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Took a shorty out last night, and when it was all said and done i had a great time with her. BUT I be feeling like such a trick afterwards paying for dinner/drinks (no matter how well the night goes). The bill wasnt even high either, i just dont like being used as a meal provider...

Ive been like that since college when i had no money and im still that way when i got some. Is that wrong?
Did you feel that she was taking advantage of you or you don't like the idea of paying for girls on dates?
 

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Too many to name plus I would have to go indepth about each one. Name some things in this thread were it seems like guys like drama or want it .....conscious or unconscious. Im not going to get into my theory on why I think women like drama or what not.
As far as drama is concerned...I believe many men like drama and have the same motivations than women for it but different approach. They have a girlfriend...they get bored with the relationship or are not fulfilled sexually so they get a sidechick. At this point why not be honest with your partner and end the relationship?
The girl they are talking to have girlfriend with who the guys hangs around and jumps at the opportunity of getting with one of those girls creating a huge wedge between the friendship or just messing the dynamic.
To hear you guys tell it; women are the only ones who like excitement both men and women get bored of another and can look for something to revive the relationship or feel wanted again.
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I've alwaysed said women need to learn about men from men and not the girlefriends that claim to know everything . My thing is women real dont understand a mans perspective ...women only care about there perspective. ...
 

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I've alwaysed said women need to learn about men from men and not the girlefriends that claim to know everything . My thing is women real dont understand a mans perspective ...women only care about there perspective. ...
Women don't even care about their girls perspective let alone a man
 

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I've alwaysed said women need to learn about men from men and not the girlefriends that claim to know everything . My thing is women real dont understand a mans perspective ...women only care about there perspective. ...
I agree hence why I said to @Emperor_ReinScarf that this is its equivalent. Men also have their own perspective on women which they want to keep unchallenged. The thing is they don't have books, seminars etc...on how yo improve their relationships with the opposite sex to the same extent that women do.
Or it takes the approach of how to get women without really getting into how to build meaningful relationship with women. I have learned a lot on this forum and I admit that I don't give uh you guys enough credit. However, you have just as much to learn about women as women do about men. :stopitslime:
 

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hopefully you're around for this.


To the brehs of this thread
Before I was every member of the coli or began posting Ive always had interest in woman and how they function or even better understand mens biggest faliure in relation to woman .Ive had my fair share of heart breaks as which I think is what motivates most men along with the idea of just wanting to enjoy a womans company minus the bs. When I first started reading this thread specifically I was amazed by it so amazed I went threw every page mind you ive been reading since @Sharp was posting i dont no how long thats been . When I was reading some of you guys was funny , some very philosophical and yeah some of you brehs was just plain brianless and reckless in what you post.

I wanna help the brehs in this thread ive always been a fan of monolog or dialog. In the last few months thoe ive felt that the thread has been missing something. I say that cause its ALOT of great material in here but how man brehs is practicing this material(?) and not just for women , but for the improvement of ones selfand life . And then an idea came to me one day when I was sitting and just doing some personal writing .....

Starting late JANUARY I will start approaching woman but to make it intresting In instead of just posting in this thread im going to post the field reports. I havent put it all together but here is what it MAY look like.

Female Name or Nickname :
Age :
Profession:
Background/Ethnic:

what she look like: ( yes only cearting brehs will get pics ...some of you coli nikkas is wolves )

What i learned from this experience :

This is just a sample but you it can change the more i get comfortable I get with the feild post.

Ive tossed this idea around for some weeks . Let me know yals opinion do you like it do you hate. My last posting will be friday. Im be pretty busy with my life and just trying to strive to make my life the best it can be . I dont think we born into this life to be average but to be great spiritually , career , family etc.
Yup, I am around and I've read all your posts.
 

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Lol that's not what I asked. If you don't pay on dates, you should say that. I doubt this is the equivalent of some civil rights activism. Is your position based on the femininist movement?
Yes and no. I only pay for myself. I am an mra and believe women should pay for their own food.
 

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If you have a problem with my posts then don't post on a public messageboard, you donkey. If you are intention is to learn about women you will never figure them out sitting with a bunch of men talking about them.
This is the equivalent of women reading magazines and girl talk on men behavior, I'd rather go to the source. Besides, I wasn't talking to you.
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Your problem is you think you know more than you actually do and are too arrogant to admit that you are learning about relationships through your experiences like everyone else is. You claim your approach is the absolute truth...thing is people are complex and are not so cut and dry. You have said some things that are insightful but you are too pompous and that comes across in your post, as if you are making up for something that you lack.
You don't come across very confident to me...and many of your post are full of your own biases due to the women that you have met..have you ever thought that your lack of success with women may be due to your own approach/personality cause in all your relationships you are the only constant. And as we all know sometimes it is us and not the other person.:mjpls:

again why dont you stfu, ive been posting here since day 1 there is a reason i have the most daps on this forum and the most daps in this thread. YOu don't know me, or my life or my experiences.

Let's see who advice a man should take. A man whose actually been with numerous women or a woman whose only advice is to shame man

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go post in the ladies random thots thread thot
 
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