Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I think men love drama equally if not more. Considering the things they do in relationships or to get sex
Rich Spirit
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the stuff that I hear you guys post tells me you guys love drama whether consciously or subconsciously
Youseenmywork
KING
. I'm older so fukk all that drama . I just wish men and women alike would just stay in they places ...I don't wanna be a women but I can say there are certain patterns that each women posses. I'm philosophically about EVERYTHING . If a women as me a question I can answer it but it's not going to be something most women wanna hear male honest is misogyny.
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Youseenmywork
KING
You said women cannot handle a mans truth so give me examples.
CanesMiamiLakers
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I can't make a tinder cause I don't have a fb
Youseenmywork
KING
Youseenmywork
KING
@Yup this one of the reasons men are frustrated by women ....
@Emperor_ReinScarf you will like this post
These are long but worth it ....
Anti-Dump's Machine (Part II: More Interest Level)Let us say you set up a date. And the woman does not like your date idea! Heavens no, what should we say to her, Anti-Dump?
Quote:It doesn't matter WHAT you say. You will never speak to her again.
Okay, I say "Sorry, I'm not interested. Take care." Then I hang up.
Anytime a women wants to change your initial approach, just counter with "I'm not interested" then counter-offer.
You: Let's do dinner Saturday.
Her: I feel like bowling.
You: I'm not interested in bowling. Let's do pool.
Remember this is ONLY for the first and second date. And it's a test of interest to see if she follows your lead the SECOND time.
If she doesn't follow with the second request, say "Listen.Let's do this another time. Take care."
Then don't call back. She is too INFLEXABLE to date.
But what if she asks, “Sure i'd like to go, but could you call me that day a few hours before to confirm?" and the variances to that?
Don Steele, the author of several dating books, decided to answer this,
Quote:say, "Maybe we should get together some other time instead when you're able to be more sure of your schedule." Cause if you let her do that, She's playin ya, taken you for granted, and looking for a way to blow-you off at the last minute...AND THAT SUX! Been there, done that.
However, I see what she did as a TEST of the Steel Content of your balls. Women have to find out if you are a Boy or a Man capable of protecting and providing. If you are a Boy, she is immediately NOT INTERESTED in sending her DNA into the future with you!
I teach and preach that Men have to accept that female will test them. Don't assume she's a game player or taking you for granted. Assume that SHE IS INTERESTED and therefore SHE IS TESTING to see if you are WORTHY. Boys ain't. Men might be. There will be more tests and after that still more tests.
BondjamesBond comments with the following,
Quote:Speaking for myself, I never had a problem with confirmation calls.....I use to do it all the time. But it was always me who said that I would call about a day or so ahead of time to make certain things were still on. It was my own little test. If they acted even the least bit half-hearted or wanted to back out then I dropped them like a bad habit and never gave them a second thought again. Only once did I excuse a chick for not being able to show......She had to go to the hospital because of an attack of appendicitis. So things do happen.
I can't tell you the number of times some broads would call me again and again trying to set something back up after I felt they burned me. But they all got the same response-----CLICK------
I think a confirmation call can be reasonable within limits that you, yourself , set.
But don't ever break rule #1.......
Never, never, NEVER, kiss a woman's @ss!
Now let us observe a conversation between Anti-Dump and the Nice Guy. The Nice Guy cannot understand why his girlfriend, who he thought to be a ‘good girl’ and all, went back to her ex.
For your reading pleasure, Italics will be the Nice Guy while Anti-Dump will be in the quotes.
Quote:The only thing you are 'reckless' about is your manly pride.
You have been DUMPED and you don't see it!
now he wants her back and
she has decided to "give it one more try"
Quote:That, my friend is a DUMP. You are out of her ROMANTIC life forever. When a woman 'goes back
to her boyfriend' she has decided you are not for her. She has 'tasted' your flavor and has LOW interest romantically for you.
It's LOW. She could come back but she will BREAK UP with you again. Because romantically it's low.
which I kind of understand.
Quote:Only confused, clueless, no balls nice guys understand
a girl dumping him and going back with an EX.
You came to the right place.
We'll make a Don Juan out of you yet.
The problem is she still likes me but wants us to "be friends".
Quote:Yea, she likes you 'a little'. Not good enough for a Don Juan. She has to be crazy about you. She has to want to marry you.
In short she has to have HIGH interest.
I'm wondering if he came back on the scene cos he suddenly realised that he wasnt the only one that could have her.
Quote:Doesn't matter. When she said 'I have decided to go back' she revealed her LOW interest in you.
It wasnt an easy decision for her, crying about it,etc.....
Quote:This is where the nice guys TOTALLY FAIL . It was EASY for her to dump you. She has 10 times the romantic feelings for her EX than you. That was easy.
