Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i dunno sometimes :snoop:

you think youve made good progress with a girl, had a good phone convo and the signs seem good. But then zipppp. Flatline and the girl is ignoring.u
I dont care how much you claim to be a bad texter. You cant be ignoring brehs :(.

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I prefer younger women because a lot of girls already have there heart set on a guy. see once a woman ever falls in love with a guy or bad boy...they are with them for ever. if they get someone else...notice its the same type of dude....


I don't trust so called exp women....most of them are using you for another man or just settling for security:manny:
 

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i dunno sometimes :snoop:

you think youve made good progress with a girl, had a good phone convo and the signs seem good. But then zipppp. Flatline and the girl is ignoring.u
I dont care how much you claim to be a bad texter. You cant be ignoring brehs :(.

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it sucks, it just shows you that women come and go. I've been there breh text a chick no reply, snoop her fb and shes updating her status through mobile and commeting and liking other photos.

if someone doesnt see me as valuable its bushes status.

I've been in enough relationships and dealt with enough women to know the ones who were into me longed for and appreciated whenever i contacted hem.

No matter how "hot" she is, ill delete that number and dont look back
 

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I prefer younger women because a lot of girls already have there heart set on a guy. see once a woman ever falls in love with a guy or bad boy...they are with them for ever. if they get someone else...notice its the same type of dude....


I don't trust so called exp women....most of them are using you for another man or just settling for security:manny:

emotional ties

ive already stated on here most chicks have One guy who can pop up whenever, no matter how many years etc. and smash, whether the baby daddy, first love, etc. etc.

more times than not its a ex, if your datin ga chick and she's friends with a ex dead that.
Don't even go on that let her choose type ish, just dead it.
 

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So Ive cut off all communication with my ex and just started focusing on my album. Ive been recording an album for the past two years and I got video out as well. Anyways long story short, I kept seeing my ex retweeting my album links, links to my video in all i guess in a effort to get rid of her guilt of dumping me. But its annoying because I'm trying get her out my mind and just focus on Urban nah mean? But we've been too interconnected with friends, social media, I even ran into her brother who lives around the corner from me. Its hard sometimes cause flashes of good memories still come into my head ever so often.

block her everywhere.

every time you talk to a ex, see her picture, hear about her, hear her voice, look at any social media when your not over her, it sets you back to day 1, its like a alcoholic just saying ah one drink won't bother me, a drug addict saying ah one gram of coke wont get me addicted or set me back but it will.

when your ready you will know it, i can see any o fmy exes now, look at their social media and its like :ehh: indifference, but do i want to be their friends? nope
 

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how would you describe a good woman?

loves Jesus, is a female and isn't ashamed of it (aka not trying to compete with a man) and is extremely loyal. Isn't going out every weekend. If someone was to ever talk down on me, she'd immediately rush to my defense... you know, basically treating her man as someone who is valued as opposed to a wallet on wheels. I can go really in depth, but that'll probably be a little later.

We all know what a quality woman is but just the basics are so rare that we are astounded when we see it.
 

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loves Jesus, is a female and isn't ashamed of it (aka not trying to compete with a man) and is extremely loyal. Isn't going out every weekend. If someone was to ever talk down on me, she'd immediately rush to my defense... you know, basically treating her man as someone who is valued as opposed to a wallet on wheels. I can go really in depth, but that'll probably be a little later.

We all know what a quality woman is but just the basics are so rare that we are astounded when we see it.

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block her everywhere.

every time you talk to a ex, see her picture, hear about her, hear her voice, look at any social media when your not over her, it sets you back to day 1, its like a alcoholic just saying ah one drink won't bother me, a drug addict saying ah one gram of coke wont get me addicted or set me back but it will.

when your ready you will know it, i can see any o fmy exes now, look at their social media and its like :ehh: indifference, but do i want to be their friends? nope

Im only "friends" with one ex who texts me on holidays and out the blue to see how I'm doing. She has a new bf who I'm assuming she is happy with and I got her on Facebook but she don't post much at all. But you're right, I see pics of her and her friends and it don't even register. I don't think my current ex understands the effects of her words. she thinks she doing me a favor by helping me promote my shyt but i dunno. its hard bro. its taking its time. i just want to move forward and enjoy single hood for a little bit. get my money up. travel a little. and then maybe once I'm good, start dating again
 

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Im only "friends" with one ex who texts me on holidays and out the blue to see how I'm doing. She has a new bf who I'm assuming she is happy with and I got her on Facebook but she don't post much at all. But you're right, I see pics of her and her friends and it don't even register. I don't think my current ex understands the effects of her words. she thinks she doing me a favor by helping me promote my shyt but i dunno. its hard bro. its taking its time. i just want to move forward and enjoy single hood for a little bit. get my money up. travel a little. and then maybe once I'm good, start dating again

yeah when you reach that point of seeing them with somene else and your like :ehh: or whatever.

and yu dont need her help, screw her, and yeah take your time there is no rush to get out there and date when your ready you will know
 

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So the 26 year old wanted to take me out tonight to dinner and she was paying for it :ehh: I told her I wouldn't be able to make it
 
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