Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Anybody want to go into building sexual tension and flirting and all that? This isn't really what this thread is much about, but I have to ask as a true novice to this ish.

Went on a date yesterday and it went well, but I didn't feel like I built enough sexual tension or flirt enough. Plus even though I felt like there were opportunities to make moves, I didn't act (real bytchmade :sadbron:). The opportunities weren't straight up in my face, but they felt there. I know most of this will come to me better through practice and experience, but still. Ways to apply touch naturally would be useful too.


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ineedsleep212 said:
Anybody want to go into building sexual tension and flirting and all that? This isn't really what this thread is much about, but I have to ask as a true novice to this ish.

Went on a date yesterday and it went well, but I didn't feel like I built enough sexual tension or flirt enough. Plus even though I felt like there were opportunities to make moves, I didn't act (real bytchmade :sadbron:). The opportunities weren't straight up in my face, but they felt there. I know most of this will come to me better through practice and experience, but still. Ways to apply touch naturally would be useful too.


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are u talking about a sex party?
 
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ineedsleep212 said:
:wtf:? Regular dating stuff is what I'm talking about.
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No... you came to the right place breaghamton.

I'll start small since you're just getting comfortable with the act of creating sexual tension/energy.

Touching a woman is correlated with your self confidence.

If she's giving you signals that she is strongly attracted to you and doing things such as:

1. Smiling A LOT
2. Crossing her legs in YOUR direction.
3. Constantly playing with her hair/tucking it behind her ears

Or this one...

4. Touching YOU.

Those are direct signs that she's into you (they call 'em Indicators of Interests or IOI's - whatever you choose - i like to stress the importance of kinetic energy; it's the ability to create attraction with touch/movement).

This is where game is as essential as how you apply it (the worlds greatest dictators didn't influence people by what they said... but rather, how they say it. So in the game of dating, it's not about what you do with her... it's how you do it that will get her engines revving and admiring what you're bringing to the table).

For instance; this is what i used to do on dates before i switched it up (and the switch up will come when you've advanced enough, i will teach you step by step).

If you need a drink or two to get you loose enough to do this, then fine. I encourage it (just make certain you don't get shiit faced so that you can adjust and fine tune your method accordingly to how she's feeling you - it's something you can gauge via experience aka how receptive she is to you on a date).

You ready?

The tactic in example scenario, the first dinner/lounge meetup:


When you're sitting with babe at a table, let's say the dates going real well, you've had a couple of appetizers, consumed a couple beverages. This is when she starts to inquire about "recreational" things that you enjoy.

Tell her that you like snow sports (sure you live in a hot climate, and hey, you might even be black! but that's the beauty of it, us colored folks need to venture out more to more eccentric and left field activities that aren't typical for us - it raises eyebrows and induces intrigue/curiosity).

Even though i don't snow board, i tell her i do and that i'm awesome (even if i'm not). This is the kicker right here:

Proceed to tell her that you injured your knee last year and that there's a very unusual bump that people who have "loose knee caps" are more susceptible to injury.

Then you scoot right next to her and say, "As a matter of fact, women are even more prone to injuring themselves if they aren't careful doing extreme sports. Here let me show you."

You then take your hand, place it over leg (and trust me, if you do this right, she will out of curiosity, let you continue) and then start to gently squeeze and create circular motions around her knee and say, "You see that bump right there? If you aren't careful, your kneecap could twist out of position and it would really hurt."

And this is where you raise the bar a bit and show her true game with a dose of anatomical/scientific swag.

You move from her knee cap and slowly work your way up to the top of her knee and right at the bottom of her thigh and say,

"You see here? The bone right between the knee and the lower thigh right there is a soft spot and typically succumbs to many types of knee injuries, especially for women post menopause."

By this moment in time, she's not thinking about "Oh wow, i hope this doesn't happen to me one day. That would suck!"

She's actually getting turned on by your ability to gently caress her erogenous zone without being PERVERTED.

It's slick.

After you've spent about a good two minutes there,

FALL BACK! Right away.

Right then and there, you just pulled a "Cat and String" and she's wondering why you stopped. But the pivotal moment is your release and how seductive you were when you pryed yourself away (the wrong detachment could be grounds of creep status - but the right exit.... she's on lip-bite status and deems you a very sexual and intelligent creature).

What you do after this "kinetic" bout of playful gestures and invaluable doctoring-esque course in knee therapy... by the end of the date (granted you've continued to wow her with more interesting stories about work/life/summer-related ironies)... she'll be wanting you to move that hand higher and give her a detailed analysis on why she's so whet.


And that playboy... is up to you to achieve.


Game on, playboy.


Don't be scurred. She wants it just as bad as you do.


But do you have what it takes to "differentiate" yourself from other guys who have tried to vie for her attention and "retain" it in a way that leaves her yearning for more and making you the primary course on her carnal palette of passion and attraction?


If you were fortunate enough to get her to go out with you - make it count.


Be that guy.


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Howie Doroughberg said:
No... you came to the right place breaghamton.

I'll start small since you're just getting comfortable with the act of creating sexual tension/energy.