The hard part was HURTING YOU.
She knows she cares little for you. She knows she started someting she can never finish. She didn't 'cry' for you. She is not 'torn' between you and the EX.
She cried because she is DUMPING YOU!
You nice guys need a lot of work.
Remember, I used to be in your shoes.
My question is - how do i get her to realise that he will just **** her around
Quote:Why do you care? She will never be your girlfriend. Once a women leaves you, you are OUT romantically forever. No chance.
or how do i get out of this friends ****.
Quote:Impossible. It's over friend. She is giving you false hope. Remember, she will dump you AGAIN if you get back. Because of the low interest.
She even told me the other day i was making her horny
Quote:She is horny because her EX isn't around to please her. IF she wanted it from you, she would have ripped your clothes off.
Six months is a longtime to wait.
Yet she didn't ask you to bang her. Very bad sign.
she is confused, but what can i do?
Quote:SHE IS NOT CONFUSED! Nice guys got it all wrong. She wants her EX and not you. That is confused?
Not!
Do I ignore her totally which will be pretty hard and lose her friendship,
or keep up the innuendo,etc in hope that she may come back???
Quote:Turn her into a friend. But get out there and start asking for numbers. Don't let her give you false hope again. Don't get sucked back in.
Date others.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR? Perhaps this has happened to you. The girl was just stringing him along to make her ex jealous. Yes, women do use guys like this.
Now why do we men have such a hard time dealing with female interest? It is because we over-think things.
Peak says,
Quote:Ok guys Anti-Dump said this of-the-cuff like in one of his posts and I thought it needed to be painted in the sky, so that we could all look up and remember this!!!
Please stop looking for a green light to move ahead. Never look for 'signs' of her liking you.
You will never get into a women's head. Don't even try. Stop trying to 'read' women. It is a waste of time. Ask her out. Then you will know for SURE. Her actions are something you can get a handle on.
A smile and a friendly look is all you need to make your approach.
You ask me if this is really true???
Look, learn from my mistakes. In the past I had girls that really liked me for ages before I had the guts to ask them out. Their response was over the moon when I finally did! I had absolutely no idea that so many girls actually liked me...yes in that warm and gooey wet kind of way. I was clueless...but not anymore!
Anti-Dump adds,
Quote:As Peak said in his very first post "stop overthinking it"!
Men are NOT women. Take off the dress guys.
It is WOMEN that wonder if a guy likes them before anything happens. Men have somehow picked up this bad habit from women.
The thought of whether she likes you should never cross your mind. It is not important BEFORE you ask for the number. The important thing is you WANTING her. Always ask yourself "Do I want this one?". And the answer should be "Wow. Boy do I!"
That is all you need to know.
Real men TAKE what they want.
And ask questions later.
@Emperor_ReinScarf you will like this post
These are long but worth it ....
Anti-Dump's Machine (Part II: More Interest Level)Let us say you set up a date. And the woman does not like your date idea! Heavens no, what should we say to her, Anti-Dump?
Quote:It doesn't matter WHAT you say. You will never speak to her again.
Okay, I say "Sorry, I'm not interested. Take care." Then I hang up.
Anytime a women wants to change your initial approach, just counter with "I'm not interested" then counter-offer.
You: Let's do dinner Saturday.
Her: I feel like bowling.
You: I'm not interested in bowling. Let's do pool.
Remember this is ONLY for the first and second date. And it's a test of interest to see if she follows your lead the SECOND time.
If she doesn't follow with the second request, say "Listen.Let's do this another time. Take care."
Then don't call back. She is too INFLEXABLE to date.
But what if she asks, “Sure i'd like to go, but could you call me that day a few hours before to confirm?" and the variances to that?
Don Steele, the author of several dating books, decided to answer this,
Quote:say, "Maybe we should get together some other time instead when you're able to be more sure of your schedule." Cause if you let her do that, She's playin ya, taken you for granted, and looking for a way to blow-you off at the last minute...AND THAT SUX! Been there, done that.
However, I see what she did as a TEST of the Steel Content of your balls. Women have to find out if you are a Boy or a Man capable of protecting and providing. If you are a Boy, she is immediately NOT INTERESTED in sending her DNA into the future with you!
I teach and preach that Men have to accept that female will test them. Don't assume she's a game player or taking you for granted. Assume that SHE IS INTERESTED and therefore SHE IS TESTING to see if you are WORTHY. Boys ain't. Men might be. There will be more tests and after that still more tests.
BondjamesBond comments with the following,
Quote:Speaking for myself, I never had a problem with confirmation calls.....I use to do it all the time. But it was always me who said that I would call about a day or so ahead of time to make certain things were still on. It was my own little test. If they acted even the least bit half-hearted or wanted to back out then I dropped them like a bad habit and never gave them a second thought again. Only once did I excuse a chick for not being able to show......She had to go to the hospital because of an attack of appendicitis. So things do happen.
