you're not feeling the girl?So the 26 year old wanted to take me out tonight to dinner and she was paying for itI told her I wouldn't be able to make it
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Virtuous_Brotha
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hard as hell to find though a pretty chick will naturally draw "friends" in more than any other human being
a pretty loaner chick is unicorn status even if they quiet or shy
beauty is all subjective.
a chick that may be a 6 that has a quiet humble demeanour id be
even more than a chick whose a 9 whose all about clubbing drinking, loud and abrasive.fellas, what do you consider to be too much clubbing by a chick? and is this also determine by their age and if they have kids
a girl im talking to is 35 with no kids and she says she goes to a club with her homegirls atleast once a month at most 2
she says she use to up to about a year ago would go about 4 or so times a month
also do you consider a chick who was once engaged but never actually got married as too being married
a girl im talking to is 35 with no kids and she says she goes to a club with her homegirls atleast once a month at most 2
she says she use to up to about a year ago would go about 4 or so times a month
also do you consider a chick who was once engaged but never actually got married as too being married
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Brandeezy
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Where do ya'll find chicks outside of online and Tinder? I'm not attractive for both so real life is the only option. I don't do bars, clubs and parties though. I looked at the meet ups in my city but I don't have an interest for them 
no twitter, instagram
in public. the bus, walking through the hood, grocery store, school etc.Where do ya'll find chicks outside of online and Tinder? I'm not attractive for both so real life is the only option. I don't do bars, clubs and parties though. I looked at the meet ups in my city but I don't have an interest for them
bruh you need to know your crowd when you do looks dont matter. I've seen some of the most bum ass nikkas with good girls around their arms at the end of the day you need to get yours. Women will NOT approach you so forget about that happening shyt is jungle i used to think like you but that shyt does not get you anywhere.Where do ya'll find chicks outside of online and Tinder? I'm not attractive for both so real life is the only option. I don't do bars, clubs and parties though. I looked at the meet ups in my city but I don't have an interest for them
You should just go to bars clubs ect to steup for game and have some fun women can smell from a mile away that you are not getting any girls and clubs ect are a good start to talk to women.
At the end of the day to get women you need have women to get women, like i said women can feel it in you're not getting any women.
im sort of talking to this chick, anyways she got pissed because we were talking about shakira (dont ask) 
, and i said one of my exes looked like shakira and she was like no way show me. So I did and she got so upset because she couldn't compare in looks in her mind. I'm like
anyways today she tells me how she went out for lunch the other day with a old friend and he won't stop texting her now, of course i could have got angry, jealous, but i said how was the food been meaning to go there, in my mind she's already deleted 
can you believe it brehs she got mad because i once dated long ago a chick that looks shakira, i didnt say she looked worse than my ex, i dont even talk to my ex but just knowing that in he rmind I've been with a woman who she feels is more attractive than her, she had to go and have lunch with some guy friend
@Asantehene
, and i said one of my exes looked like shakira and she was like no way show me. So I did and she got so upset because she couldn't compare in looks in her mind. I'm like anyways today she tells me how she went out for lunch the other day with a old friend and he won't stop texting her now, of course i could have got angry, jealous, but i said
how was the food been meaning to go there, in my mind she's already deleted can you believe it brehs she got mad because i once dated long ago a chick that looks shakira, i didnt say she looked worse than my ex, i dont even talk to my ex but just knowing that in he rmind I've been with a woman who she feels is more attractive than her, she had to go and have lunch with some guy friend
@Asantehene
Where do ya'll find chicks outside of online and Tinder? I'm not attractive for both so real life is the only option. I don't do bars, clubs and parties though. I looked at the meet ups in my city but I don't have an interest for them
women are everywhere just do what you want to do and they will be there, thers no set area where to find women.
I've mentioned before I found a chick at 530am in the morning at a bus stop
the gamesim sort of talking to this chick, anyways she got pissed because we were talking about shakira (dont ask)
anyways today she tells me how she went out for lunch the other day with a old friend and he won't stop texting her now, of course i could have got angry, jealous, but i said
can you believe it brehs she got mad because i once dated long ago a chick that looks shakira, i didnt say she looked worse than my ex, i dont even talk to my ex but just knowing that in he rmind I've been with a woman who she feels is more attractive than her, she had to go and have lunch with some guy friend
@Asantehene
. the insecurities. These girls can be wack as hell sometimes breh. Right now I have my ex (only an ex because she moved) and another prospect from school. scouting report says both are blue chip prospects. The later is about a 7 in the looks department and a 9 personality wise. I'd say a 10 but I'm waiting to find something wrong with her first 
. Best of all...ZERO GAMES.There were some other prospects circling but i'm done trying to mack on these other girls who stay with the mixed signals though like the one whose number I just deleted. Thinking with my brain > my dikk /eyes now.
If you have a blue chip prospect with the intangibles hold on to it and develop it. Dont go for the atheltic JR Smith, Josh Smith types. It aint worth it.
@Emperor_ReinScarf your story kinda relates to something my brother (5 years older) told me back when I was like 18, 19. You have to dumb it down with these girls.
With me beiing an intelligent no-nonsense type he told me that girls my age look at me as somebody they cant chump over. It's like some sort of inferiority complex. Girls always tell me i'm cocky or condescending but they also tell me that I am wise. So if I am wise why cant you just listen to what I say because I know better and have your best interest in mind? Why does it have to be me being condescending as opposed to just giving advice? It's a complex. As a result they give up quickly and go for some other dumb dude they imagine they can control or take advantage of. It made a lot of sense to me...in the game you need to know how to play dumb. You cant show your whole skill-set too quick but have to ease into it. Set a low standard (thereby making it even easier for you to maintain) and then poof come with the triple threat post game they never thought you had leaving them like
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She sees a dime in your dating history and immediately thinks, "I have to live up to that standard" or "I cant use my prettiness to override him because he's used to it" etc etc. Self efficacy issues it looks like to me.
Bushess
With me beiing an intelligent no-nonsense type he told me that girls my age look at me as somebody they cant chump over. It's like some sort of inferiority complex. Girls always tell me i'm cocky or condescending but they also tell me that I am wise. So if I am wise why cant you just listen to what I say because I know better and have your best interest in mind? Why does it have to be me being condescending as opposed to just giving advice? It's a complex. As a result they give up quickly and go for some other dumb dude they imagine they can control or take advantage of. It made a lot of sense to me...in the game you need to know how to play dumb. You cant show your whole skill-set too quick but have to ease into it. Set a low standard (thereby making it even easier for you to maintain) and then poof come with the triple threat post game they never thought you had leaving them like
.She sees a dime in your dating history and immediately thinks, "I have to live up to that standard" or "I cant use my prettiness to override him because he's used to it" etc etc. Self efficacy issues it looks like to me.
BushessDreamzeedream
Banned
The audacity of some of these females
they think they can get away it, because they have in the past so many guys are simps especially if she's hot.
like i said i could have checked hr or got angry etc., she's just been deleted and in the bin now.
I love when red flags pop up just in the talking stage
She's alright I'm not head over heels for her I'm just scared she'll get attached and all affectionate after I smash and if I'm not really feeling a chick like that and she acts like what I just mentioned I get really weirded out and uncomfortable