Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Man its crazy and that girl smashed my heart like no other broad did.

I can say right now cutting her out of my life was one of the best things I ever did.


Now I have a zero ex rule.

Its just not worth it, she gets her cake ala you without commitment or exclusivety. And you get stress and all that


Once I'm done with a girl she's now dead to me.

A girl dumps me today I say allright.

We can be friends I don't want to lose you.

Sure!!

And well that's it. You'll never hear from me again

Exactly what happened. 5 years passed I'm thinking I'm skraight and all that and after about a few convo's and talking to her I done fell right back into those feelings.

 

[Mr210]

Just broke up with my girl. Feels horrible, brehs.

How long were y'all dating

 

[MikelArteta]

Mentioned this in another thread but the women of today don't want to build with you, you gotta have a car, your own place, a good career to even get sniffed by most women of today.

Back in the day women would build with you,
I remember my mom telling me when she married my dad, all my dad had was a roach infested apartment and was taking the bus making min wage, mom was in school for nursing, but they built together went through the GOOD AND THE BAD TIMES.

The number 1 reason for divorce is finances, if you've never been with someone when they had a little or when they weren't unemployed or struggling with debt etc. how are you going to react when they get laid off, or the house foreclosed have to downsize?

Many women can't handle that change in lifestyle as chris rock would say.

I'm not saying that women should be getting with bums and deadbeats etc., i'm just saying women don't want to be with you at the front of the assembly line only at the end.

 

[Swing]

Anyone know why chicks go through the "let's just be friends first that's how relationships start" mindset for I never understood that

My guess...She prob gave it up too soon a couple of times before and shyt didnt work... or, she got other prospects she's talkin to...

 

[kevm3]

If you're having a hard time getting over a girl, think about a time before you were with her. You were fine, were you not? We all go through those feelings when we break up, but the key is to learn to accept them and then let the feelings go. Nobody is super special and is 'the one.' More than anything, you have to let time expire to get those feelings out of your system, and you'll realize you'll be feeling great about another woman soon.

 

[MikelArteta]

If you're having a hard time getting over a girl, think about a time before you were with her. You were fine, were you not? We all go through those feelings when we break up, but the key is to learn to accept them and then let the feelings go. Nobody is super special and is 'the one.' More than anything, you have to let time expire to get those feelings out of your system, and you'll realize you'll be feeling great about another woman soon.

and more than likely the next women will be better.

I rememebr being engaged breaking up with my fiance and thinking I would never get over her, I was with her for 3 years, my first love, lost my virginity to her, was going to marry her. She was sexy and smart (shes actually a math professor at a university now). But as the years have went on I've dated hotter women, women who were smarter, women I connected ona level with more, and the main key is I got so much wiser not to put up with ish i used to.

I keep telling folks go 3 months with no communication, no checking fb, instagram, no text messages, no masturbating to her at night, no looking at her pictures and you will feel 99% better

 

[kevm3]

The Ray Rice situation is just another encapsulation of what we've been talking about in this thread. Rice knocks her out and she chooses to STAY. She'll be with her bad boy until it's too expensive to stay any longer, ie, he beats her even worse or he loses his money. The dating scene is so moronic these days. You have to be a sociopath to keep some of these women interested... hence why I repeatedly say take your focus off of women and do something else. You can go play the drama circus to keep her around, but be prepared for prison, stress and the such. Nah, better just move on. If any woman you are dealing with can't tolerate being in a drama-free relationship, keep it moving. Never enter into the drama circus.

 

[MikelArteta]

The Ray Rice situation is just another encapsulation of what we've been talking about in this thread. Rice knocks her out and she chooses to STAY. She'll be with her bad boy until it's too expensive to stay any longer, ie, he beats her even worse or he loses his money. The dating scene is so moronic these days. You have to be a sociopath to keep some of these women interested... hence why I repeatedly say take your focus off of women and do something else. You can go play the drama circus to keep her around, but be prepared for prison, stress and the such. Nah, better just move on. If any woman you are dealing with can't tolerate being in a drama-free relationship, keep it moving. Never enter into the drama circus.

yep
its the old adage of seeing a woman and her guy fighting and you go over there on some don't you hit her only for her to start attacking you or help him beat you up.

With many of these women you can't win, don't even waste your time, because if you treat her good, she'll be texting her girl how your boring, predictable, ain't giving her the tingles like ray ray did..

It reminds me of one of my acquaintances who after being cheated on, abused, used in every relationship finally found a decent guy, but she ended up cheating on the decent guy because in her words "she was scared, she wasn't used to being treated this good" . While the losers she messed with got loyalty the one good guy gets played.

but but don't worry about a woman's past they say

 

[DaRealness]

More 'nice guy' rewards:

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jan...-but-I-still-sleep-with-my-boss-and-other-men

Spoiler

DURING our fortnight in Spain I sneaked off and had sex with three other guys.

My boyfriend never knew. I'd wait until he was asleep and slip out of our hotel room.

I met one waiter in the bushes behind the pool and an extremely naughty rep on the beach.

The resulting sex was awesome. There was another holidaymaker - a gorgeous Geordie - who I bonked back in his villa.

He gave me a love bite that I had to pretend was a mosquito bite. I shoved a plaster over it and my boyfriend was none the wiser.