I can't tell you the number of times some broads would call me again and again trying to set something back up after I felt they burned me. But they all got the same response-----CLICK------
I think a confirmation call can be reasonable within limits that you, yourself , set.
But don't ever break rule #1.......
Never, never, NEVER, kiss a woman's @ss!
Now let us observe a conversation between Anti-Dump and the Nice Guy. The Nice Guy cannot understand why his girlfriend, who he thought to be a ‘good girl’ and all, went back to her ex.
For your reading pleasure, Italics will be the Nice Guy while Anti-Dump will be in the quotes.
Quote:The only thing you are 'reckless' about is your manly pride.
You have been DUMPED and you don't see it!
now he wants her back and
she has decided to "give it one more try"
Quote:That, my friend is a DUMP. You are out of her ROMANTIC life forever. When a woman 'goes back
to her boyfriend' she has decided you are not for her. She has 'tasted' your flavor and has LOW interest romantically for you.
It's LOW. She could come back but she will BREAK UP with you again. Because romantically it's low.
which I kind of understand.
Quote:Only confused, clueless, no balls nice guys understand
a girl dumping him and going back with an EX.
You came to the right place.
We'll make a Don Juan out of you yet.
The problem is she still likes me but wants us to "be friends".
Quote:Yea, she likes you 'a little'. Not good enough for a Don Juan. She has to be crazy about you. She has to want to marry you.
In short she has to have HIGH interest.
I'm wondering if he came back on the scene cos he suddenly realised that he wasnt the only one that could have her.
Quote:Doesn't matter. When she said 'I have decided to go back' she revealed her LOW interest in you.
It wasnt an easy decision for her, crying about it,etc.....
Quote:This is where the nice guys TOTALLY FAIL . It was EASY for her to dump you. She has 10 times the romantic feelings for her EX than you. That was easy.
The hard part was HURTING YOU.
She knows she cares little for you. She knows she started someting she can never finish. She didn't 'cry' for you. She is not 'torn' between you and the EX.
She cried because she is DUMPING YOU!
You nice guys need a lot of work.
Remember, I used to be in your shoes.
My question is - how do i get her to realise that he will just **** her around
Quote:Why do you care? She will never be your girlfriend. Once a women leaves you, you are OUT romantically forever. No chance.
or how do i get out of this friends ****.
Quote:Impossible. It's over friend. She is giving you false hope. Remember, she will dump you AGAIN if you get back. Because of the low interest.
She even told me the other day i was making her horny
Quote:She is horny because her EX isn't around to please her. IF she wanted it from you, she would have ripped your clothes off.
Six months is a longtime to wait.
Yet she didn't ask you to bang her. Very bad sign.
she is confused, but what can i do?
Quote:SHE IS NOT CONFUSED! Nice guys got it all wrong. She wants her EX and not you. That is confused?
Not!
Do I ignore her totally which will be pretty hard and lose her friendship,
or keep up the innuendo,etc in hope that she may come back???
Quote:Turn her into a friend. But get out there and start asking for numbers. Don't let her give you false hope again. Don't get sucked back in.
Date others.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR? Perhaps this has happened to you. The girl was just stringing him along to make her ex jealous. Yes, women do use guys like this.
Now why do we men have such a hard time dealing with female interest? It is because we over-think things.
Peak says,
Quote:Ok guys Anti-Dump said this of-the-cuff like in one of his posts and I thought it needed to be painted in the sky, so that we could all look up and remember this!!!
Please stop looking for a green light to move ahead. Never look for 'signs' of her liking you.
You will never get into a women's head. Don't even try. Stop trying to 'read' women. It is a waste of time. Ask her out. Then you will know for SURE. Her actions are something you can get a handle on.
A smile and a friendly look is all you need to make your approach.
You ask me if this is really true???
Look, learn from my mistakes. In the past I had girls that really liked me for ages before I had the guts to ask them out. Their response was over the moon when I finally did! I had absolutely no idea that so many girls actually liked me...yes in that warm and gooey wet kind of way. I was clueless...but not anymore!
Anti-Dump adds,
Quote:As Peak said in his very first post "stop overthinking it"!
Men are NOT women. Take off the dress guys.
It is WOMEN that wonder if a guy likes them before anything happens. Men have somehow picked up this bad habit from women.
The thought of whether she likes you should never cross your mind. It is not important BEFORE you ask for the number. The important thing is you WANTING her. Always ask yourself "Do I want this one?". And the answer should be "Wow. Boy do I!"
That is all you need to know.
