Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I'm afflicted with the oneitis right now. Can't keep my mind off this chick.

DON'T DO IT

this is why you can't live with or be near exes, you'll always fall for em

I was literally strung along for 5 years by an ex till i said no mas and cut her off, trust me its noth worth it

 

[Atlrocafella]

How to not sound boring during texts?

Need some help.. This girl gave me her number Saturday inside the club .. I didn't even have to do any work..

We were talking half the day yesterday. She initiated the first text .. Guess got tired of waiting for me to text her.. But I think by the end of the night, I might have bored her.. Cause I was just asking her the typical questions like what kinda girl she is etc etc

I want her to validate herself so that it comes off that I'm the one deciding that If she's worth it and not the other way around. Most of the time, the guy does all the chasing and smothers the girl to the point where she thinks he is desperate. And that just kills of the attraction ..

How quickly should I ask her to come out?

Too much texting in my opinion. You should of just called her or set something up in person that way the conversation can flow naturally instead of the generic questions that happens through text.

 

[MikelArteta]

i just want to say i havent been in vancouver in 3 months yet the girl i met out there still texts me every day

again how many times do i have to bring up this story

http://www.thestar.com/news/immigra...s_brampton_bride_brokenhearted_and_broke.html

Standen says she met Gonzalez on vacation at the Club Amigo resort in Guardalavaca in April 2010, where he worked as an entertainer. The two fell in love and she travelled back and forth 10 times to be with him. She married him in January 2012 and filed for sponsorship.

“I loaded his phone with money so he could text me. I called him every day, twice a day. I sent him and his family $60 to $80 every two weeks. I got them cooking utensils, jeans and spices,” Standen says, teary.

“I stayed with him at his parents’ house. They said they loved me and he always put me on the phone with them. Before I leave, there are always tears in everyone’s eyes.”

if a woman likes you she will show interest, you don't have to pay games, act all bravado etc. etc. etc. if she has that connection to you just sit back be yourself and enjoy it

 

[Fatboi1]

DON'T DO IT

this is why you can't live with or be near exes, you'll always fall for em

I was literally strung along for 5 years by an ex till i said no mas and cut her off, trust me its noth worth it

Easier said than done. She lives with me and it wasn't my choice. I see her pretty much everyday. I'm not gonna lie I still have some feelings for her.

 

[MikelArteta]

Easier said than done. She lives with me and it wasn't my choice. I see her pretty much everyday.

move or tell her to gtfo

i remember that same ex lived with me for 4 months rent free because i was a nice guy sucker and she had nowhere else to stay and there was a bus strike, ish literally set me back to beforehand I never thought of her, to where i would think about her all day, and that led to basically destroying my life. Right now you can't even date, no girl will dae or get serious wiht a guy whose living with thier ex, and even the few that do your ex will get jealous and ruin it for you

this is antoher reason why I'll never introduce a girl to my parents unless i know 110% sure we are getitn gmarried

 

[Fatboi1]

move or tell her to gtfo

i remember that same ex lived with me for 4 months rent free because i was a nice guy sucker and she had nowhere else to stay and there was a bus strike, ish literally set me back to beforehand I never thought of her, to where i would think about her all day, and that led to basically destroying my life. Right now you can't even date, no girl will dae or get serious wiht a guy whose living with thier ex, and even the few that do your ex will get jealous and ruin it for you

this is antoher reason why I'll never introduce a girl to my parents unless i know 110% sure we are getitn gmarried

She pays for her rent and she's not here because I okayed it. She was cool with my cousin already so even when I broke up with her, she was still cool with my family. I didn't "introduce" her to my family, she was already known. I try and give her space but it doesn't really matter. I still gotta see her daily.

 

[MikelArteta]

She pays for her rent and she's not here because I okayed it. She was cool with my cousin already so even when I broke up with her, she was still cool with my family. I didn't "introduce" her to my family, she was already known. I try and give her space but it doesn't really matter. I still gotta see her daily.

that sucks

 

[Mr210]

She pays for her rent and she's not here because I okayed it. She was cool with my cousin already so even when I broke up with her, she was still cool with my family. I didn't "introduce" her to my family, she was already known. I try and give her space but it doesn't really matter. I still gotta see her daily.

Sucks for you

 

[Beerus]

regarding tinder again i dont know if i asked this before but
what happens when i met the chick do i tell her im from canada on vacation if she ask me where im from or i try to lie?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

This Ray Rice story brings up a point.Fellas if a woman tests you,hits you and curses you then LEAVE

 

[Mr210]

This Ray Rice story brings up a point.Fellas if a woman tests you,hits you and curses you then LEAVE

That goes without saying

 

[Beerus]

This Ray Rice story brings up a point.Fellas if a woman tests you,hits you and curses you then LEAVE

Nah ima let her hit me hit me good and call the cops on her ass

 

[Rocket Scientist]

That goes without saying

May sound cliche but as they say somebody won't listen

 

[Rocket Scientist]

That goes without saying

May sound cliche but as they say somebody won't listen edit:dbl

 

[Fatboi1]

that sucks

Yea it does. Fortunately I can limit myself from entering her room or just lingering around her for no apparent reason. I just now was in her room and she handed me her phone to check something for her and she left and curiosity overcame me and I just took a gander through her texts. Nothing major or whatnot but just a lot of convo's between different guys, some of them obviously coming off like she "likes" the guys.

After a while in there laying on her bed while she just did some things around the house, going in and out the room, I like someone who has nothing better to do just lingered around in her room. I was literally in her room from about 9PM to 11PM just laying on her bed on my phone browsing the coli while she ironed her clothes, took a bath, did some cosmetic work on herself and whatnot..


Finally close to 11 o clock she came on the bed and laid next to me but on opposite ends while she was chatting on facebook I assume. After laying there quiet for about 5 minutes, I just got up and hugged her and wished her a happy b day and left.(her b day tomorrow.)

After this I'm just going to stop really talking to her or messing with her besides a greeting or whatnot. I feel like I've put too much thoughts and energy into her and it just doesn't feel reciprocated and honestly it seems stupid to even want it reciprocated. Here I am, 25 years old, no kids with a car and a place to stay stressing out over an ex girlfriend who clearly has options or whatnot and sitting here plotting and thinking of ways to get in her draws.

Admittedly, I think I could've BEEN got em had I not been so hesitant and nervous but I think it's really not worth it in the long run.
I'll just sit this one out. I'm not ashamed to admit she's been the center of my thoughts for the past month and change. It's just not worth it,

I feel like I'm devaluing myself and wasting my time sitting around and constantly messing with her. Though she doesn't seem to mind me around and will play back, I feel it's just wasted effort on my part because there's no genuine interest from me aside from wanting sex and nothing else.