Now we're back and I've resumed my affair with my boss. He and I creep back here for quickies at lunchtimes and romp on the bed in the spare room.

My fella never usually goes in there but the other day he started rummaging around for an old T-shirt. He said he wanted something to wash the car in.

My heart was in my mouth. I was terrified he was going to spot some incriminating evidence - a used tissue in the bin, a stain on the sheets - anything to show I'd been in there with my lover.

Luckily I got away with it but why do I do these things? Why do I play fast and loose when I have a lovely, reliable bloke at home? He shares his money and our sex life is good. The other day he surprised me by paying off my credit card bill, yet I always have to live on the edge.

 

[MikelArteta]

Get married brehs

Good faithful guy gotta deal with her bs, pay off her cc bill, prob paid for the trip as well.

Yet everyone else gets it for free

More 'nice guy' rewards:

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jan...-but-I-still-sleep-with-my-boss-and-other-men

Spoiler

DURING our fortnight in Spain I sneaked off and had sex with three other guys.

My boyfriend never knew. I'd wait until he was asleep and slip out of our hotel room.

I met one waiter in the bushes behind the pool and an extremely naughty rep on the beach.

The resulting sex was awesome. There was another holidaymaker - a gorgeous Geordie - who I bonked back in his villa.

He gave me a love bite that I had to pretend was a mosquito bite. I shoved a plaster over it and my boyfriend was none the wiser.

Now we're back and I've resumed my affair with my boss. He and I creep back here for quickies at lunchtimes and romp on the bed in the spare room.

My fella never usually goes in there but the other day he started rummaging around for an old T-shirt. He said he wanted something to wash the car in.

My heart was in my mouth. I was terrified he was going to spot some incriminating evidence - a used tissue in the bin, a stain on the sheets - anything to show I'd been in there with my lover.

Luckily I got away with it but why do I do these things? Why do I play fast and loose when I have a lovely, reliable bloke at home? He shares his money and our sex life is good. The other day he surprised me by paying off my credit card bill, yet I always have to live on the edge.

 

[Youseenmywork]

A thread needs to be started on how women abuse men physiologically but I think it would go over a lot of peoples head . Patrice hinted at it a lot on the black phillip show . Oh and for what its worth rumor on twitter is ray rice got a side chic and that is why his wife got her swing on. I knew something was missing I was looking up when the incident transpired up to now and somethings just seem...well out of place.

Women abuse us they just do it differently.

 

[kevm3]

That wasn't the first time Ray hit her. That's part of a pattern. How she reacted to her spitting on him. A woman not used to do that would have rushed up in his face and started screaming. She sort of hit him lightly and kept walking. A dude acting out of rage doesn't wait until they get into a secluded location to start punching. That's a dude that has done that before. Ray is scum and she's a sorry woman for staying with him and defending him. I don't feel sorry for either one of them. Who I feel sorry for is the kids who will eventually have to sit and watch their parents fighting and hitting each other. That is who is really going to suffer.

This type of situation is nothing new. Look at Godfather, in which MIchael took out his sister's abusive husband. She got mad at Michael. Some of these women are exactly where they want to be when it comes to their abusive situations, as sad as that is to say.

The thing is, you don't allow yourself to get pulled into the drama circus. If you got to beat on a woman or you feel like you want to beat on her because she's messing with you in some form or fashion, cut your ties with her. Limit your interactions with her as much as possible. I don't care if the drama circus keeps this broad around. Why would you want a woman that is attracted to that in the first place? When the ride is over, the one who will ultimately lose is you when you are in jail. Ray got on the ride and his career is over.

 

[kevm3]

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[MikelArteta]

A thread needs to be started on how women abuse men physiologically but I think it would go over a lot of peoples head . Patrice hinted at it a lot on the black phillip show . Oh and for what its worth rumor on twitter is ray rice got a side chic and that is why his wife got her swing on. I knew something was missing I was looking up when the incident transpired up to now and somethings just seem...well out of place.

Women abuse us they just do it differently.

supposedly there is a longer tape with audio that shows them arguing beforehand.

both are messed up in my opinion.

 

[MikelArteta]

That wasn't the first time Ray hit her. That's part of a pattern. How she reacted to her spitting on him. A woman not used to do that would have rushed up in his face and started screaming. She sort of hit him lightly and kept walking. A dude acting out of rage doesn't wait until they get into a secluded location to start punching. That's a dude that has done that before. Ray is scum and she's a sorry woman for staying with him and defending him. I don't feel sorry for either one of them. Who I feel sorry for is the kids who will eventually have to sit and watch their parents fighting and hitting each other. That is who is really going to suffer.

This type of situation is nothing new. Look at Godfather, in which MIchael took out his sister's abusive husband. She got mad at Michael. Some of these women are exactly where they want to be when it comes to their abusive situations, as sad as that is to say.

The thing is, you don't allow yourself to get pulled into the drama circus. If you got to beat on a woman or you feel like you want to beat on her because she's messing with you in some form or fashion, cut your ties with her. Limit your interactions with her as much as possible. I don't care if the drama circus keeps this broad around. Why would you want a woman that is attracted to that in the first place? When the ride is over, the one who will ultimately lose is you when you are in jail. Ray got on the ride and his career is over.

I remember that, even led to sonny getting merked.

Many women don't want to be saved, just like the woman married to her husband.