Real men TAKE what they want.
And ask questions later.
Youseenmywork
KING
Something I live by
Be confident. Be satisfied with yourself. Be patient, wait for what you want. Be independent, not desperate. Keep improving yourself, keep growing, keep broadening your horizons, keep trying new things, so that you've always got something exciting about you to be mysterious about. Do not implicitly trust anyone - trust is earned and not given. RESPECT women, but do not allow YOURSELF to be disrespected either. Either call people (women AND men) on their bullsh|t, or get them out of your life and laugh as you walk away. You should probably do both. If someone hurts you, milk it for the lessons and move on as best you can. If you have to grieve, then do so, but don't wallow in it.
I'm starting to think the most important way to maintain a woman's IL (intrest level)is by improving yourself and respecting yourself FIRST.
Be confident. Be satisfied with yourself. Be patient, wait for what you want. Be independent, not desperate. Keep improving yourself, keep growing, keep broadening your horizons, keep trying new things, so that you've always got something exciting about you to be mysterious about. Do not implicitly trust anyone - trust is earned and not given. RESPECT women, but do not allow YOURSELF to be disrespected either. Either call people (women AND men) on their bullsh|t, or get them out of your life and laugh as you walk away. You should probably do both. If someone hurts you, milk it for the lessons and move on as best you can. If you have to grieve, then do so, but don't wallow in it.
I'm starting to think the most important way to maintain a woman's IL (intrest level)is by improving yourself and respecting yourself FIRST.
Youseenmywork
KING
@Yup
hopefully you're around for this.
To the brehs of this thread
Before I was every member of the coli or began posting Ive always had interest in woman and how they function or even better understand mens biggest faliure in relation to woman .Ive had my fair share of heart breaks as which I think is what motivates most men along with the idea of just wanting to enjoy a womans company minus the bs. When I first started reading this thread specifically I was amazed by it so amazed I went threw every page mind you ive been reading since @Sharp was posting i dont no how long thats been . When I was reading some of you guys was funny , some very philosophical and yeah some of you brehs was just plain brianless and reckless in what you post.
I wanna help the brehs in this thread ive always been a fan of monolog or dialog. In the last few months thoe ive felt that the thread has been missing something. I say that cause its ALOT of great material in here but how man brehs is practicing this material(?) and not just for women , but for the improvement of ones selfand life . And then an idea came to me one day when I was sitting and just doing some personal writing .....
Starting late JANUARY I will start approaching woman but to make it intresting In instead of just posting in this thread im going to post the field reports. I havent put it all together but here is what it MAY look like.
Female Name or Nickname :
Age :
Profession:
Background/Ethnic:
what she look like: ( yes only cearting brehs will get pics ...some of you coli nikkas is wolves )
What i learned from this experience :
This is just a sample but you it can change the more i get comfortable I get with the feild post.
Ive tossed this idea around for some weeks . Let me know yals opinion do you like it do you hate. My last posting will be friday. Im be pretty busy with my life and just trying to strive to make my life the best it can be . I dont think we born into this life to be average but to be great spiritually , career , family etc.
hopefully you're around for this.
To the brehs of this thread
Before I was every member of the coli or began posting Ive always had interest in woman and how they function or even better understand mens biggest faliure in relation to woman .Ive had my fair share of heart breaks as which I think is what motivates most men along with the idea of just wanting to enjoy a womans company minus the bs. When I first started reading this thread specifically I was amazed by it so amazed I went threw every page mind you ive been reading since @Sharp was posting i dont no how long thats been . When I was reading some of you guys was funny , some very philosophical and yeah some of you brehs was just plain brianless and reckless in what you post.
I wanna help the brehs in this thread ive always been a fan of monolog or dialog. In the last few months thoe ive felt that the thread has been missing something. I say that cause its ALOT of great material in here but how man brehs is practicing this material(?) and not just for women , but for the improvement of ones selfand life . And then an idea came to me one day when I was sitting and just doing some personal writing .....
Starting late JANUARY I will start approaching woman but to make it intresting In instead of just posting in this thread im going to post the field reports. I havent put it all together but here is what it MAY look like.
Female Name or Nickname :
Age :
Profession:
Background/Ethnic:
what she look like: ( yes only cearting brehs will get pics ...some of you coli nikkas is wolves )
What i learned from this experience :
This is just a sample but you it can change the more i get comfortable I get with the feild post.
Ive tossed this idea around for some weeks . Let me know yals opinion do you like it do you hate. My last posting will be friday. Im be pretty busy with my life and just trying to strive to make my life the best it can be . I dont think we born into this life to be average but to be great spiritually , career , family etc.
Youseenmywork
KING
Some of the things I hear women say or see them do ...I wish I could make a documentary about.