Touching a woman is correlated with your self confidence.

If she's giving you signals that she is strongly attracted to you and doing things such as:

1. Smiling A LOT
2. Crossing her legs in YOUR direction.
3. Constantly playing with her hair/tucking it behind her ears




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That kneecap swag :wow:
 
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ineedsleep212 said:
Anybody want to go into building sexual tension and flirting and all that? This isn't really what this thread is much about, but I have to ask as a true novice to this ish.

Went on a date yesterday and it went well, but I didn't feel like I built enough sexual tension or flirt enough. Plus even though I felt like there were opportunities to make moves, I didn't act (real bytchmade :sadbron:). The opportunities weren't straight up in my face, but they felt there. I know most of this will come to me better through practice and experience, but still. Ways to apply touch naturally would be useful too.


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Search google for "sixty years of challenge" or variations of that. Eventually you'll come up on some reading(ebooks) and audio material. That shyt is the Holy Grail of getting laid. Miles ahead of anything else in the "seduction/pua community". And best of all, it's very simple, anyone can do it, and you don't have to spend months navigating through the PUA community, dealing with negs, IOIs and all that there.

Enjoy, and thank me later.:takedat:
 
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Howie Doroughberg said:
No... you came to the right place breaghamton.

I'll start small since you're just getting comfortable with the act of creating sexual tension/energy.

Touching a woman is correlated with your self confidence.

If she's giving you signals that she is strongly attracted to you and doing things such as:

1. Smiling A LOT
2. Crossing her legs in YOUR direction.
3. Constantly playing with her hair/tucking it behind her ears

Or this one...

4. Touching YOU.

Those are direct signs that she's into you (they call 'em Indicators of Interests or IOI's - whatever you choose - i like to stress the importance of kinetic energy; it's the ability to create attraction with touch/movement).

This is where game is as essential as how you apply it (the worlds greatest dictators didn't influence people by what they said... but rather, how they say it. So in the game of dating, it's not about what you do with her... it's how you do it that will get her engines revving and admiring what you're bringing to the table).

For instance; this is what i used to do on dates before i switched it up (and the switch up will come when you've advanced enough, i will teach you step by step).

If you need a drink or two to get you loose enough to do this, then fine. I encourage it (just make certain you don't get shiit faced so that you can adjust and fine tune your method accordingly to how she's feeling you - it's something you can gauge via experience aka how receptive she is to you on a date).

You ready?

The tactic in example scenario, the first dinner/lounge meetup:


When you're sitting with babe at a table, let's say the dates going real well, you've had a couple of appetizers, consumed a couple beverages. This is when she starts to inquire about "recreational" things that you enjoy.

Tell her that you like snow sports (sure you live in a hot climate, and hey, you might even be black! but that's the beauty of it, us colored folks need to venture out more to more eccentric and left field activities that aren't typical for us - it raises eyebrows and induces intrigue/curiosity).

Even though i don't snow board, i tell her i do and that i'm awesome (even if i'm not). This is the kicker right here:

Proceed to tell her that you injured your knee last year and that there's a very unusual bump that people who have "loose knee caps" are more susceptible to injury.

Then you scoot right next to her and say, "As a matter of fact, women are even more prone to injuring themselves if they aren't careful doing extreme sports. Here let me show you."

You then take your hand, place it over leg (and trust me, if you do this right, she will out of curiosity, let you continue) and then start to gently squeeze and create circular motions around her knee and say, "You see that bump right there? If you aren't careful, your kneecap could twist out of position and it would really hurt."

And this is where you raise the bar a bit and show her true game with a dose of anatomical/scientific swag.

You move from her knee cap and slowly work your way up to the top of her knee and right at the bottom of her thigh and say,

"You see here? The bone right between the knee and the lower thigh right there is a soft spot and typically succumbs to many types of knee injuries, especially for women post menopause."

By this moment in time, she's not thinking about "Oh wow, i hope this doesn't happen to me one day. That would suck!"

She's actually getting turned on by your ability to gently caress her erogenous zone without being PERVERTED.

It's slick.

After you've spent about a good two minutes there,

FALL BACK! Right away.

Right then and there, you just pulled a "Cat and String" and she's wondering why you stopped. But the pivotal moment is your release and how seductive you were when you pryed yourself away (the wrong detachment could be grounds of creep status - but the right exit.... she's on lip-bite status and deems you a very sexual and intelligent creature).

What you do after this "kinetic" bout of playful gestures and invaluable doctoring-esque course in knee therapy... by the end of the date (granted you've continued to wow her with more interesting stories about work/life/summer-related ironies)... she'll be wanting you to move that hand higher and give her a detailed analysis on why she's so whet.


And that playboy... is up to you to achieve.


Game on, playboy.


Don't be scurred. She wants it just as bad as you do.


But do you have what it takes to "differentiate" yourself from other guys who have tried to vie for her attention and "retain" it in a way that leaves her yearning for more and making you the primary course on her carnal palette of passion and attraction?


If you were fortunate enough to get her to go out with you - make it count.


Be that guy.


.
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I read this off an article a while back. Don't be slick.
 
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