she was, then obviously I could smash and keep it moving. But if she was single, then I could maybe keep the window open for something more. Not on no simp shyt, but she's a pretty girl, smart, and we have a lot in common so I was like who knows what might happen.

Fast forward to this weekend. She'd invited me over again for a potluck she doing at her spot with her roommates and maybe a couple of other people from school. This is her email:


I'm now confused. What the fukk is a semi current boyfriend? Is this bytch playing games? I still kinda wanna go for the food. I can't cook and my grad school diet has consisted of mainly fast food. What should I do brehs?

dont take her serious anymore, cause she's not taking you seriously...
if you want to get food, just go eat and start talking to her roommates

 

[RickyGQ]

women talk so much shyt when they are around each other...its the most toxic shyt ever, they are literally unpleasant beings when you put them in a room and observe the shyt they talk about....its about nothing uplifting, and mostly gossip..this is not just black women, its women in general....


don't let misery keep you company...delete yourself from people that dont bring happy moods around you.

i used to work with women and it was the worst thing ever... that breakroom was a cesspool of emotions, cattiness, doubletalking, bytching you name it... to the point that i would just eat lunch in my car... not to mention the dudes who had no game but would put up with the bullshyt just to hit... shyt was depressing...

i only work with dudes now... im convinced this is how life was meant to be...

 

[MikelArteta]

Sometimes it has to be done. Nobody wants to be a scallywags text ego boost.

For most chicks out there they will only text you under a few scenarios


1. she hasn't talked to you in awhile and knew at one point you liked her so to make sure you haven't gone to far, she will send a text and if you reply she knows in her mind she still has you just in case.

example

omg hey reincar

hey, wow this unexpected

I know i haven't talked to you in so long, i was just thinking about you

really how's life?

its ok, lol how are the ladies are treating you (trying to figure out if you have ladies around)

oh you know same ol

oh i got him no need to reply to texts anymore

2. a favor

example

hey reincar

hey

what's up how you feeling?

ok you?

i'm ok same ol, what you doing today?

nothing much just relaxing

oh hey could you pick me up at the mall? i bought to much stuff lol don't want to carry them all on the bus

hello?

3. if something is going terrible in her life

scenarios

FML

huhh?

i just realized im going to be short my rent this week


scenario 2.

he used me i cant believe it

huh, whats wrong?

he cheated i just found out, im so heartbroken, why does this keep happening to me


4. bored and wants to do something

scenario

im so bored

me to


wow did you see that commercial for six flags?

nah

its so cool, lets go since were bored, be ready in a hour ok?



rarely a chick will text you to genuinely care how you are feeling.

 

[Sharp]

Don't become a woman pleaser.

You should always deal with women in your natural state at all times. We're under this false impression that we have to impress women. Don't expose women to a lifestyle that you don't normally live. If you don't do five star restaurants on your own or with your friends, then why would you take a date to one?

Trying to impress women is what prompts them to feel entitled. If you're the type of dude that likes to go to Joe's Crab shack and the shorty you are dating isn't with it, then cut her off because she isn't for you. Never alter your lifestyle, your activities, your comforts for a woman because she won't do the same.

 

[MikelArteta]

i used to work with women and it was the worst thing ever... that breakroom was a cesspool of emotions, cattiness, doubletalking, bytching you name it... to the point that i would just eat lunch in my car... not to mention the dudes who had no game but would put up with the bullshyt just to hit... shyt was depressing...

i only work with dudes now... im convinced this is how life was meant to be...

i take break with a few chicks all they talk about is how they should get paid more, shoes, shows like gossip girl etc., and their horribel ex bfs etc.